Do you have strict qualities?
But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.
OK, I gotcha! Good luck in the future with your romantic endeavors :).


Good luck 2 you 2!  8)  8)  8)

That's what I'm feeling. I actually did have a preference of qualities I wanted in a girl, but the problem is that it's going to limit my choices on dating.
I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.

That's.. deep. I like this.

Good luck 2 you 2!  8)  8)  8)

Thanks! 8)

I don't know....don't hurt me :(.

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You better damn well understand where I'm coming from, or else you're a part of the pro-Trump patriarchy. Jacqueline is indirectly supporting Trump's rape culture by embracing her traditional femininity instead of assuming her rightful place as a lesbian, on the frontlines.

Does the lesbian community here treat you like a second class citizen?


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.

With children

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You better damn well understand where I'm coming from, or else you're a part of the pro-Trump patriarchy. Jacqueline is indirectly supporting Trump's rape culture by embracing her traditional femininity instead of assuming her rightful place as a lesbian, on the frontlines.

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More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.

Oh noooo :\'(. That's so wrong....I think that you're a great woman. Don't let them get to you!.

With children

That's wonderful...congrats to you and your husband :).

Do you have strict qualities?

But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.
I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.

I know. I have had that same experience too. I honestly wish they would accept it. I don't even think insecure girls are ugly.


I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.
Yeah, my mom said the same thing. She can't have any children or I cant date her. However, that is much harder to find as one gets older because some women will either already have children or be taken.


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.
That's f*cked up! I really wish the lesbians here would give you a chance. You're a great person ever since I met you, and those ladies are clearly missing a opportunity by not giving you a chance.

I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.
This might be stereotypical but I thought that California girls are easy. BTW, where in California are you? (you can say the county or nearest city...if you don't want to give your actual city).


I know. I have had that same experience too. I honestly wish they would accept it. I don't even think insecure girls are ugly.

Same (well...mostly).

With children


Wait... Are you joking? I didn't know any of this! :o Congrats!

Poke men are hot! Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

This might be stereotypical but I thought that California girls are easy. BTW, where in California are you? (you can say the county or nearest city...if you don't want to give your actual city)
I think they still are, but I'm not entirely sure though.

And I'm close to LA County.

Cucumber children?  :(  :(


aren't we cute        that cat better watch it,  it's got a couple super combo makers to watch for besides just me

That's wonderful...congrats to you and your husband :).


thanks

I used to, but not anymore because it would be difficult to find the perfect girl with my requirements. That's why I'm going to branch out.

I think your looking too into it.

You wouldn't date any girl, man.

I think your looking too into it.

You wouldn't date any girl, man.
Not even morbidly obese girls?

I think they still are, but I'm not entirely sure though.

And I'm close to LA County.

Soo...Orange County?

Soo...Orange County?
No. SD County.

aren't we cute        that cat better watch it,  it's got a couple super combo makers to watch for besides just me


I apologize. That was rude of me.

You joke a lot on this website and it's hard for me to tell if you're joking, or being serious! Again, I'm sorry. That was rude of me.

Not even morbidly obese girls?

I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.


No. SD County.

Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).

I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).
Why not? It is because they are mainly unhealthy?

Not exactly ;D, but I will have someone one day. Since I'm out of school, I will be going out with friends and famiy to meet women that way I have support. Doing it by yourself isn't that easy.

Yes it was >:(

Why not? It is because they are mainly unhealthy?
Yes, I wouldn't date them because they are unhealthy. Why would you date a morbidly obese woman?


Not exactly ;D, but I will have someone one day. Since I'm out of school, I will be going out with friends and famiy to meet women that way I have support. Doing it by yourself isn't that easy.

I was half joking but anyways that's great. Good luck bro!

I couldn't go out with my fam to find a girl...they would embarrass me so much.

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Excuse me while I retweet my new petition to prevent gangsta rap from finding widespread promotion due to its inherently negative messages. You should get with the times and listen to Future and Desiigner's new hit songs. #trap


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"Future? You think I'm some kind of girl!? Listen up I don't listen to Justin Timberlake I listen to rap. fiddy cent, snoooooooooooooop, timbaland but none of that Justin Timberlake crap! If I had that blastin on my psp I would beat up in the locker room!"



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You are an absolute disgrace leeching off of black culture. I don't care if MTV aired Pimp My Ride to white suburban teens across the nation, they should be promoting shows that feature hipster-SJW blacks because that's the only way we're going to create a diverse nation.


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"Yo listen up lady, I don't know nothin bout orangutans attack in black but I do know that Xzibit is sooooo sick. I've downloaded pretty much every episode of pimp my ride and put them on my psp so i can watch on the go."


More or less. They certainly don't see anything special or worth comforting in me. They basically treat me like a pariah for being a hopeless romantic whose style icons are more along the lines of Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, Nancy Sinatra, and Bette Davis than Tegan & Sara and post-closet Kristen Stewart.


Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart are so lame. Public figures like that are nothing more than "let's pretend we're counter culture!" while pandering to the hipster trends.

Yes, I wouldn't date them because they are unhealthy. Why would you date a morbidly obese woman?
I was half joking but anyways that's great. Good luck bro!

I couldn't go out with my fam to find a girl...they would embarrass me so much.
I don't have a problem with weight anymore.

Thanks man! Same to you.

You can go with friends though. That's what I'm going to do along with family.

Ugh! The loneliness, the pain, the coldness, the waiting. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png


Take this song, it means a lot to me, well, my 13 year old preteen self!

_Gcrx2Ab0FM

and this is the best rejection song!

pup8OenL-L4


Red.

Seriously, though. Single and healing from stuff from adolescent!


What happened when you were an adolescent?


I think the answer is no confidence. However,  if I was dating an insecure girl,  I would definitely want to make it work.  I would tell her she's beautiful, smart and someone who knows what's right.

You didn't answer the second question!


But....based on my experience with insecure people....they don't believe you when you tell them that.


This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.


Poke men are hot! Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!


Oh my! I didn't know you were into that.

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Tell me more. I'm listening.


Not even morbidly obese girls?


Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D

I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).


I don't mind men who are like a few pounds overweight, like maybe 50, at the most. But anymore is a bit too much for me.

I don't have a problem with weight anymore.

Thanks man! Same to you.

You can go with friends though. That's what I'm going to do along with family.

Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.

This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.

Wow....I guess we really are our worst critics (at least for some of us).

I don't mind men who are like a few pounds overweight, like maybe 50, at the most. But anymore is a bit too much for me.

I don't mind women who are slightly overweight like 10-30 pounds overweight but definitely not a morbidly obese woman.


My ideal girl would be neither skinny nor overweight or obese.....she would be just right ;).

