Technically I COULD put one (or even all  http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/03/diablotin.gif ) of my threads up there but that wouldn't look right. 
Cat


You ought to be awarded purely on the strengh of having the sexiest avatar on this site ....




























http://img219.imageshack.us/img219/7319/avatar59acopyas8.jpg
Your NEW avatar ?  ::)  :P    :D

You do realize that I probably won't ever get one.  :-\\ 



Cat


A cat? ???

You ought to be awarded purely on the strengh of having the sexiest avatar on this site ....




























http://img219.imageshack.us/img219/7319/avatar59acopyas8.jpg
Your NEW avatar ?  ::)  :P    :D







Um...I don't know what to say.


Cat

Um...I don't know what to say.


Cat



Thank You?

Um...I don't know what to say.


Cat


With an avatar like that .... you don't need to say ANYTHING. Just look your normal sexy self !  :)

















http://www.inthe00s.com/avatars_custom/avatar_59.png
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/14/love4.gif

With an avatar like that .... you don't need to say ANYTHING. Just look your normal sexy self !  :)

















http://www.inthe00s.com/avatars_custom/avatar_59.png
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/14/love4.gif



But that is not ME in the avatar.


I know, you only love me for my avatar.  :\'( :\'( :\'(



Cat

But that is not ME in the avatar.


I know, you only love me for my avatar.  :\'( :\'( :\'(
Cat




Poor baby !  :(




Maybe I can kiss her tears away ?  ??? 













:-* :-* :-*







(Yes, I have her avatar blown up life size .... on my bedroom wall !  :o  :P  ;D ).

Poor baby !  :(




Maybe I can kiss her tears away ?  ??? 













:-* :-* :-*







(Yes, I have her avatar blown up life size .... on my bedroom wall !  :o  :P  ;D ).



I'm sure Julie would be pleased to know that.

BTW, I emailed her once and she emailed me back.  :D ;D ;D  But, it was kind of a "form email" which bummed me out a bit.



Cat

I'm sure Julie would be pleased to know that.

BTW, I emailed her once and she emailed me back.  :D ;D ;D  But, it was kind of a "form email" which bummed me out a bit.



Cat







If you ask me ...... that's rather poor 'form'  >:(  :P

If you ask me ...... that's rather poor 'form'  >:(  :P



Bad pun.

I went to her website where she was encouraging people to write (email) to her so I did. And then she "responded" MONTHS later very non-personal type thing. I was not very impressed.



Cat

Bad pun.

I went to her website where she was encouraging people to write (email) to her so I did. And then she "responded" MONTHS later very non-personal type thing. I was not very impressed.



Cat


Consider her poster removed from my bedroom wall !  >:(














The BITCH !  >:(

So you are using pictures to avoid the topic? I can take a hint.  ;D












http://www.impawards.com/1970/posters/hornets_nest.jpg
THAT ^ one !  :-X :\'(
























http://images.pictopia.com.edgesuite.net/perl/get_image?provider_id=92&md=2007-11-14%2011:20:57&ptp_photo_id=2775587&size=320x320_mb


Or was it that one ^   ::) (Read all about it ?).   :P   ;D

So you are using pictures to avoid the topic? I can take a hint.  ;D



Sometimes best to let sleeping dogs lie.  :-X  < Slightly bowed, but definitely not beaten !  :P  ;D

Hi Rob...what's being avoided?

Sometimes best to let sleeping dogs lie.  :-X   < Slightly bowed, but definitely not beaten !   :P  ;D


Not a problem, lad. As long as you are over it that is what matters. :)

Hi Rob...what's being avoided?


Hello there, Pat. Mr Mister avoiding my questions, lol. I won't put him on the spot.

Hi Rob...what's being avoided?



SHH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    http://forum.pc-freakz.com/style_emoticons/default/secret.gif 



Dagnabit !  >:(  :(  .... There's always somebody ...  ::)

SHH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    http://forum.pc-freakz.com/style_emoticons/default/secret.gif 



Dagnabit !  >:(  :(  .... There's always somebody ...   ::)


Heh heh, you try for discretion but it never seems to work out that way, does it? Lol.  ;D

Rob....I said somewhere that I didn't see you ask questions and also do you wanna karma?

Heh heh, you try for discretion but it never seems to work out that way, does it? Lol.  ;D


Discretion is the better part of valour ?

I think Alan he has lost all rights to privacy.

Rob....I said somewhere that I didn't see you ask questions and also do you wanna karma?


Heh heh, I always ask questions otherwise I don't know . . . Some people mistake it for being nosey but I like to think I am being well informed, lol.

Erm . . . If you would like to give me one then cool . . . That is the karma, though if you would like to give me one I'll give you my phone number and address in a PM.  ;D

oh...you DID answer...that much for a karma??!!!

I gave you karma.

Erm . . . If you would like to give me one then cool . . . That is the karma, though if you would like to give me one I'll give you my phone number and address in a PM.  ;D





Have you been studying my 'technique' ... or does EVERY guy these days  have their mind in the gutter ?  ::)

Yay .... she fell into my trap. Primed you ..... and I had the honor of your 100th !  8)








Eat your heart out !  :P  :D

oh...you DID answer...that much for a karma??!!!

I gave you karma.


Ha ha. I guess turn about is fair play. Consider it done for . . . erm . . . being a musical term.  :)


k.

Good grief, exactly what I thought by yout laugh, Rob....you got karma.

That's all. And thanks

Yay .... she fell into my trap. Primed you ..... and I had the honor of your 100th !  8)










Eat your heart out !   :P  :D


Very suspicious answer that didn't make sense.  :P

Yay .... she fell into my trap. Primed you ..... and I had the honor of your 100th !  8)




Eat your heart out !   :P  :D


I don't know what I have done to get this karma, Mr Mister, but I will thank my mum, dad, pet dog and the next door neighbour for helping me to become the person I am today to recieve such an honour. :)

And you for giving it to me . . . That is the karma, lol.

