I know there's a thread about things that drive you nuts about your mate, but how about the good things that they do?

Anyone?

C'mon... they must've done something right...

Yoo.. hoo...  ;D

I love the way he kisses. Even when I'm mad at him, if he comes up and kisses me, thats it, I melt.

http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/naughty.gifI love how he plays with my hair while we are watching television. I also LOVE the way he smells. http://www.inthe00s.com/smilies/pinklove.gif

I like the fact that even when he's mad at me, he doesn't cuss at me or call me names.  He is really good about sticking to the issue and not personally attacking me.

Also he doesn't drink, or do drugs.  And he leaves all the home decorating up to me!

I love it when he'll grab my hand and hold it as we walk across the street.
I love it when he smiles - as it's rare.  :)

. . . I love all the peace and quiet.  ;) ;D

He never yells, he doesn't bug me about keeping the house spotless or dinner on the table at 5:00 sharp, if he's hungry and I don't feel like cooking, he finds himself something to eat, and if I do cook, he doesn't care what it is, he'll eat it! He's a hard worker, and has always worked for the 26 yrs. I've known him. He's crazy about our daughters and our dog!   :D  And the best thing is, he cracks me up all the time!   ;D

Andy loves it when I bite his fingernails.  ;D

He never yells, he doesn't bug me about keeping the house spotless or dinner on the table at 5:00 sharp, if he's hungry and I don't feel like cooking, he finds himself something to eat, and if I do cook, he doesn't care what it is, he'll eat it! He's a hard worker, and has always worked for the 26 yrs. I've known him. He's crazy about our daughters and our dog!   :D  And the best thing is, he cracks me up all the time!   ;D


So sweet, Gemini. He sounds like such a great guy.  :)

So sweet, Gemini. He sounds like such a great guy.  :)

Oh, don't get me wrong, he has his moments!  ;D  I'm just feeling mushy today! I guess I'll keep him!  :)

. . . I love all the peace and quiet.  ;) ;D


Yeah, I hear ya on that one, Bobby :0)

Yeah, I hear ya on that one, Bobby :0)


She doesn't nag me either funnily enough . . .  ;) ;D

Oh, don't get me wrong, he has his moments!  ;D  I'm just feeling mushy today! I guess I'll keep him!  :)


Ohh, I'm sure.. but, I guess those highs and lows are good to keep things in balance.. But, I'll check into the other thread if I feel my down days with him.. lol

Ohh, I'm sure.. but, I guess those highs and lows are good to keep things in balance.. But, I'll check into the other thread if I feel my down days with him.. lol

;D 

Andy loves it when I bite his fingernails.  ;D


What?  LMAO

What? LMAO


I'm guessing Bobby was referring to "mate" as in friend, not "significant other" (correct me if I'm wrong, Bob!).

Either that or he was just joking around. ;D

He never yells, he doesn't bug me about keeping the house spotless or dinner on the table at 5:00 sharp, if he's hungry and I don't feel like cooking, he finds himself something to eat, and if I do cook, he doesn't care what it is, he'll eat it! He's a hard worker, and has always worked for the 26 yrs. I've known him. He's crazy about our daughters and our dog!  :D  And the best thing is, he cracks me up all the time!  ;D


Sounds like a great guy for sure. :)

That general description kinda reminds me of what I'd probably be like in a situation like that too.

She has spunk & She has a nice french kiss though she could do a little bit better
She has a lot of sexiness :)

I'm guessing Bobby was referring to "mate" as in friend, not "significant other" (correct me if I'm wrong, Bob!).

Either that or he was just joking around. ;D


It was the fingernail biting that got me  ;D I hope he doesn't chew toenails - ROFL

She has spunk & She has a nice french kiss though she could do a little bit better
She has a lot of sexiness :)


You got to teach her that , Howard . ;)

You got to teach her that , Howard . ;)



Teach her what? How to french kiss? I think she uses too much mouth.I enjoy the slobbering sometimes. ;D

It was the fingernail biting that got me ;D I hope he doesn't chew toenails - ROFL


Ah, gotcha. :)

I always used to fingernail bite when I was younger (I still easily get annoyed if they grow a little long, to where I can "feel" them. I solved it by always having clippers nearby). ;D

Toenail biting? It's the punchline to a couple jokes, but I don't know of anyone who does it for real, LOL.

Her warmth and passion :)

Teach her what? How to french kiss? I think she uses too much mouth.I enjoy the slobbering sometimes. ;D


YES! You teach her by showing her what you like ;)  Then tell her thats the way you like it. Its not hard.  :D

What?  LMAO


Formerly known as 'Alchoholica' on the boards.

Nice to know someone is paying attention.  ;D

Another thing I love is when he makes me a full course lunch to take to work with me.

YES! You teach her by showing her what you like ;)  Then tell her thats the way you like it. Its not hard.  :D


She has a lot to learn about sensuality. ;D

She has a lot to learn about sensuality. ;D


Get cracking , Mister. Before you know it, you'll both be in heaven ( meaning pure pleasure) ;)

I'm guessing Bobby was referring to "mate" as in friend, not "significant other" (correct me if I'm wrong, Bob!).