You didn't answer the second question!

Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D
What was that question?

So he likes being morbidly obese?


Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.
You're welcome!

Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.

Take this song, it means a lot to me, well, my 13 year old preteen self!

_Gcrx2Ab0FM

and this is the best rejection song!

pup8OenL-L4

What happened when you were an adolescent?

You didn't answer the second question!

This is so true lol. I have a friend who's honestly 8/10, but he doesn't believe me and thinks he's an abomination because he has some mole on the side of his cheek that I didn't even notice until he pointed it out.

Oh my! I didn't know you were into that.

http://i.imgur.com/n3NWyBW.png

Tell me more. I'm listening.


Yoooo, my brother's roommate, who was skinny as a stick (even skinnier than me), started dating a "morbidly obese" girl last year. You wouldn't believe it, he blew UP. He's HUGE now. ;D He loves his girl, and he's moving in with her, so I'm really happy for him. Don't show him pictures from before 2017 though, he really let himself go. ;D


Man, that Avril is edgy!  :o  :o  :o

I prefer this as a dating, motivation, song!

hpspGHeLOPE

I'm the girl.

Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.

Man, that Avril is edgy!  :o  :o  :o

I prefer this as a dating, motivation, song!

hpspGHeLOPE

I'm the girl.


My dating song:

pPaZ6HU-i6s

You're welcome!

Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.

Luckily, I don't have chauvinist friends. It seems like you do unfortunately or is that not true? :o


And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.

You're absolutely correct.

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"Future? You think I'm some kind of girl!? Listen up I don't listen to Justin Timberlake I listen to rap. fiddy cent, snoooooooooooooop, timbaland but none of that Justin Timberlake crap! If I had that blastin on my psp I would beat up in the locker room!"

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"That's sexist, you bastard. I've already dated about 28 guys by club hopping, and they all know what true masculinity is about, hence why they opt to listen to Future, Drake, Desiigner, and Migos instead. Also, HOW DARE YOU MOCK JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE!!! HE'S SO CUTE, EVERY GIRL SHOULD LOVE HIM!  :\'( :\'( :\'("

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"Yo listen up lady, I don't know nothin bout orangutans attack in black but I do know that Xzibit is sooooo sick. I've downloaded pretty much every episode of pimp my ride and put them on my psp so i can watch on the go."

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"Okay, first off, why don't you just watch your television shows on a Samsung instead? You're a dated jackass if you still use technology from the early 2000s instead of now. Second, calling me a lady is sexist, it assumes all women watch Orange Is the New Black and all men watch your dumb early 2000s reality show. I don't need you to remind me of 2005, 2006, or any other early 2000s year."

Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart are so lame. Public figures like that are nothing more than "let's pretend we're counter culture!" while pandering to the hipster trends.

I'm just personally disillusioned by them because I so can't find my voice in either of them the way I do, in fact, feel emotionally receptive towards Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, and the ilk. It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't feel like the goddamn law to express interest in stereotypical lesbian icons like Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart just to be considered attractive and individualistic.

Anyone who knows me would know that my dating life is completely nonexistent. It really sucks being 23 having zero dating experience. The problem is that I can never tell whether or not a girl likes me. I was completely sheltered during my early adolescence, so that may be a reason why I never developed this ability. Some part of me is bitter towards those who've had those experiences, but I know those feelings won't do me any good. Still, I feel helpless. I wish I knew what do to.


I had my first relationship when I was 22, so you're not too old. 23/24 is still really young!

I did hear about your middle school and high school experiences though (or lack thereof).  :-\\ Did you talk to a psychiatrist about social anxiety?  ???


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Don't listen to her. She's just being a melodramatic privileged white girl who knows nothing about true struggle because she chooses to conform to culturally appropriated gender conventions. The only reason she doesn't have a girlfriend is because she's a stuck-up, ignorant lazy-ass too cowardly to put herself out at the right opportunities and adapt to what is hip. The fact that her role model is a corporate-promoted pop hack from the mid-2000s proves everything about how shallow she is an how inauthentic a lesbian she is. We, the New Americana, on the other hand, are proud of our tattoos, body piercings, Orange Is the New Black fandom, booze parties, and the right to petition for anything we want against all the exploited menaces of society.

Luck would come in handy. Its not so pleasant when my personal experience with the lesbian community (or really the culture of my age group in general...) these past years has literally been a lot like the above.


Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(

My dating song:

pPaZ6HU-i6s


Amazing song!!!  8)  8)  8)

And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.


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"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"

I had my first relationship when I was 22, so you're not too old. 23/24 is still really young!

I did hear about your middle school and high school experiences though (or lack thereof).  :-\\ Did you talk to a psychiatrist about social anxiety?  ???

Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(


That's part of being young. And why I don't like extremism of any kind!

What was that question?



"What action must be undertaken to resolve this problem?"


So he likes being morbidly obese?


No, he likes his girl. I don't think he likes his obesity.


Yeah, and make sure you bring friends who have good advice. If you have a friend who tells you to slap a girl in the a*s, don't listen to him because it's going to backfire.


You have crazy friends ;D

Silly Sally, the last season of OitNB was terrible! I'm sick to death of Piper. :-X

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"Piper is an inspirational role model to every woman, questioning or not. If you don't like her, you're just turning a blind eye to the struggles that all women can relate to, regardless of background."

I hope those people grow up, that's really sad how they treat people with a different outlook on life than them.  :(


I just feel like I'm nobody's type within the lesbian world. I can't blame them for being who they genuinely identify themselves as, but they sure make me feel completely and utterly unattractive because of my own individuality.

Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.

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"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"


That's partly why some people hate the SJW movement. Not the positive Social Progressives, but the SJWs that can be militant and too forceful with their points of views.  :P

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"That's sexist, you bastard. I've already dated about 28 guys by club hopping, and they all know what true masculinity is about, hence why they opt to listen to Future, Drake, Desiigner, and Migos instead. Also, HOW DARE YOU MOCK JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE!!! HE'S SO CUTE, EVERY GIRL SHOULD LOVE HIM!  :\'( :\'( :\'("


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"Woah 28 guys? listen up girl I aint touchin none of dat with a 10 foot pole (not mine u hear?) LUDA warned me bout those hoes! I listen 2 LUDA, snooooooopppp, fiddy cent, my boi TONY YAYO and some usher when i got a lady over. Who are these rappers? are they even gangsta? I think every girl should love me because I'm a P.I.M.P.!"


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"Okay, first off, why don't you just watch your television shows on a Samsung instead? You're a dated jackass if you still use technology from the early 2000s instead of now. Second, calling me a lady is sexist, it assumes all women watch Orange Is the New Black and all men watch your dumb early 2000s reality show. I don't need you to remind me of 2005, 2006, or any other early 2000s year."