I don't know what I have done to get this karma, Mr Mister, but I will thank my mum, dad, pet dog and the next door neighbour for helping me to become the person I am today to recieve such an honour. :)

And you for giving it to me . . . That is the karma, lol.


It all adds up ?  ::)





See my 'Wacky Karma redemption' thread : Here






Think you've got a ways to go before you get anything 'worthwhile' though.  :(  Let me know if you like any of the prizes !  :D

It all adds up ?  ::)



See my 'Wacky Karma redemption' thread : Here



Think you've got a ways to go before you get anything 'worthwhile' though.  :(  Let me know if you like any of the prizes !   :D


That is a very clever thread.  8)

I like the idea of a robot maid most definitely. All the housework done and nobody about to nag you to get your feet off the coffee table.  ;)

That is a very clever thread.  8)

I like the idea of a robot maid most definitely. All the housework done and nobody about to nag you to get your feet off the coffee table.  ;)



In the meantime .... you do have this 'honey' ......  :-*








































= 100 Karma:
http://hometown.aol.com/rufflife3628127/images/ugly%20girl.jpg
... to keep you amused ?  ::)







Another wrestler (?) just like yourself  :P

It all adds up ?  ::)





See my 'Wacky Karma redemption' thread : Here






Think you've got a ways to go before you get anything 'worthwhile' though.  :(  Let me know if you like any of the prizes !   :D



Do you have Chippendale guys for the women. We're not averse to cheesecake.

In the meantime .... you do have this 'honey' ......  :-*


= 100 Karma:
http://hometown.aol.com/rufflife3628127/images/ugly%20girl.jpg
... to keep you amused ?  ::)




Another wrestler (?) just like yourself   :P


That picture genuinely scared the crap out of me.  ;D

Karen, although you feel bad about it, you can apologize if it will make you feel better. Even if you don't, your son will forget about it and forgive you quickly! In fact, I'm sure it's happened already so I don't know why I'm replying to your feeling low. XD

That was good advice, Dom.  karma

I'm not feeling low cause it's my birthday. :)

Karen, although you feel bad about it, you can apologize if it will make you feel better. Even if you don't, your son will forget about it and forgive you quickly! In fact, I'm sure it's happened already so I don't know why I'm replying to your feeling low. XD


Thank you.

I did apologise - he said it was o.k. and promised to do better.  I'm still waiting  ::)

Thank you.

I did apologise - he said it was o.k. and promised to do better.  I'm still waiting  ::)




Along with Diana Ross ?

Along with Diana Ross ?


Nah, Phil Collins

I need me a good woman,I'm feeling low. :(

I need me a good woman,I'm feeling low. :(


*slaps Howard in the face to wake him up a bit*

He'll thank me later.  ;D

I need me a good woman,I'm feeling low. :(





*slaps Howard in the face to wake him up a bit*

He'll thank me later.  ;D



No need to worry about Howard, Bobby . He's thinking of a good woman  .... whilst 'feelling' low. The dirty bar-steward !

*slaps Howard in the face to wake him up a bit*

He'll thank me later.  ;D


Are there any in The UK?  ;) ;D

Are there any in The UK?  ;) ;D


Women? Allegedly.  ;D

Women? Allegedly.  ;D
I think there are women in the UK, somewhere?

I think there are women in the UK, somewhere?


Somewhat useful for ensuring the continuing population ...... APART from beating males over the head with a 'rolling pin' ?

Somewhat useful for ensuring the continuing population ...... APART from beating males over the head with a 'rolling pin' ?
...when the husband comes home late?

...when the husband comes home late?


What have you been up to ? What time of the night do you call this ? Your dinners been in the oven for ....... hours .......




Married 'bliss'  !  ::)  ;D

What have you been up to ? What time of the night do you call this ? Your dinners been in the oven for ....... hours .......




Married 'bliss'  !   ::)  ;D
"...your dinner is now in the dog!"

"...your dinner is now in the dog!"



Says 'Mrs. Eno' !  ^  :\'(























Mr. Eno ..........































http://www.innovationsxtreme.com/images/CanPedigreePal.jpg
will NOT be dining on 'Pal' tonight !  8)    ;D

I think I know what it is about you all...extreme deprivation!!!! http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/03/countdown.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/04/eek2.gif http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/07/outtahere.gif

This always makes me laugh when I'm feeling low
http://myspacetv.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=4192824

Can life get any worse HELL NO,my daughter and husband are always fighting with one another,and I'm stuck in the middle,now my daughter has run off and refuses to come home,she's putting on this big act in front of her friend's parents that if she goes home she will get beat,I keep calling their house I was told she called the police,I tried to explain that if she would just come home her dad wouldn't be so angry with her,but by calling the cops she is making things worse for herself.My husband is at work and I had to call him,now he wants to send her to a foster home,I just don't know what to do I love both of them,but they are pulling me apart,my daughter wants me to be the good mom,the one that let's her do things,my husband wants me to take his side always or he refuses to talk to me,to me they are both alike they both swear at each other.Good god the cops are here,she gave them this crap that she gets beat,oh my god you can get arrested too  if your lying the cop told me,maybe I'll have another stroke in the night and die.

Where is everyone tonight?  They're here. but not here. :-\\ :(
.

Can life get any worse HELL NO,my daughter and husband are always fighting with one another,and I'm stuck in the middle,now my daughter has run off and refuses to come home,she's putting on this big act in front of her friend's parents that if she goes home she will get beat,I keep calling their house I was told she called the police,I tried to explain that if she would just come home her dad wouldn't be so angry with her,but by calling the cops she is making things worse for herself.My husband is at work and I had to call him,now he wants to send her to a foster home,I just don't know what to do I love both of them,but they are pulling me apart,my daughter wants me to be the good mom,the one that let's her do things,my husband wants me to take his side always or he refuses to talk to me,to me they are both alike they both swear at each other.Good god the cops are here,she gave them this crap that she gets beat,oh my god you can get arrested too  if your lying the cop told me,maybe I'll have another stroke in the night and die.


