You can vote for two options in case you're feeling waffly.

I wouldn't know..!  :D

I wouldn't know..!  :D



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And allow me to add that that's by choice! I swear!







Seriously!

After almost 17 years of marriage and two young children my vote is...

It's okay, I guess. I'd kinda rather get some sleep, if it's all the same to you.

'It's not the most important thing but you need it to be happy' and the 'fulfilling relationship' one.

After almost 17 years of marriage and two young children my vote is...

It's okay, I guess. I'd kinda rather get some sleep, if it's all the same to you.
After 11 years of marriage and 3 young children, my vote is the same ;)

Although I DID also vote for "It's not the most important thing but you need it to be happy." because there are times when I'd rather *bleep* than sleep ;)

My votes:

It's great if you cnn get it but only in the context of a fulfilling relationship.  2 (25%)
It's great if you can get it but only if you can avoid getting tangled up in that "fulfilling relationship" crap.

I'm rather conflicted on the subject.

I wouldn't know.

i think we all know which one Howard will choose ;D

I voted that its not the most important thing but you need it to be happy. 

I voted for "It's not the most important thing but you need it to be happy." which I don't exactly believe. I think you can be happy without it. There are some days when I would rather sleep.  ;)




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Oh man if I could get sex I'd do it as much as possible.  I don't think I'd ever wanna sleep, lol.

'It's not the most important thing but you need it to be happy' and the 'fulfilling relationship' one.


Me too.

Me too.


Me three!  :D

Let's just put it that way: it's like air - it ain't nothin' special, but you can't live without it!

It's great if you can get it but only in the context of a fulfilling relationship.
It's great if you can get it but only if you can avoid getting tangled up in that "fulfilling relationship" crap.


Sometimes you want a relationship, sometimes you just want to get your cookies.  :)

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Me too.


Okay, I think you are me in a female form.  ;D

It's great if you can get it but only in the context of a fulfilling relationship.
It's great if you can get it but only if you can avoid getting tangled up in that "fulfilling relationship" crap.


Sometimes you want a relationship, sometimes you just want to get your cookies.   :)
hey, you voted just like me.

Okay, I think you are me in a female form.  ;D


That's what I'm saying!  ;D

Sex...wasn't that what coal used to come in?

Er...(it's been a long time...)

'Fulfilling relationship context' and 'sleep'...

No strings attached, and it's good.

It's great if you can get it but only in the context of a fulfilling relationship.
It's great if you can get it but only if you can avoid getting tangled up in that "fulfilling relationship" crap.


Sometimes you want a relationship, sometimes you just want to get your cookies.   :)



And sometimes you just want that creamy middle! ;D

Love it!

Great fun!

Haven't had sex yet and still a god damn virgin at 32 years old! >:(

It's okay, I guess. I'd kinda rather get some sleep, if it's all the same to you.

its ok i guess some time i would rather be on my bike, it dose want to cuddle after a long hard ride.

Sex is a necessity

Only if there's sneezing involved. By the way, thanks for making it so when I opened this up at school, there's a thread entitled SEX!omg!

Should you wait to have sex?

Should you wait to have sex?



I'd say wait until you're certain you'll be with that person forever... or at least a very long time

I'd say wait until you're certain you'll be with that person forever... or at least a very long time


Then her and I will have dry humping sex ;D

I'm a 16-year old virgin. But I'm not rushing to have sex, exactly, unless I really want to. And find a good guy.

I'd say wait until you're certain you'll be with that person forever... or at least a very long time


Funny, I'd not expect that from you, you seemed like the "WE MUST ALL BREED!" type from some of your other stuff.

I think sex is over-romanticized, but that's just me. I'm all for sex in a committed relationship.. I don't think that "committed" has to imply "for eternity"... but I know that most people I know aren't so relaxed, so I'd go by my partner's standard.

Funny, I'd not expect that from you, you seemed like the "WE MUST ALL BREED!" type from some of your other stuff.

I think sex is over-romanticized, but that's just me. I'm all for sex in a committed relationship.. I don't think that "committed" has to imply "for eternity"... but I know that most people I know aren't so relaxed, so I'd go by my partner's standard.



Haha, I'm just saying that's why we're here, it's not exactly what I want.

Overpopulation! aheehehehm.

I said
I'ts the most important thing in my life.....and it's kinda gross.

I said
I'ts the most important thing in my life.....and it's kinda gross.


Probably ditto with me.

"Steak and sex, my favorite pair!  I have 'em both the same way, very rare!"
- Rodney Dangerfield, No Respect

I'm with Rodney on this one.  If you don't want kids, you don't need a spouse.  If you don't need a spouse, you don't need the spice.  Take all that time-wasting, slack-devouring, nerve-wracking anxiety you put into hunting nookie and put it into something useful.  Could be your job.  Could be your hobby. 

Old joke follows:  I heard it this way, the younger folks on the board will hear it told about dot-commers and computers, and your kids'll probably hear it about bio-engineers and nanotechnologists.

A young engineer had just been hired at NASA/JPL, and after a couple of welcoming beers after his first day at work, he asked the grey-bearded senior engineer, now that he had a steady job, whether it was better to stay with his wife or if he should take a mistress.

The greybeard tossed back a swig of fine ale, and with a twinkle in the eyes that had drafted the turbopumps for the  main engines on the Saturn V, answered "Every engineer should have both a wife and a mistress."

"Both?", spluttered the young engineer?

"Yep," continued the greybeard, "you need both a wife and a mistress.  That's how I did it.  Told my wife I was going out with my mistress.  Told my mistress I was spending the night with my wife.  And I could finally come down to the lab and work!"

"It's not the most important thing but you need it to be happy." sounds about right. Although I don't think you NEED it to be happy.

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c235/badfingermike/robertduvall2.jpg

Badfinger-fan: Smell that? You smell that?
Tia: What?
Badfinger-fan: sex, son. .

Badfinger-fan: I love the smell of sex in the morning. Nothing in the world smells like that.  You know, one time we had sex for 12 hours. When it was all over, I walked up. We didn't find one of 'em, not one pair of undies. The smell, you know that sex smell, the whole room, Smelled like... victory.