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Samsung? Naaawww I got one of those razors. I dont mean an emo razor just the phone aint about that black hair I listen to rap. I put that sh!t on my psp though videos take up the space. My phone has a camera so I can take photos of women makin dat azz bounce 2 my boi ja rule. I don't know who these orangutans dressed in black. is this some kinda emo show? yo I don't slit my wrists or nothing so I aint gonna watch that. I will just watch the downloaded videos of the oc on my psp."


I'm just personally disillusioned by them because I so can't find my voice in either of them the way I do, in fact, feel emotionally receptive towards Rachel Stevens, Louise Redknapp, and the ilk. It wouldn't be so bad if it didn't feel like the goddamn law to express interest in stereotypical lesbian icons like Tegan & Sara and Kristen Stewart just to be considered attractive and individualistic.


It definitely sucks that the community seems so rigid and not accepting towards things outside of their vision of what a lesbian is. :-\\ And, really, Kristen Stewart is just straight up boring and a terrible actress.


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.


Which sucks! I wish things wouldn't turn out like this...


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"Maybe in the early 2000s you could, but this is 2017. The only way to go is to show them your Instagram albums of adventures, dogs, parties, and protests for social justice. #New_Americana"


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"naw listen up. When you at the party and some hoe shakin dat ass u jus gotta go up n grab a peice of dat like LUDA and snoooooooop rap bout. drop it like it hot boooiiiiiiii!!!"

And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.
Weren't you doing that at first?


Luckily, I don't have chauvinist friends. It seems like you do unfortunately or is that not true? :o
No. I have never done that.


Sadly, it feels like jerkasses who do that are still overwhelmingly more likely to find success with women than I am, the way I've been treated.
I know! How and why do some girls want a guy who is not only a bad boy,  but even treats them like sh!t? I would treat them better those bastards!



"What action must be undertaken to resolve this problem?"

No, he likes his girl. I don't think he likes his obesity.

You have crazy friends ;D
Oh,  I answered that with being confident, and I should also take risks.

Oh. ;D ;D

Not even. I don't have many male friends like that ;D


I just feel like I'm nobody's type within the lesbian world. I can't blame them for being who they genuinely identify themselves as, but they sure make me feel completely and utterly unattractive because of my own individuality.
Well, they need to start accepting you and embracing your individuality. It seems that some of these lesbians want a stereotypical girlfriend.

Weren't you doing that at first?


No. Those posts about listening to rap to see "dat azz bounce" are only jokes. :P ;D


I know! How and why do some girls want a guy who is not only a bad boy,  but even treats them like sh!t? I would treat them better those bastards!


Those girls aren't worth it. There are just as many women who want a good guy and a committed loving relationship than those who want "bad boys." Don't settle for immature women who play games and make your life hell. Save your time and care for someone who deserves it.

No. I have never done that.

No, I said if you have any friends like that....not you :o.

Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).

Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).


Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.

Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.

You're not wrong :-X.

No. Those posts about listening to rap to see "dat azz bounce" are only jokes. :P ;D

Those girls aren't worth it. There are just as many women who want a good guy and a committed loving relationship than those who want "bad boys." Don't settle for immature women who play games and make your life hell. Save your time and care for someone who deserves it.
What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.

Oh, I won't. I'll make sure the girls are not those who want bad boys.


No, I said if you have any friends like that....not you :o.
No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D


Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).
Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.


Some of those types of girls end up on Jerry Springer or Maury!  :-X :.ducks:.
Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D

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"Woah 28 guys? listen up girl I aint touchin none of dat with a 10 foot pole (not mine u hear?) LUDA warned me bout those hoes! I listen 2 LUDA, snooooooopppp, fiddy cent, my boi TONY YAYO and some usher when i got a lady over. Who are these rappers? are they even gangsta? I think every girl should love me because I'm a P.I.M.P.!"

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"You're a filthy misogynist to call me a slut just because I've had more luck with guys (and occasionally girls) than you ever could. No woman thinks pimping is classy, that's just another unfortunate symptom of the patriarchy, and those who fall for it are either doing do against their will or are just too uneducated to realize how disgusting it is. Thank god Facebook, OK Cupid, and Instagram have since come along to emancipate us from the chains of your filthy hands. Now we can get drunk and party to any man we want, and if you don't like it, then go back to Alabama from where you came from."

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Samsung? Naaawww I got one of those razors. I dont mean an emo razor just the phone aint about that black hair I listen to rap. I put that sh!t on my psp though videos take up the space. My phone has a camera so I can take photos of women makin dat azz bounce 2 my boi ja rule. I don't know who these orangutans dressed in black. is this some kinda emo show? yo I don't slit my wrists or nothing so I aint gonna watch that. I will just watch the downloaded videos of the oc on my psp."

https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Stop generalizing us, you closet-skinhead. Emo hasn't been relevant since the early 2000s. Today, there is no generally accepted culture. We are all different. Some of us wear glassless glasses, others have tattoos, and many more of us choose to express our voices through the wonders of social media photos and protests. One thing we all have in common is that we're against the terrible, backwards ways of the past. Orange Is the New Black is an absolutely gorgeous representation of every type of raw person imaginable. Humans, at the heart of it all, are rebel hearts who battle within the women's prison known as life itself, where every outsider or softy is an ignorant fool and only the most confrontational deserve to be heard."

It definitely sucks that the community seems so rigid and not accepting towards things outside of their vision of what a lesbian is. :-\\ And, really, Kristen Stewart is just straight up boring and a terrible actress.

Yeah, I feel constantly backstabbed by the shallow, hypocritical, unwelcoming nature of the lesbian community, like it's a contradiction for me to be a lesbian and present more like Rachel Stevens than Kristen Stewart. Stewart just doesn't convey the level of class that my personal heroines convey, regardless of their sexuality.

No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D
That's good.


Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.
That is true.


Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D

Do you want one of them? ;D

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ad/WingsHaircut.jpg/235px-WingsHaircut.jpg

"naw listen up. When you at the party and some hoe shakin dat ass u jus gotta go up n grab a peice of dat like LUDA and snoooooooop rap bout. drop it like it hot boooiiiiiiii!!!"


https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Ughhh...just...try and listen to these instead, why don't you?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HL1UzIK-flA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzTuBuRdAyA

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zGcUoRlhmw

Much more authentic, human, welcoming club gems, if you ask me."

Do you want one of them? ;D
Yeah, I'll take some of them ;) ;) ;)

Wow....this thread exploded quickly :o.

You're not wrong :-X.


I wanted to wear fishnets.....

What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.