Jesus !  This is heavy .....

I had no idea. No idea your life is like that, the domestic problems, and so on.


I've watched a bunch of those 'Super Nanny' programs.

Well, I imagine your daughter's a bit old for all this ... don't know. 'Brat Camp' too. Probably ideal ?


Kids are very clever at 'divide and conquer' with the parents .... playing them off against each other.

You and your husband need to be in total agreement on how to handle her ... AND more than anything ......send her a CONSISTENT  message of how her behaviour will or will not be tolerated. Good behaviour gets rewarded / praised ... bad behaviour ....

I guess it's a bit like raising a puppy ?


Still, I'm sure you know all this .....

Can life get any worse HELL NO,my daughter and husband are always fighting with one another,and I'm stuck in the middle,now my daughter has run off and refuses to come home,she's putting on this big act in front of her friend's parents that if she goes home she will get beat,I keep calling their house I was told she called the police,I tried to explain that if she would just come home her dad wouldn't be so angry with her,but by calling the cops she is making things worse for herself.My husband is at work and I had to call him,now he wants to send her to a foster home,I just don't know what to do I love both of them,but they are pulling me apart,my daughter wants me to be the good mom,the one that let's her do things,my husband wants me to take his side always or he refuses to talk to me,to me they are both alike they both swear at each other.Good god the cops are here,she gave them this crap that she gets beat,oh my god you can get arrested too  if your lying the cop told me,maybe I'll have another stroke in the night and die.
like Al said ninny, it sounds real heavy and kids are good at dividing parents in a battle, sometimes not intentionally. I am so sorry it's escalated into this. Do your best to be calm and sane.  I've had some bouts and yelling matches with my teen (18 now) and have always feared your situation. I hope she comes home and that there can be reconciliation between her and dad, even if counseling is needed. I just know us dads aren't very good at communicating and depend or expect our wives to help us, and in many cases we end up with wife/mom and daughter mad at us, but in this situation, I wish he would have backed off a little and try to undeerstand Melissa as best as possible and the multitude of changes she's going through as a teen. Sometimes I have to force myself to just shut up and keep from saying something harmful or stupid. Not an easy thing to do, but better than an all out nuclear assault. please keep Hope ninny  :)

Jesus !  This is heavy .....

I had no idea. No idea your life is like that, the domestic problems, and so on.


I've watched a bunch of those 'Super Nanny' programs.

Well, I imagine your daughter's a bit old for all this ... don't know. 'Brat Camp' too. Probably ideal ?


Kids are very clever at 'divide and conquer' with the parents .... playing them off against each other.

You and your husband need to be in total agreement on how to handle her ... AND more than anything ......send her a CONSISTENT  message of how her behaviour will or will not be tolerated. Good behaviour gets rewarded / praised ... bad behaviour ....

I guess it's a bit like raising a puppy ?


Still, I'm sure you know all this .....

I guess I would be at fault,when she ask to go somewhere or do something her father usually says no,but then she starts screaming and carrying on "Mom Mom and she doesn't stop till it finally gets to the point that I convince my husband to cave in and let her go.there are times when there is no reason for her not to go,but neither will cave in,He's on the phone telling me that he wishes she never was born,she yelling I hate him,why did you marry him,and I'm about to have a nervous breakdown.

I guess I would be at fault,when she ask to go somewhere or do something her father usually says no,but then she starts screaming and carrying on "Mom Mom and she doesn't stop till it finally gets to the point that I convince my husband to cave in and let her go.there are times when there is no reason for her not to go,but neither will cave in,He's on the phone telling me that he wishes she never was born,she yelling I hate him,why did you marry him,and I'm about to have a nervous breakdown.
lots of things said are said in anger or to hurt, and not really meant, I'm here to tell ya  ;)

I guess I would be at fault,when she ask to go somewhere or do something her father usually says no,but then she starts screaming and carrying on "Mom Mom and she doesn't stop till it finally gets to the point that I convince my husband to cave in and let her go.there are times when there is no reason for her not to go,but neither will cave in,He's on the phone telling me that he wishes she never was born,she yelling I hate him,why did you marry him,and I'm about to have a nervous breakdown.



I'm so sorry. Don't know what to say ....

like Al said ninny, it sounds real heavy and kids are good at dividing parents in a battle, sometimes not intentionally. I am so sorry it's escalated into this. Do your best to be calm and sane.  I've had some bouts and yelling matches with my teen (18 now) and have always feared your situation. I hope she comes home and that there can be reconciliation between her and dad, even if counseling is needed. I just know us dads aren't very good at communicating and depend or expect our wives to help us, and in many cases we end up with wife/mom and daughter mad at us, but in this situation, I wish he would have backed off a little and try to undeerstand Melissa as best as possible and the multitude of changes she's going through as a teen. Sometimes I have to force myself to just shut up and keep from saying something harmful or stupid. Not an easy thing to do, but better than an all out nuclear assault. please keep Hope ninny  :)

I'm trying to stay calm but it's not easy,she hasn't come home yet,the cops said they were going to bring her home over an half an hour ago so I have no idea what's going on.,I told my husband we need to see a counselor,but he's so mad he just wants to put her in foster care,she thinks everything will be better for her there,I've tried to explain to her she wont get to do what she wants in foster care.

The cops are here,they have a warrant, my daughter told them  he has pot ,HELP

The cops are here,they have a warrant, my daughter told them  he has pot ,HELP


Damn it ! I worried / wondered whether she' d blow the whistle on that !



That helps nobody !  ........




What a mess !

The cops are here,they have a warrant, my daughter told them  he has pot ,HELP
oh my heavens.  Try to take it as best you can, stuff like this happens and one day, hopefully you'll all look back and think WTF?  I sure hope the cops don;t make a big deal out of this. who knows what they got your daughter to say, she may not have volunteered info, and they're very sly on finding out info. I feel for all of you and will keep you at the top of my prayer list.

oh my heavens.  Try to take it as best you can, stuff like this happens and one day, hopefully you'll all look back and think WTF?  I sure hope the cops don;t make a big deal out of this. who knows what they got your daughter to say, she may not have volunteered info, and they're very sly on finding out info. I feel for all of you and will keep you at the top of my prayer list.