Oh, I won't. I'll make sure the girls are not those who want bad boys.
No. I don't at all. I actually answered that question to Slowpoke ;D
Oh,  I know. It doesn't make sense and then you have girls who love older men all because they are mature and have lots of money compared to younger ones.
Not going to lie,  those girls on those shows are very beautiful even if they are in a destructive relationship. :D


Yes, even bad, or destructive people, can be sexy, or beautiful, physically, sometimes.  :D

Happily married for over 35 years, and enjoying every minute of it!

Single, and it sucks a*'s!  >:(

I wish I had a companion to share things with.


I'm sure you'll find one.

I wouldn't date a morbidly obese girl.
Oh alright. You're living the life man....lol. You should be able to get a girl out there 8).


I would date obese but not morbidly.

And it's rude, too. 100% chance you will get slapped in the face.

If you're going up to women saying sh!t like "yo hoe make dat azz bounce lemme see dem titties" you won't ever find a suitable life companion.


;D

Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.

Thanks!

I guess I can go out with friends to try and find a girl but definitely not with my family.


I agree with this. I wouldn't attempt to approach with my mother and sister around me. It'd throw me off.


Being in high school has shown me that most HS girls gravitate towards the bad boys and/or boys that have bad grades. It freaking sucks.....yet they complain about how "boys suck". When you ask them why do they go out with them even after they hurt them, they say  "....but I still love him" ::).


You still have college ahead, man. College girls from what I seen, like intelligence.


Wow....this thread exploded quickly :o.


It did. Some users are honestly ruining it though. Its so difficult to get away from politics.

Happily married for over 35 years, and enjoying every minute of it!

That's wonderful and congrats to you and your wife. I want to be in your situation in the future :).

BTW, do you guys have any children together?

Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.

Well, there are plenty of other woman out there and I don't think that you should give up hope just yet.

I agree with this. I wouldn't attempt to approach with my mother and sister around me. It'd throw me off.
Yeah, exactly.


You still have college ahead, man. College girls from what I seen, like intelligence.
But do they like guys who are not tall (but not the shortest)?


It did. Some users are honestly ruining it though. Its so difficult to get away from politics.

Well....those guys are just posting sarcastically and pretending.

Anyways, based on how this thread exploded....relationships really are complicated and so many people have trouble with finding a companion.

I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)

I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)

Same 8).

Same 8).


Maybe I'll do it in a few months!  :P

But do they like guys who are not tall (but not the shortest)?

Why not shorter girls, dude? Shorter, mid height girls genetically have the best bodies and from the looks of it, you'd both be the same height. I'm not tall my self. Just about mid height, the same height as you.

I even noticed that, the girls I run into that's my height are usually my preference in appearance.

I feel lost to, man. I'm deep in 26 and don't want a single mother. I want a girl that hasn't lost her virginity. I want to be the original.

Complication and struggle is real.

Just that, day dreaming helps. Its like medicine.


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.

Why not shorter girls, dude? Shorter, mid height girls genetically have the best bodies and from the looks of it, you'd both be the same height. I'm not tall my self. Just about mid height, the same height as you.

I even noticed that, the girls I run into that's my height are usually my preference in appearance.

The thing is that a lot of short and mid height girls aren't attracted tp guys our height either.


Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.

Well, I certainly wouldn't write of a girl who wasn't a virgin but my ideal girl would be a virgin....notice the word IDEAL.

Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.



Well, I certainly wouldn't write of a girl who wasn't a virgin but my ideal girl would be a virgin....notice the word IDEAL.
I wouldn't want to waste that opportunity either if a girl wasn't a Virgin. That might come out as someone thinking she's a wh*re when she's not.

Not to brag, but I guess that's one advantage I DO have. I don't care whether a girl has had sexual experience or not. I just want to find someone who truly loves me and wants to be with me, and doesn't care that I've had zero dating experience. In my opinion, whether someone is a virgin or not, does not determine how they are as people. I mean what if you met the perfect girl, who wanted to be with you, but the one catch was that she was not a virgin? Would you throw away that chance just because of that one aspect? I mean I wouldn't want a girl to reject me due to my LACK of experience. So I personally wouldn't write off a girl, simply because she's not a virgin.


Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.

The thing is that a lot of short and mid height girls aren't attracted tp guys our height either.

Do you work out?

Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.


Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.

Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.
When you do find a girl you like, you should ask if she has children before you take it to the next level because as people get older, they are more likely to have kids.  However, I'm not sure if that's a personal question to ask though.

Do you work out?

A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".

Oh, okay, that makes more sense. I also wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not at all ready to fill the role of a father/stepfather yet.

Yeah, I'm not ready for that either...I'm only about to turn 18. No way am I ready to be a father figure.

I will devote my life to being a priest. Just kidding!

A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".


Don't wish to be taller, man. Taller guys get girls but only the specifics. A taller man can intimidate a women just by approach, while dudes our height don't have to worry about this. In a girl's mind approached by a taller dude, she's "Ok. He knows he's way stronger than me. What do I do?"

We have a shot, to.

Well, there are plenty of other women out there and I don't think that you should give up hope just yet.


I'll think about it, but I try not to give up just yet.

I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)


for better or for worse?

I'm going to marry myself one day.  8)


Ha, that's different! :D

Let me rephrase that. Girls that have kids. I commonly see this and its really intimidating. I almost could have dated a single mother in 08. We were both 18 from what I recall. She was amazing and gave me signals. I gave her signals, to. Only thing is, I asked her of his presents and she stated "He doesn't visit anymore." I can tell she was telling the truth and wasn't desperate but then, if we officially became couples, HE, would have instantly started popping up because that's how luck works. He would have hating me being around his kid. And then, I don't doubt for a second if he became active in her life, she wouldn't have suddenly left me for him. My older brother explained this to me and after he did, I'm glad I didn't do it to my self now that I look back. Its depressive but makes sense. I didn't have the support she would have needed in the long run.

I still agree to an extend though. I'd easily take a girl that lost her virginity to someone else as long as I'm the last. A girl like that has amazing debt. I want her to belong to me.


I was hoping to be the 40 year old virgin, and that didn't come to pass and never happened. :(

Yeah, I'm not ready for that either...I'm only about to turn 18. No way am I ready to be a father figure.


I'm going to be 44 next year and I don't want be a Father.

I'm going to be 44 next year and I don't want be a Father.

That's OK....not every male wants to be a father.

That's OK....not every male wants to be a father.



I'll just take an FWB or a One Night Stand.

for better or for worse?


Yup, pretty much.  ;)

Ha, that's different! :D


It is.  ;D

for better or for worse?