I second that....This situation calls for calm (and some prayers). I have 16 yr old daughter and can see how easily things can escalate (especially with us hot tempered stubborn males). Too many hurtful words exchanged that can't be easily taken back. We could get away with it when they were younger but now memories are longer...

Hope this all works out for you soon........and If you ever need a shoulder...

Can life get any worse HELL NO,my daughter and husband are always fighting with one another,and I'm stuck in the middle,now my daughter has run off and refuses to come home,she's putting on this big act in front of her friend's parents that if she goes home she will get beat,I keep calling their house I was told she called the police,I tried to explain that if she would just come home her dad wouldn't be so angry with her,but by calling the cops she is making things worse for herself.My husband is at work and I had to call him,now he wants to send her to a foster home,I just don't know what to do I love both of them,but they are pulling me apart,my daughter wants me to be the good mom,the one that let's her do things,my husband wants me to take his side always or he refuses to talk to me,to me they are both alike they both swear at each other.Good god the cops are here,she gave them this crap that she gets beat,oh my god you can get arrested too  if your lying the cop told me,maybe I'll have another stroke in the night and die.


I have absolutely nothing worthy to say here, ninny.

I just hope you find a solution to the family discord. :(

Can life get any worse HELL NO,my daughter and husband are always fighting with one another,and I'm stuck in the middle,now my daughter has run off and refuses to come home,she's putting on this big act in front of her friend's parents that if she goes home she will get beat,I keep calling their house I was told she called the police,I tried to explain that if she would just come home her dad wouldn't be so angry with her,but by calling the cops she is making things worse for herself.My husband is at work and I had to call him,now he wants to send her to a foster home,I just don't know what to do I love both of them,but they are pulling me apart,my daughter wants me to be the good mom,the one that let's her do things,my husband wants me to take his side always or he refuses to talk to me,to me they are both alike they both swear at each other.Good god the cops are here,she gave them this crap that she gets beat,oh my god you can get arrested too  if your lying the cop told me,maybe I'll have another stroke in the night and die.

I had a friend in High School once, whose sister pulled something similar to what your daughter pulled.
This girl claimed that their dad was sexually molesting her (which he wasn't), and she was made a Ward of the State. He had to do time, and lost his position in the Security firm where he worked.
Even though she later recanted her statement & said she said it because she was pissed off, they wouldn't release her back home.

I totally feel for you, and I hope things work out for the better for you.

Sorry for your problems, ninny, I really do hope that they work out for the best.



Hi, Wayne!

Where is everyone tonight?  They're here. but not here. :-\\ :(
.


Are we feeling low this morning?

Where is everyone tonight?  They're here. but not here. :-\\ :(
.
I can account for myself.

I can account for myself.


We're here but we're NOT here.

Sorry for your problems, ninny, I really do hope that they work out for the best.



Hi, Wayne!

Thank you

We're here but we're NOT here.
One has to sleep sometime.

One has to sleep sometime.


Even a pwh gets tired ?

Even a pwh gets tired ?
Pwhs do have their limits.

oh my heavens.  Try to take it as best you can, stuff like this happens and one day, hopefully you'll all look back and think WTF?  I sure hope the cops don;t make a big deal out of this. who knows what they got your daughter to say, she may not have volunteered info, and they're very sly on finding out info. I feel for all of you and will keep you at the top of my prayer list.

Thanks

I had a friend in High School once, whose sister pulled something similar to what your daughter pulled.
This girl claimed that their dad was sexually molesting her (which he wasn't), and she was made a Ward of the State. He had to do time, and lost his position in the Security firm where he worked.
Even though she later recanted her statement & said she said it because she was pissed off, they wouldn't release her back home.

I totally feel for you, and I hope things work out for the better for you.

Thank you,we hope things work out

Sorry for your problems, ninny, I really do hope that they work out for the best.



Hi, Wayne!

Thank you

ninny - nothing really to add to what the others have said (great advice guys!).  Just hope that you can calm things down and try and sort things out between the three of you. 

Also to let you know that if you can keep things decent now then your daughter will probably be a changed person in a couple of years.  I was a holy terror for a couple of years but everything came good in the end.

Carlos says that people enter this tunnel about the age of 12 or 13. They usually emerge from that tunnel about the age of 18 or 19 and you hope that they come out on the other end as human beings.



Cat

I second that....This situation calls for calm (and some prayers). I have 16 yr old daughter and can see how easily things can escalate (especially with us hot tempered stubborn males). Too many hurtful words exchanged that can't be easily taken back. We could get away with it when they were younger but now memories are longer...

Hope this all works out for you soon........and If you ever need a shoulder...

Sorry I did not answer before,Thanks for your concern,We are still waiting for her to come home. The cops said she is 16 so legally they can't make her come home

ninny - nothing really to add to what the others have said (great advice guys!).  Just hope that you can calm things down and try and sort things out between the three of you. 

Also to let you know that if you can keep things decent now then your daughter will probably be a changed person in a couple of years.  I was a holy terror for a couple of years but everything came good in the end.

Thank you,my husband and I both fear she maybe pregnant and she is to afraid of her dad to tell us.

Carlos says that people enter this tunnel about the age of 12 or 13. They usually emerge from that tunnel about the age of 18 or 19 and you hope that they come out on the other end as human beings.



Cat

This is true,everything was fine until she turned 14 and moved from the country to the town we live in.My son who is 18 always had a mouth but he was never this bad,actually he gets along with my husband better now than he ever did.

This is true,everything was fine until she turned 14 and moved from the country to the town we live in.My son who is 18 always had a mouth but he was never this bad,actually he gets along with my husband better now than he ever did.