Till death do us part :o

Well, here's my story, I am 43 years old and SINGLE! I used to date, one girl had Down's Syndrome her name was Annalee in 1997 and another in 2004 her name was Robin and she had autism and she was a bit of a cocktease, I was working at Pathmark at the time that we were still dating in 2007, she always told me that she had a full time job compared to me I was a part timer being a cart retriever. Her And I both lived with our parents at the time and we would always worry about each other's future and financial status and sexually I couldn't get anywhere with her cause I was just so much in love her but her love wasn't reciprocated. When we would make out, touching her top was part time and getting down there (for her) was considered full time if you know what I mean. Sorry if this was a bit too much but now I think I'll just stay single.


I read it. Thanks for sharing.


A little but I'm want I call "muscular lean".


That's good! Wear a tank top or something revealing, and get a masculine haircut. You have to kick their hormone production into overdrive. That's how you get 'em to say yes despite themselves ;D

That's good! Wear a tank top or something revealing, and get a masculine haircut. You have to kick their hormone production into overdrive. That's how you get 'em to say yes despite themselves ;D

I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).

I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).


Cute and hot are two sides of the same coin, silly! ;D You should try at least. Trust me, you can tell when eyes are on you.

If you're worried about height, don't hesitate to buy shoes with huge lift. Everyone can get away with adding 3-7 cm. I'm 175 cm (5' 9") and I have many 5cm kicks that help me hit the magic 180 (6ft). I got described as "the tall guy from Calculus" by another girl once on FB (and the other girl recognized) so I'm certain it works ;D

There are some shoes that hide it really well (especially the more expensive Nike in my experience). I heard there are some online stores for these types of shoes. You're 5' 6" right? If you add a good 7cm (about 2.8 inches) you'll be average height at least. :)

Edit: I looked it up, and some add a good 10cm and they look very convincing! Make sure to buy a convincing one though, you don't want to pull a Marco Rubio and became fodder for the fashion tabloids.

Being an outcast hurts. My fashion is out of style. The slangs are too edgy for my fragile heart. My weight is a heavy problem! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png

I should start gardening. It might help me fit in.

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Cute and hot are two sides of the same coin, silly! ;D You should try at least. Trust me, you can tell when eyes are on you.
Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.


If you're worried about height, don't hesitate to buy shoes with huge lift. Everyone can get away with adding 3-7 cm. I'm 175 cm (5' 9") and I have many 5cm kicks that help me hit the magic 180 (6ft). I got described as "the tall guy from Calculus" by another girl once on FB (and the other girl recognized) so I'm certain it works ;D
I could potentially do that.


There are some shoes that hide it really well (especially the more expensive Nike in my experience). I heard there are some online stores for these types of shoes. You're 5' 6" right? If you add a good 7cm (about 2.8 inches) you'll be average height at least. :)

How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o

Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.
I could potentially do that.
How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o


I remember, very blurry, that you did post it on here, somewhere on this website.  :o

You don't wanna get too worried about things like appearance. It certainly helps and I'd say it's a good idea to do things that bring out your looks (e.g. good hygiene, neat hair, posture, staying fit) but don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be and always try to work on who you are as a person. If you only look good but you're boring and not good at anything (not you-you but in general) then it won't really get you anywhere. Another very important thing to keep in mind is just don't show off your insecurities to girls right off the bat. Confidence is key. Act like your height is not a big deal to you because the chances are you're worrying about it way more than they are.

I remember, very blurry, that you did post it on here, somewhere on this website.  :o

I shouldn't have done that :-X.

You don't wanna get too worried about things like appearance. It certainly helps and I'd say it's a good idea to do things that bring out your looks (e.g. good hygiene, neat hair, posture, staying fit) but don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be and always try to work on who you are as a person. If you only look good but you're boring and not good at anything (not you-you but in general) then it won't really get you anywhere. Another very important thing to keep in mind is just don't show off your insecurities to girls right off the bat. Confidence is key. Act like your height is not a big deal to you because the chances are you're worrying about it way more than they are.

I know....that's what my mother tells me all the time. So far, it hasn't worked....maybe it will in the future.

At least I'm not those anorexic teenagers that don't eat!  ::)  ::)  ::)  :(  :(

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bc/d3/d9/bcd3d9954a735b485be27e7d7b4fb48f.jpg
"You're a filthy misogynist to call me a slut just because I've had more luck with guys (and occasionally girls) than you ever could. No woman thinks pimping is classy, that's just another unfortunate symptom of the patriarchy, and those who fall for it are either doing do against their will or are just too uneducated to realize how disgusting it is. Thank god Facebook, OK Cupid, and Instagram have since come along to emancipate us from the chains of your filthy hands. Now we can get drunk and party to any man we want, and if you don't like it, then go back to Alabama from where you came from."

https://barbarianstyle.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Mohawk-haircut-for-men.jpg

"Stop generalizing us, you closet-skinhead. Emo hasn't been relevant since the early 2000s. Today, there is no generally accepted culture. We are all different. Some of us wear glassless glasses, others have tattoos, and many more of us choose to express our voices through the wonders of social media photos and protests. One thing we all have in common is that we're against the terrible, backwards ways of the past. Orange Is the New Black is an absolutely gorgeous representation of every type of raw person imaginable. Humans, at the heart of it all, are rebel hearts who battle within the women's prison known as life itself, where every outsider or softy is an ignorant fool and only the most confrontational deserve to be heard."


LOL, you're way too funny! ;D


Yeah, I feel constantly backstabbed by the shallow, hypocritical, unwelcoming nature of the lesbian community, like it's a contradiction for me to be a lesbian and present more like Rachel Stevens than Kristen Stewart. Stewart just doesn't convey the level of class that my personal heroines convey, regardless of their sexuality.


She definitely doesn't have any class. Kristen Stewart is a horrible actor that only appeals to the lowest common denominator and it sucks the community you've tried so hard to reach out too and fit in with can't see this and appreciate your more interesting tastes.


I was hoping to be the 40 year old virgin, and that didn't come to pass and never happened. :(


Wait, Howard... You wanted to stay a virgin til 40!? ???


What about the 90s then? I remember you said you got a sandwich thrown at you.


No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D


I know....that's what my mother tells me all the time. So far, it hasn't worked....maybe it will in the future.


Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.

Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.

I'll just see what happens.......with life.

Not to most girls. Cute means that I'm OK but hot means sexy. I'm not sexy to them.


Dude, I'm gay; I'm pretty sure I'm using the same definitions as straight girls lol. :P

Cute = good looking but makes you comfortable and all cuddly and warm inside (I guess the female equivalent would be that dorky shy girl that's good looking)

Hot = Eye catching, high sex appeal, makes you feel a bit intimidated but you still want it (female equivalent would be some babe bombshell)

Cute segues into hot in a pretty seamless way.


I could potentially do that.


Okay, I was just throwing that out there.  :-\\ I have friends who're the same height as you and they did get girls. So don't lose hope or feel too down. :)


How did you know my height? Did I tell you? :o


"5 foot 6" popped in my head instantly the very first time you mentioned it in this thread, so I guess you did at one point.  :-X

Dude, I'm gay; I'm pretty sure I'm using the same definitions as straight girls lol. :P

Cute = good looking but makes you comfortable and all cuddly and warm inside (I guess the female equivalent would be that dorky shy girl that's good looking)

Hot = Eye catching, high sex appeal, makes you feel a bit intimidated but you still want it (female equivalent would be some babe bombshell)

Cute segues into hot in a pretty seamless way.
You're correct...they are similar not the same. They don't bring out the same reaction.


Okay, I was just throwing that out there.  :-\\ I have friends who're the same height as you and they did get girls. So don't lose hope or feel too down. :)
I'm already a bit hopeless but I'll try to keep my head up.


"5 foot 6" popped in my head instantly the very first time you mentioned it in this thread, so I guess you did at one point.  :-X

FUDGE BUCKETS!!!! >:(

Uh oh!  :(  :(  :(

Reignman, I want you to know that 5'6 actually isn't that short because the National average height for guys is 5'9. It would be anything closer to 5'0 that guys would be considered short.


No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D
So she thought you were worthless?

So she thought you were worthless?


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)

Being an outcast hurts. My fashion is out of style. The slangs are too edgy for my fragile heart. My weight is a heavy problem! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/jonny_zpsc73391c5.png


<3 I'm your friend!

Time to buy new clothes!  :-X You don't have to know the slang lol.

I've never battled with weight before, but my brother did. He ate healthy and went to the gym three times a week. He checked his weight on Saturdays, and if he hit his target weight, then he'd let himself have a cheat day for that day only (he'd usually go out with friends to celebrate). I don't think there's any secrets.  :-X He was like 250 and dropped to 150 in a bit over a year (not a long time if you think about it). I wish I had more advice to give on this front, but I don't know any trick other than sheer willpower unfortunately :(

In the meantime, black clothes will make you look slimmer than other colours. Grey is a more sporty/athletic colour than the others too, depending on the shirt you're wearing.


At least I'm not those anorexic teenagers that don't eat!  ::)  ::)  ::)  :(  :(


Oi, that's me! ;D

Reignman, I want you to know that 5'6 actually isn't that short because the National average height for guys is 5'9. It would be anything closer to 5'0 that guys would be considered short.

Yeah but my father is 5' 10" and I wish that I got his height. My mother who is 5' 2" gave me more of her height (damn it genetics >:().


She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)

Hell yeah she was wrong 8).

BTW, Futurepoke....are you prepping for Canada 150?

Hell yeah she was wrong 8).


Thanks! 8) ;)

BTW, Futurepoke....are you prepping for Canada 150?


Woah, you know? I might go to Montreal or the local parade that takes place in the park right across the street from me. :)

<3 I'm your friend!

Time to buy new clothes!  :-X You don't have to know the slang lol.

I've never battled with weight before, but my brother did. He ate healthy and went to the gym three times a week. He checked his weight on Saturdays, and if he hit his target weight, then he'd let himself have a cheat day for that day only (he'd usually go out with friends to celebrate). I don't think there's any secrets.  :-X He was like 250 and dropped to 150 in a bit over a year (not a long time if you think about it). I wish I had more advice to give on this front, but I don't know any trick other than sheer willpower unfortunately :(

In the meantime, black clothes will make you look slimmer than other colours. Grey is a more sporty/athletic colour than the others too, depending on the shirt you're wearing.

Oi, that's me! ;D


I ate the whole bucket of ice cream.  :-X  :-X  :-X

I ate the whole bucket of ice cream.  :-X  :-X  :-X


Wait... Then what was I eating?  :-X

Wait... Then what was I eating?  :-X


You weren't.  ;D  ;D  8)  8)

Thanks! 8) ;)

You're welcome ;).


Woah, you know? I might go to Montreal or the local parade that takes place in the park right across the street from me. :)

Yeah, I know about it, lol. That's cool...enjoy your self. Last year, we celebrated America's 240th birthday 8)

I just remembered, recent I was at my niece's college. I was mainly in the student center and for good reasons. Haha It was on a Friday and unexpectedly dead so there wasn't much too see. I left, took a walk around the campus and eventually headed straight back to the center. As I was walking to one of the entrances, this girl that looked ridiculous appealing to me was just exiting. It hit me hard so I attempted to make the best of the time I had to speak. Before I could though, there was suddenly this other dude, already close enough and smiled at each other, then went their separate ways. My turn to speak came but she apologized and went for the bus. I looked back in massive hopelessness as she was exiting on to the city bus that made finishing the rest of the day difficult. I was seriously f'd up. I watched as she slipped away from me and didn't know what to do. I just ended up wanting to destroy everything.

She looked in her early 20s.

No made up story. This sh!t really happened to me.

You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for myself either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.

You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for me either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.

I'm soon about to turn 18...so I'm not even necessarily looking for "the one".....I'm just looking for "someone"....a companion. However, you're right that I (and others) have to be patient....even if it hurts and feels like we'll never find one.

Anyways, congrats to you and Lee :).

I'm soon about to turn 18...so I'm not even necessarily looking for "the one".....I'm just looking for "someone"....a companion. However, you're right that I (and others) have to be patient....even if it hurts and feels like we'll never find one.

Anyways, congrats to you and Lee :).


Thank you! And yes, you're still very young you have your entire life to find someone.

I'm not tall though and they view me as more of the cute type than hot type (at least to some girls).


I'm considered handsome to most girls and resemble Tom Cruise.

LOL, you're way too funny! ;D

She definitely doesn't have any class. Kristen Stewart is a horrible actor that only appeals to the lowest common denominator and it sucks the community you've tried so hard to reach out too and fit in with can't see this and appreciate your more interesting tastes.

Wait, Howard... You wanted to stay a virgin til 40!? ???

No! :P That happened because I was "going out" with this girl in middle school but then she found out I "wasn't cool enough" and had to prove to her friends we "weren't together." Kind of a stupid story. ;D

Just remember what I said before: join some clubs, get involved in community events, do really well at your hobbies and be an interesting person. Don't be afraid of rejection and don't let it affect your confidence. Hell, there's also tons of quiet shy girls at bookstores and libraries, that also don't have the best of luck with the opposite sex, who you could talk too as well.