Wow Janine I too am sorry you're going through this as well. 

I have no kids so my advise isn't much but you keep talking about the volatile relationship your husband and daughter have...how is your relationship with her? Maybe the two of you can sit down and talk things through without your husband. 

How did your daughter react with your first stroke. I imagine the stress can't be good for you maybe rational heads can prevail...let her know how you're feeling hell guilt her into doing something for your sake if for no other reasons.

Maybe look at the rules that are in place and see if any can be changed or done away with. I think if she sees you're trying to work with her rather than controlling her she might be more open to dialogue..if she is pregnant tho...there isn't a whole lot you can do about it...three options really accept that it happened, let her know you love in spite of her anger (you just maybe don't like her very much)  and see where you can go from there.

What do I know ... its easier to analyze from where I'm sitting...good luck to you and I'm always available if you need a friend.. I can listen too.

Wow Janine I too am sorry you're going through this as well. 

I have no kids so my advise isn't much but you keep talking about the volatile relationship your husband and daughter have...how is your relationship with her? Maybe the two of you can sit down and talk things through without your husband. 

How did your daughter react with your first stroke. I imagine the stress can't be good for you maybe rational heads can prevail...let her know how you're feeling hell guilt her into doing something for your sake if for no other reasons.

Maybe look at the rules that are in place and see if any can be changed or done away with. I think if she sees you're trying to work with her rather than controlling her she might be more open to dialogue..if she is pregnant tho...there isn't a whole lot you can do about it...three options really accept that it happened, let her know you love in spite of her anger (you just maybe don't like her very much)  and see where you can go from there.

What do I know ... its easier to analyze from where I'm sitting...good luck to you and I'm always available if you need a friend.. I can listen too.



I always thought we had a good relationship,I admit there have been times she has tried my patients and I have things I shouldn't have,but usually I'm the one she comes to if she has something to tell me,We moved about 3 months before my stroke,then the summer I was recovering is when she started to go wild,take off with her friends,meet boys,she knew I couldn't chase after her and my husband was working the swing shift.
I talked to her on myspace and she said she has things to deal with.

I always thought we had a good relationship,I admit there have been times she has tried my patients and I have things I shouldn't have,but usually I'm the one she comes to if she has something to tell me,We moved about 3 months before my stroke,then the summer I was recovering is when she started to go wild,take off with her friends,meet boys,she knew I couldn't chase after her and my husband was working the swing shift.
I talked to her on myspace and she said she has things to deal with.



I take it she's aware you post on this site .... so could be reading this / anything here ?  ???

I take it she's aware you post on this site .... so could be reading this / anything here ?   ???

No,well she knows about the site but she would never go on it,I'm more worried about my husband.

It might do her good to see the concern you have for her.

It might do her good to see the concern you have for her.

Right now I think the people she is staying with are filling her head full of garbage,so she wont listen to me,and she certainly wont talk to her dad.I talked to her briefly on myspace and she said she is going through alot and she needs time,plus she said CPS told her to stay there.

Even a pwh gets tired ?


What's a PWH?

I'm not sure if that's a standard abbreviation or not ....

Postwhore ... I chose 3 letters. Phil can clarify if  general usage ?

I'm not sure if that's a standard abbreviation or not ....

Postwhore ... I chose 3 letters. Phil can clarify if  general usage ?
It is an acronym Al has invented.

It is an acronym Al has invented.


I need to take a patent out on those letters ?

I need to take a patent out on those letters ?
With the Patent Office, don't forget Copyright.

With the Patent Office, don't forget Copyright.


I could go down in history .... immortalized as the man who coined pwh  for 'postwhore' ?

I could go down in history .... immortalized as the man who coined pwh  for 'postwhore' ?
...which could also mean Please Work Hard?

...which could also mean Please Work Hard?


Ow ... now I'm starting to feel low.

Oh yeah .... I'm feeling low that I still haven't powered up the brand new all in one photocopier/ printer machine, even though it's sitting just a couple of feet from me. Had it nearly 2 months now .... so, give me a chance ?

Ow ... now I'm starting to feel low.

Oh yeah .... I'm feeling low that I still haven't powered up the brand new all in one photocopier/ printer machine, even though it's sitting just a couple of feet from me. Had it nearly 2 months now .... so, give me a chance ?
To give you a chance, I will not post here in this thread for the next half hour.

To give you a chance, I will not post here in this thread for the next half hour.


No chance of that. Was just trying to get this back on topic .... don't wanna upset Dom ... who I don't mind .. he seems to be generally fair. Guess I get carried away in threads occasionally, just going with the flow ....

Now that I have admitted about the printer ..... perhaps I might embarrass myself into action within a few days ?

Back to the topic:

I am feeling low today, for I wish to go somewhere, but my body says no.

Back to the topic:

I am feeling low today, for I wish to go somewhere, but my body says no.


Any particular part ?

Any particular part ?
Central London

Central London


I meant any particular part of your body ...

I meant any particular part of your body ...
I do not have that get up and go feeling.

What's a PWH?


:o  I can't believe it!!  I knew that one and you didn't??!!!

I do not have that get up and go feeling.


So..you're get up and go got up and went?

So..you're get up and go got up and went?
...only to the kitchen.

I meant any particular part of your body ...


Well, I was going to say something about getting the feeling that someone is following you in posts, but I looked at yours...you've turned into a pwh yourself, so I'm no better off, except for reaching the next level.

:-\\

Well, I was going to say something about getting the feeling that someone is following you in posts, but I looked at yours...you've turned into a pwh yourself, so I'm no better off, except for reaching the next level.

:-\\
PWH Level 1?

PWH Level 1?


I suppose...:)

I suppose...:)
...but how many levels are there?

...but how many levels are there?


I don't know...how do you count the levels?  Just count them by the titles achieved?  So what level are you? Isn't opus the highest name?

Bye-Be for now.  I guess the others vanished also, but I bet Gibbo will be back.  :)

Bye-Be for now.  I guess the others vanished also, but I bet Gibbo will be back.   :)
I vanished then, but baack for the moment.