I was hoping to score with the right girl when I reached 40 years of age but at this point I don't care if I ever have sex at all.

She just thought I was lame. Boy, how wrong was she! ::)


The girl I used to date, her parents thought I was retarded and didn't live up to her potential. With her full time and me as a part timer it didn't work out well financially. We broke up a few days before Valentine's Day 2008. She virtually cheated on me looking for a new guy on a Jewish dating site afterwards.  >:(

You know what, most of you just haven't found "the one". Just be patient and you will.

I didn't think I would find anyone for myself either, but found Lee. We have been a couple almost 2 years now(it will be 2 years in October). We met on October 16th, 2015 on OKcupid.com.



I think I'll just take a one night stand or an FWB anytime. ::)

I'm considered handsome to most girls and resemble Tom Cruise.

You're doing better than me in that aspect ;).

You're doing better than me in that aspect ;).


I shave every day to keep that babyface look.

I shave every day to keep that babyface look.


You look fresh!  8)  8)  8)

The girl I used to date, her parents thought I was retarded and didn't live up to her potential. With her full time and me as a part timer it didn't work out well financially. We broke up a few days before Valentine's Day 2008. She virtually cheated on me looking for a new guy on a Jewish dating site afterwards.  >:(


Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.

I didn't know whether to post it here or in the rants thread. But update on my... Erm... relationship status?

And a trigger warning for lonely people  :-X


I met with my friend yesterday and we had a lot of fun. I apologized for being distant, and he was really sweet about it. He still seems a bit insecure though, apologizes a lot for the smallest mistakes or things I barely notice. It makes me feel guilty, and that's the feeling I hate most.  :-[

We went outside for a walk since the weather was amazing, and he tried to hold my hand, but I slapped it away like Melania Trump, and instead rubbed his head and put it against my shoulder. That was the cutest moment of the day. ;D

I "forgot" Fire Emblem at home (on purpose  :-X) so I was supposed to go give it today instead, but my parents went shopping and now I have to take care of the kids. Mess!  >:(


I don't understand what a Fire Emblem is.

Anyways, it sounds like you have a potential boyfriend. Good job!  8)  8)  8)

Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.


Something like that would ruin me, for like, a week. That's how bad mental health is sometimes!  :P  :P  :P

I don't understand what a Fire Emblem is.

Anyways, it sounds like you have a potential boyfriend. Good job!  8)  8)  8)


I moved that post to the other thread ;D

Fire Emblem is a video game series!  Play it!  :D

You think so? I like to think of him like that, and I'm sure he thinks of me like that.  :-[ That's the conundrum though, it's a weird flux state between FWB and official dating. He wants the latter but I'm reluctant, I don't think I can guarantee him the relationship he wants.  :-X (it's a complicated story, and probably best explained in the LGBT thread than this one)

I moved that post to the other thread ;D

Fire Emblem is a video game series!  Play it!  :D

You think so? I like to think of him like that, and I'm sure he thinks of me like that.  :-[ That's the conundrum though, it's a weird flux state between FWB and official dating. He wants the latter but I'm reluctant, I don't think I can guarantee him the relationship he wants.  :-X (it's a complicated story, and probably best explained in the LGBT thread than this one)


Laying one's head on someone's shoulder. Trying to hold hands. Sounds like he likes you!  ;D

Also, you're an Aquarius. Things like emotions and feelings are foreign to you!  :o

Laying one's head on someone's shoulder. Trying to hold hands. Sounds like he likes you!  ;D

Also, you're an Aquarius. Things like emotions and feelings are foreign to you!  :o


LOL wow I don't even believe in that stuff but ain't that the truth ;D

He's a Cancer (his birthday is soon), and some of those traits sound right for him too. :o


Strengths: Tenacious, highly imaginative, loyal, emotional, sympathetic, persuasive
Weaknesses: Moody, pessimistic, suspicious, manipulative, insecure
Cancer likes: Art, home-based hobbies, relaxing near or in water, helping loved ones, a good meal with friends
Cancer dislikes: Strangers, any criticism of Mom, revealing of personal life


The "good meal with friends" explains the microwave LOL

LOL wow I don't even believe in that stuff but ain't that the truth ;D

He's a Cancer (his birthday is soon), and some of those traits sound right for him too. :o


The "good meal with friends" explains the microwave LOL


Slapping his hand away is kind of funny!  ;D  ;D  ;D

Slapping his hand away is kind of funny!  ;D  ;D  ;D


I learnt from the best!

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I learnt from the best!

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Is the pope one real? Holy God!  :o  :o  :o

Is the pope one real? Holy God!  :o  :o  :o


Unfortunately no ;D

Unfortunately no ;D


It looked borderline um.....homoerotic.  :-X  :-X  :-X

That's why I suspect that it might have been fake.

I'm a Cancer 8).  The Sun transits between the 90° to 120° of the zodiac and between the 90° and 120° of celestial longitude from today (June 22nd) and until July 22nd 8).

I'm a Cancer 8).  The sun started it's transit between the 90° to 120° of the zodiac and between the 90° and 120° of celestial longitude from today (June 22nd) and until July 22nd 8).


Are you very emotional and clingy/loyal too?  :-X

I'm reading this stuff and it's pretty interesting, even though I don't believe in it. ;D

Are you very emotional and clingy/loyal too?  :-X

I'm reading this stuff and it's pretty interesting, even though I don't believe in it. ;D

I'm not emotional and clingy but I am loyal ;).

I'm not emotional and clingy but I am loyal ;).


Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X

Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X


>:(  >:(  >:(

>:(  >:(  >:(


What's your sign?

What's your sign?

He's a Sagittarius (November 23 - December 21) since he was on born on November 29th.

Aquarius is better, sorry.  :-X

Excuse me?
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I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.

I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.

Interesting. Would you ever be interested in starting a relationship?

Interesting. Would you ever be interested in starting a relationship?


Yeah, eventually I want to start one, it's just something I'm not interested in currently if that makes sense.

Yeah, eventually I want to start one, it's just something I'm not interested in currently if that makes sense.

Of course that makes sense. Don't sweat it man :).

BTW, what's your ideal type of girl? (for when you do want to start a relationship)

What's your sign?


What Reign said!!!  :o

What Reign said!!!  :o

I got your back! ;)

Of course that makes sense. Don't sweat it man :).

BTW, what's your ideal type of girl? (for when you do want to start a relationship)


I've never put too much thought into it, do you mean personality wise or physically? For personality, I guess I'd want someone who's intelligent, nice, but not to the point where she won't point out if I'm doing things she doesn't like, someone who could be my best friend, I guess.