I'm feeling high right now.

I'm feeling high right now.
I'm somewhere in the middle

I'm just ok.                (snicker)

I'm somewhere in the middle


not too high and not too low? ???

Better than earlier.

Better than earlier.


me too Phil,took a nice hot shower and feeling better.

me too Phil,took a nice hot shower and feeling better.
Family are home, television is on, all here are happy.

I'm not really feeling low, but my ISP is acting up. Thank goodness I have DSL. I could check other pages.  I just get my mail from aol, but  something is wrong with it, so I had to forgo my usual routine of checking the e-mail right then.  Sometimes it ALMOST  clears up, but right now is just giving me e-mail 1 or 2 at a time...I have to sign out and then sign in again to get 2 more.  Crazy machine

I'm not really feeling low, but my ISP is acting up. Thank goodness I have DSL. I could check other pages.   I just get my mail from aol, but  something is wrong with it, so I had to forgo my usual routine of checking the e-mail right then.  Sometimes it ALMOST  clears up, but right now is just giving me e-mail 1 or 2 at a time...I have to sign out and then sign in again to get 2 more.  Crazy machine


That's really strange. Maybe there's some setting you could change in your preferences?

I'll look around, but it seems to indicate AOL is messing up.

Teela was riding her bike today, and ended up spraining her left ankle badly.
She's on bed rest for a few days. I feel low on her account.

Teela was riding her bike today, and ended up spraining her left ankle badly.
She's on bed rest for a few days. I feel low on her account.


Gee...Hope she recovers quickly ....and you feel 'higher' .

Teela was riding her bike today, and ended up spraining her left ankle badly.
She's on bed rest for a few days. I feel low on her account.


That is really a bummer.  I hope she gets to feeling better.

Teela was riding her bike today, and ended up spraining her left ankle badly.
She's on bed rest for a few days. I feel low on her account.

I hope she's up and about soon.

I'm feeling a bit low,I have no one to hang out with after work on Sundays anymore. :\'(

I feel low... I worked Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday....

showed up on Saturday to give a test to hire new dispatchers but only one person showed up so my boss said I could leave...that means I got up at 6am showered and drove 15 miles ( 30 round trip & who can afford the gas), and paid $10 for donuts

Now its Sunday and I forgot about Daylight Savings Time so I woke up at 530 only to find it was really 630 and was late for work...only by 10 minutes tho because I drove 95MPH the whole way  ;D

I have to work 14 hours today - no lunch no break  >:(
14 hours tomorrow - no lunch no break  >:(
and 10 hours on Tues.... Tuesday is normally my day off.

I feel low... I worked Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday....

showed up on Saturday to give a test to hire new dispatchers but only one person showed up so my boss said I could leave...that means I got up at 6am showered and drove 15 miles ( 30 round trip & who can afford the gas), and paid $10 for donuts

Now its Sunday and I forgot about Daylight Savings Time so I woke up at 530 only to find it was really 630 and was late for work...only by 10 minutes tho because I drove 95MPH the whole way  ;D

I have to work 14 hours today - no lunch no break  >:(
14 hours tomorrow - no lunch no break  >:(
and 10 hours on Tues.... Tuesday is normally my day off.





That does sound sucky !  :(

That Saturday .... $10 for donuts ...... are you saying you didn't get paid for that day though ? Hardly your fault if virtually no one shows up. You SHOULD get paid for that day IMHO .... and if not, I'd be looking for alternative employment, as opposed to 'slave labour' !  >:(

Yeah, you seem to be working very long hours.  :(

That does sound sucky !  :(

That Saturday .... $10 for donuts ...... are you saying you didn't get paid for that day though ? Hardly your fault if virtually no one shows up. You SHOULD get paid for that day IMHO .... and if not, I'd be looking for alternative employment, as opposed to 'slave labour' !  >:(

Yeah, you seem to be working very long hours.  :(


Oh I get paid for the 1hr and 1/2 I waited for people to show up but I would've rather stayed in bed... I was supposed to work 0800-1200 I went home at 0945. But I had initially requested the whole day off because of the schedule I worked. I was granted the day off but then they scheduled the test and I had to show up for that. I was only let go because the others testees didn't show up...If they had I would've worked until noon that day.

I do work long hours...which I don't mind but this no lunch no break thing is ridiculous...especially on a 14 hour shift.  I have to call a police officer in just to go to the bathroom.

Oh I get paid for the 1hr and 1/2 I waited for people to show up but I would've rather stayed in bed... I was supposed to work 0800-1200 I went home at 0945. But I had initially requested the whole day off because of the schedule I worked. I was granted the day off but then they scheduled the test and I had to show up for that. I was only let go because the others testees didn't show up...If they had I would've worked until noon that day.

I do work long hours...which I don't mind but this no lunch no break thing is ridiculous...especially on a 14 hour shift.  I have to call a police officer in just to go to the bathroom.






That sounds terrible ! Looks like you need a union. 14 hours, no lunch break ...  >:(  .... There's nothing to joke about here.

I believe the US DOES have strong unions in certain industries (?).... but obviously, not yours ... if you even have one !

Our former PM .... rotten little Johnny Howard .... is now out of a job .... EVEN lost his own 'seat' in the last election (the humiliation .... my heart just bled for him    :P  ;D ) ... yeah .... he and his lot ... the equivalent of your 'Republicans' ... did what they could to remove the workers conditions acquired over many years .... making them more employer friendly. Fortunately, Kevin Rudd and the labor party are looking at doing what they can to get things back in the workers favour !


I don't envy you.  :(

That sounds terrible ! Looks like you need a union. 14 hours, no lunch break ...  >:(  .... There's nothing to joke about here.

I believe the US DOES have strong unions in certain industries (?).... but obviously, not yours ... if you even have one !

Our former PM .... rotten little Johnny Howard .... is now out of a job .... EVEN lost his own 'seat' in the last election (the humiliation .... my heart just bled for him    :P  ;D ) ... yeah .... he and his lot ... the equivalent of your 'Republicans' ... did what they could to remove the workers conditions acquired over many years .... making them more employer friendly. Fortunately, Kevin Rudd and the labor party are looking at doing what they can to get things back in the workers favour !


I don't envy you.  :(



yeah we have a union but its kind of ass backwards because the dispatchers fall into the same union as Admin Assistants (secretaries). The Dispatchers make 10 - 15 more an hour so whenever we complain they pretty much could care less because they are jealous of what we make.

Truth is, we are short staffed and only have one dispatcher on duty a lot of the times. Legally we cannot leave the 911 lines unattended that's why no breaks- we're not allowed to leave the bldg for any reason...though if the place catches on fire I'm outta here I don't make enough to die for this place!  ;D

Anyway, none of the officers know how to do my job...not because they can't but because they don't want to... they know we can't leave but always forget to give us bathroom breaks or check and see if we need anything.

Truth is, we are short staffed and only have one dispatcher on duty a lot of the times. Legally we cannot leave the 911 lines unattended that's why no breaks- we're not allowed to leave the bldg for any reason...though if the place catches on fire I'm outta here I don't make enough to die for this place!  ;D




Quite right. I admire those people who get into jobs that they think IS worth dying for ( firemen, military, police .... etc;) .... but I ain't one of them !  :-

Anyway, none of the officers know how to do my job...not because they can't but because they don't want to... they know we can't leave but always forget to give us bathroom breaks or check and see if we need anything.




Sounds like maybe you should invest in diapers ?  ???  :P

Quite right. I admire those people who get into jobs that they think IS worth dying for ( firemen, military, police .... etc;) .... but I ain't one of them !  :-[




Sounds like maybe you should invest in diapers ?  ???  :P






;D

BTW despite my complaining there are some perks too... like right now its slow so I am watching Sunset Blvd.

I have a pretty big project I have been working on but the officers kept interrupting me so I took a break.

Not really supposed to spend a lot of time online but they don't mind too much as long as we stick to the right websites and get our work done keep our priorities straight.

I get to save lives and that's cool too.

BTW despite my complaining there are some perks too... like right now its slow so I am watching Sunset Blvd.

I have a pretty big project I have been working on but the officers kept interrupting me so I took a break.

Not really supposed to spend a lot of time online but they don't mind too much as long as we stick to the right websites and get our work done keep our priorities straight.

I get to save lives and that's cool too.




Well, it's some compensation you're allowed to come here and 'get paid for it' ?  Hey !  ???  >:(  ...... 'Where's MY cut ?'  ???  :P  ;D :D

Well, it's some compensation you're allowed to come here and 'get paid for it' ?  Hey !  ???  >:(  ...... 'Where's MY cut ?'  ???  :P  ;D :D




you can have these when I am done with them

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee17/Imacolata/disposable-toxic-diapers.jpg




;D




http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj227/shir_010/kiss.gif

you can have these when I am done with them

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee17/Imacolata/disposable-toxic-diapers.jpg




;D




http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj227/shir_010/kiss.gif





Ooh ! On second thoughts ......  :-X


Maybe 'Dude 111' would be interested ? His interests DO seem to lie in that area !  ;D

Ooh ! On second thoughts ......  :-X


Maybe 'Dude 111' would be interested ? His interests DO seem to lie in that area !  ;D



;D

you can have these when I am done with them

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee17/Imacolata/disposable-toxic-diapers.jpg




;D




http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj227/shir_010/kiss.gif





Would that happen to be a male or female ass? ???

Would that happen to be a male or female ass? ???
I am not asking.

Would that happen to be a male or female ass? ???


Why should you care ? Why should  I care ?    ???






Damn ... I don't wanna be anywhere near it !  :-\\







Guess what though.  This is the absolute truth (so help me) ....  :-X  8-P







I've no idea how they measure this  :-X  (Don't think I wanna know either !  :-X  )  .....








I have read in a highly respected newspaper in Australia .... 'The Sydney Morning Herald'  no less .....  :o  .... in a supplemental magazine .....







that a certain University study concluded that female ....... umh  ....... as opposed to male ..... uhm ........ had a higher 'pong' factor .... to


put it in more common terms ? 





???  :o   








:P  ;D :D

Why should you care ? Why should  I care ?    ???






Damn ... I don't wanna be anywhere near it !   :-\\







Guess what though.  This is the absolute truth (so help me) ....  :-X  8-P







I've no idea how they measure this   :-X   (Don't think I wanna know either !   :-X   )  .....








I have read in a highly respected newspaper in Australia .... 'The Sydney Morning Herald'  no less .....   :o  .... in a supplemental magazine .....







that a certain University study concluded that female ....... umh  ....... as opposed to male ..... uhm ........ had a higher 'pong' factor .... to


put it in more common terms ? 





???   :o   








:P   ;D :D





It is the question of the toxic fumes.

It is the question of the toxic fumes.


If they leave you wanting to leave the room 'quick smart'  .... that's toxic enough for me !    :P  ;D  :D

If they leave you wanting to leave the room 'quick smart'  .... that's toxic enough for me !     :P  ;D  :D
...emissions causing the global warming?

Guess what though.  This is the absolute truth (so help me) ....  :-X  8-P

I have read in a highly respected newspaper in Australia .... 'The Sydney Morning Herald'  no less .....   :o  .... in a supplemental magazine .....

that a certain University study concluded that female ....... umh  ....... as opposed to male ..... uhm ........ had a higher 'pong' factor .... to


put it in more common terms ? 





???   :o   








:P   ;D :D







common to you there, but what does 'Pong' mean here? 

common to you there, but what does 'Pong' mean here? 
Pong

Thank you, Philip! :)


Were you able to find my parody?

Thank you, Philip! :)


Were you able to find my parody?
Nope, the link you gave lead me totally elsewhere.