I've never put too much thought into it, do you mean personality wise or physically? For personality, I guess I'd want someone who's intelligent, nice, but not to the point where she won't point out if I'm doing things she doesn't like, someone who could be my best friend, I guess.

Cool....a girl like that would be nice. Now, what's your ideal girl...physically?

I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


When or if it eventually hit you, it a feel suckish. Like a void is opening in the left side of your chest.

When or if it eventually hit you, it a feel suckish. Like a void is opening in the left side of your chest.

Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.

Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


I edited my post too late. Haha I meant the left chest where your heart is.

Yeah, dude. I was just in the kitchen and it struck me.

Cool....a girl liek that would be nice. Now, what's your ideal girl...physically?


Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.

Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.

LOL, don't worry. I like girls with a pear shaped body as well.

I edited my post too late. Haha I meant the left chest where your heart is.

Yeah, dude. I was just in the kitchen and it struck me.

It strikes you like a freight train.

It's because I can't find love that I pretty much threw away all of my serious life ambitions. I'm not motivated to do anything if I don't amount to anything special or heartwarming. It pains me to the bone to hear and read about how goddamn wonderful people's lives are because they're in a loving relationship, whereas I'm still left basically being told I'm rude, wrong, and into all the dumbest things. F*** my life, I don't want to live like this anymore, I'm hurt, I just want a woman to share my love with right now and not constantly feel like I'm wrong for this world and all my compassion amounts to nothing and I mean nothing and I have nothing to give I'm hurting pointless nothing right about me bad for me I wish I could find love help help help can't take it I'm at fault all the time just need love I'm so lonely and just want to share my heart and it laves me in tears all the time.

It's because I can't find love that I pretty much threw away all of my serious life ambitions. I'm not motivated to do anything if I don't amount to anything special or heartwarming. It pains me to the bone to hear and read about how goddamn wonderful people's lives are because they're in a loving relationship, whereas I'm still left basically being told I'm rude, wrong, and into all the dumbest things. F*** my life, I don't want to live like this anymore, I'm hurt, I just want a woman to share my love with right now and not constantly feel like I'm wrong for this world and all my compassion amounts to nothing and I mean nothing and I have nothing to give I'm hurting pointless nothing right about me bad for me I wish I could find love help help help can't take it I'm at fault all the time just need love I'm so lonely and just want to share my heart and it laves me in tears all the time.

Well, that was very emotional and heartfelt. I have no words.

All I want you to know is that you are deeply loved by me and all of us on here. I find many of your "weird" and "quirky" interests to be cool and also a bit informative. Those other women just can't see how wonderful you are but don't let them get to you. Stay strong!

All I want you to know is that you are deeply loved by me and all of us on here. I find many of your "weird" and "quirky" interests to be cool and also a bit informative. Those other women just can't see how wonderful you are but don't let them get to you. Stay strong!


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3

I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3

Well, sometimes I feel the same way and I can only dream as well. It is painful and it definitely sucks but you have to continue and hope for the best. I have no doubts that you will find love someday :).

You look fresh!  8)  8)  8)


and people say I don't look my age.

Wow that's terrible. You shouldn't take that personally, she and her parents sound like horrible people. You dodged a bullet honestly.


Her parents liked me when I was at her house but when I went home for the evening after spending a couple of romantic hours at her house, I would always call her up on the phone to give her a "courtesy call" just to let her know I'm home safe, she would always tell me in private on the phone that my (her) parents told me that I need to break up with you just because I didn't live up to her financial status or that I wasn't the right one, her parents were backtalkers. >:(

Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


can you send them to me when you get a chance? ;)

LOL, don't worry. I like girls with a pear shaped body as well.


I like girls with boobs and butt.  ;D

can you send them to me when you get a chance? ;)

Nah....they were too young for you :-X.


I like girls with boobs and butt.  ;D

Yes ;D.

I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.

I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


Thanks, my entire life has been about coping with gut-wretching heartsickness for 13 straight years. Sorry my complaints are unacceptable.

Nah....they were too young for you :-X.
Yes ;D.


nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.

nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give therm a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.

Wait...are you serious? :o :o :o :-\\ :-\\ :-\\

Wait...are you serious? :o :o :o :-\\ :-\\ :-\\


I was just kidding, I don't want to be "robbing the cradle" so they say.

I was just kidding, I don't want to be "robbing the cradle" so they say.

OH OK....thank goodness.

I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


You shouldn't shun her for writing about her feelings in a thread specifically meant for posts about these kinds of things. What she's written is no different than other posts here expressing their feelings of loneliness.


nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.


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I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


I use to be like that. Until one day I realized I was getting older and felt lonely.

Honestly, I'm more interested in making friends than a partnership, right now.

With health issues and stuff, it's hard to keep up with friends, and even keep them.

But as I get healthier, I'm easier to be around  :-X and can keep up with people more.

I'll probably get lonely one day and want a partner, but for now, I just don't feel lonely, or sad, despite never having
been on a proper/real date with a lover.

I'm 18, I've never had a girlfriend, and it honestly doesn't bother me.

A lot people have thought I'm asexual (I'm straight though) since I rarely show interest in anyone, it's just that I've never been interested in starting a relationship. It probably wouldn't work out with how my lifestyle is anyways, lol.


That sounds like me when I was 18 (and even a bit now at 24) ;D


Lol, well, I'm not too sure. A girl with a pear shaped body? I'm not even too sure what that is, but if it's what I think it is, then that.


Now I'm just imaging a girl walking around in a pear costume in various sexual poses ;D


Just today, I saw 3 attractive females and it sucked knowing that I'll never see them again.


Hmm I don't understand. Do you know these people?


I just need a woman who truly gets me, who sympathizes with my dreams and finds beautiful value in all that matters to me. The fact that that's so hard is just an inescapable drain on my self-confidence. I just wish I would melt into my lovergirl's arms and pour all my truest love to her whenever she needed it, and she would warm my heart in return whenever I myself feel broken and useless. All I can do is dream. </3


This was really difficult to read, and I can only imagine the pain you must be going through. All I can say is relationships are not all sunshine and roses or "someone who sympathizes with my dreams and ". You need to first love and respect yourself in that way before you can demand it from others.  :( I know you'll find that love and security one day, from yourself and from the one you love. Keep fighting and stay strong Infinity.  :-\\

nobody's too young for me, I'm sure that I'll give them a good time and have them leave knowing they had a pleasant experience.


:o


I don't like saying this in the slightest but your posts are starting to be a bit unpleasant to read. There's a better way to express your situation. Find a coping method because its badass.


Hey now... This is a place to vent and post that sort of thing. You don't have to reply to it if you don't want to. It's a good thing that she and others feel comfortable enough to tell us something so personal. This is an accepting place. :)