Nope, the link you gave lead me totally elsewhere.


Where ?  It should be a post on Mr. Mister's Fan Club.

Where ?  It should be a post on Mr. Mister's Fan Club.
The link you gave lead me to another thread, not to a parody.

Here's a link that leads directly to the parody in the parody section..


http://www.amiright.com/parody/70s/simongarfunkel9.shtml

Guess what though.  This is the absolute truth (so help me) ....  :-X  8-P

I've no idea how they measure this   :-X   (Don't think I wanna know either !   :-X   )  .....

I have read in a highly respected newspaper in Australia .... 'The Sydney Morning Herald'  no less .....   :o  .... in a supplemental magazine .....that a certain University study concluded that female ....... umh  ....... as opposed to male ..... uhm ........ had a higher 'pong' factor .... to


put it in more common terms ? 
???   :o   

:P   ;D :D



I wonder if that's because many women are told that it is not polite to fart and therefore hold it in until it really has to escape?  Whereas many men just 'let rip' whenever

Here's a link that leads directly to the parody in the parody section..


http://www.amiright.com/parody/70s/simongarfunkel9.shtml
I am reading it now.

Would that happen to be a male or female ass? ???


it might be a baby's ass...if this is the case then we are in dangerous territory  :-X

it might be a baby's ass...if this is the case then we are in dangerous territory  :-X



this is what happens when i get into a conversation in the middle. :o

I wonder if that's because many women are told that it is not polite to fart and therefore hold it in until it really has to escape?  Whereas many men just 'let rip' whenever


I just pass gas at home.

the price of gas is going up.

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.


Awww...I'm sorry to hear that, Rob!  :-\\

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.


people suck!

Awww...I'm sorry to hear that, Rob!  :-\\


It's cool. There are a set of people at work who get a lot of pleasure from talking about others behind their back (which workplace doesn't I guess). At least I successfully avoid them for the majority of the time.

people suck!


Well I wonder whether people do suck or whether my standards are too high for people to aspire too. I don't know.

It's cool. There are a set of people at work who get a lot of pleasure from talking about others behind their back (which workplace doesn't I guess). At least I successfully avoid them for the majority of the time.



Didn't you have "issues" with them before or is this a different set of people?



Cat

Didn't you have "issues" with them before or is this a different set of people?


It's all kind of linked in a way (I think anyway). They are in a gang and I completely deny all existence of one person but the other two or three I am realising they are just as bad after looking back over the past six months or so. Interesting really because one person I had a crush on . . . at least I am cured of that. :)

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.
at least now you know not to trust them, so it's probably good you overheard them even though it sucks.
when people are like that, then my motto is...  f**k em!      who needs em'!

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.


That's not nice of them, but a wise move on your part. karma for you

That's not nice of them, but a wise move on your part. karma for you


Yeah Bobby ... ya don't need them as close friends. Now you know who not to trust with personal information.

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.




at least now you know not to trust them, so it's probably good you overheard them even though it sucks.
when people are like that, then my motto is...  f**k em!      who needs em'!




>:( Yeah Bobby ! That sucks. Like Mike said ...


























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f**k em!    >:(      :P    ;D

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.

That royally bites the yambag!
And it doesn't just happen in workplaces, either, mate.
It happens damn near everywhere.

I give you karma for the wisdom of your action.
People that like you will like you for who you are.
People that don't- tell 'em to pogue mahon.
There are those out there, who like you because of you.

the price of gas is going up.


By 4 dollars. :o

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.


That's not nice.

By 4 dollars. :o


Surely not by THAT much?  (must be by the tank)

Heard on the news it will go up 15 cents per litre tonight in Australia...more by Easter! :(

That royally bites the yambag!
And it doesn't just happen in workplaces, either, mate.
It happens damn near everywhere.

I give you karma for the wisdom of your action.
People that like you will like you for who you are.
People that don't- tell 'em to pogue mahon.
There are those out there, who like you because of you.



mmmm yambag......what did you say wayne you lost me at YAMS!

I'm not really low but I am dissapointed. Someone was not talking nice things about me behind my back today but didn't have the presence of mind to check to see if I was in the room or not, so I have been re-evaluating my friendships and what I require from them.

That sucks...It sometimes seems that people don't change even when they get older,childish behavior like this starts in school and contains when they get older in the workplace......I've had several people who I thought were friends only to find out laterthey weren't >:(

mmmm yambag......what did you say wayne you lost me at YAMS!






I yam what I yam.



Cat

I yam what I yam.



Cat


TOOT! TOOT! http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o318/stargleamdancer/popeye.gif

Surely not by THAT much?  (must be by the tank)

Heard on the news it will go up 15 cents per litre tonight in Australia...more by Easter! :(


They said probably by the summertime.

"The Feeling Low" Feeling should be better in the summer.

"The Feeling Low" Feeling should be better in the summer.


for everyone who enjoys the summer.

for everyone who enjoys the summer.
...and cricket starts then and that will cheer me up.

...and cricket starts then and that will cheer me up.


and women who wear "less". ;)

and women who wear "less". ;)
...that as well.

and women who wear "less". ;)



Shallow Howard. So 'shallow'  ::)  :(  ..... and I know he's gotta have missed my newest thread ... else he'd've had something to say  (we male chauvinist pigs gotta stick together  !  :P  ;D ).

I'm feeling pretty low, on account of my daughter (see News- MARCH thread)

I'm feeling pretty low, on account of my daughter (see News- MARCH thread)


I understand how you feel.

Shallow Howard. So 'shallow'   ::)  :(  ..... and I know he's gotta have missed my newest thread ... else he'd've had something to say  (we male chauvinist pigs gotta stick together  !   :P  ;D ).


What new thread?

And where is the News - MARCH thread?

What new thread?

And where is the News - MARCH thread?


See PPP. Could be on the second or 3rd page by now ? Relates to 'inventions'.


Hmm. Maybe best you DON'T see it ! Or any other female on this site  :-\\ :P  ;D