Either that or he was just joking around. ;D


I was joking around.  ;D

Get cracking , Mister. Before you know it, you'll both be in heaven ( meaning pure pleasure) ;)


Her and I will get cracking next Sunday when I see her again. ;D

It was the fingernail biting that got me  ;D I hope he doesn't chew toenails - ROFL


I would if Andy asks me to.  ;D

Sexy body ;D ;)

I love how he lets me sleep in on the weekends and he gets up with Vaughn early in the morning.



I love how he doesn't usually get anal about me going out and buying something for the house, etc.


I love how he (when I get too stressed with Vaughn), goes and handles him in a really nice, calm way.


I love when he gives me a big hug with his very strong arms.




Erin :)

I love how he cooks a wonderful meal in no time.

I love the way he can just be somewhere and listen quietly to the point hes barely noticed then-BOOM! He strikes with a hilarious/insightful observation.

I love how he can speak very good-sounding Spanish.

I love how he is very kind to animals; especially cats.

I love how he has such a deep love and insight in regards to music.

*looks in the mirror*

I love ya you big lug!  ;D

I also love how whenever we argue or get into a fight...he never holds a grudge and he can never stay mad at me for a long period of time.




Erin :)

I also love how whenever we argue or get into a fight...he never holds a grudge and he can never stay mad at me for a long period of time.




Erin :)


Grudges are dumb, period. I avoid holding them. Hell i didn't even hold one against that big guy who beat me up my freshman year of high school.

Don't **** with the people who handle your food or the person who sleeps in the same bed with you, I say!

Grudges are dumb, period. I avoid holding them. Hell i didn't even hold one against that big guy who beat me up my freshman year of high school.

Don't **** with the people who handle your food or the person who sleeps in the same bed with you, I say!



ya they are really lame.  I have been with people though who would stay mad at you forever...but Chris isn't like that...he usually comes to me and gives me a hug and apologizes for whatever it was that transpired.



Erin :)

I love how he brings me water so I don't have to get out of bed. When I get a foot cramp he massages it out. When I'm sick he babys me, and calls me 'sweet pea' ;D :D

I love how he brings me water so I don't have to get out of bed. When I get a foot cramp he massages it out. When I'm sick he babys me, and calls me 'sweet pea' ;D :D




awww....mine calls me that sometimes too.




Erin :)

awww....mine calls me that sometimes too.




Erin :)


Sometimes I want to laugh when he calls me that. ;D

Sometimes I want to laugh when he calls me that. ;D



we have silly names for each other...but we don't use them all the time....


mine is Peeny (because my aunt and cousin used to call me Peen when I was little...I have no idea why...and he thought that was cute..so it stuck).

his is Kissy (because when he was little he used to play with trucks and call them kissywhoppers...so i thought that it was cute and it stuck).


LOLOLOL!


Erin :)

I'm in love with a girl called Mary Jane. Shes my main thing. She makes me feel alright; she makes my heart sing. And when I'm feelin' low, it comes as no surprise, Mary lifts me up wit her love, takes me to paradise.  ;D ;)

Holy crap, where do I start...

I love how, no matter what I'm doing, she can always weasle her way into my mind and make me smile.

I love her sense of humor and her creativity in said humor.

Speaking of creativity, holy crap, has anyone read her writing? I'm still trying to decide whether some of her pieces are actual words, or magical tapestries of letters. I don't care how cheesy that sounds, I've never read any writing as good as hers. When she writes... it's like... you're right there. You know exactly what's going on, where it's going on, and how it's going on. It's amazing.

I love how compassionate she is towards everybody. Nobody can be sad without her worrying about them.

I love late-night conversations with her, no matter if they're as serious as cancer, or completely on the other side of the serious spectrum.

I love how accepting she is of me, 'cause in all honesty, I'm suprised we're still together, after some of the stuff that I've put her through.

I love everything about her, and I'm discovering more things I love about her each and every day.  :)



wow. now THERE is someone who has a real relationship.

even if I didn't already know, I coulda guessed who your "mate" is.

now I'm REALLY curious to read one of her poems

yep...Kissywhopper! ;)

Heh... ^_^;; Thanks a lot. The only real problem is that she lives so far away...

... By the way. Did I mention she drives two hours JUST to see me for a day?  :)


now once you turn 16... you'll be doing that, right?

now once you turn 16... you'll be doing that, right?


Holy cheese! Robbin' the cradle!  ;D

I keed

Holy cheese! Robbin' the cradle!  ;D

I keed



2 years hardly makes someone a cradle robber! LOL! ;)



Erin :)

1) I am 16.

2) You don't get your license until 6 months after having your permit (which you can get at 16) in PA.

3) Of course!


SJKLFH! JKLS JFKl i thought you were 15

XD I'm glad someone said it before she started freaking out again...



... She hasn't done that in a really long time, though.  :) :)



I honestly don't see what the big deal is...I mean, it just seems like a big deal because you are still in high school...when you are a few years older...neither of you will even mention it.  Believe me, I know LOTS of couples who are years apart..and it's no big deal for anyone.  If you are happy...who cares about the age difference...I mean, unless it's like a 15 year old girl with a 40 year old guy....but you get my drift! LOL!



Erin :)

XD I'm glad someone said it before she started freaking out again...



... She hasn't done that in a really long time, though.  :) :)


:o :o

Me and blanket are scared.

Holy crap, where do I start...

I love how, no matter what I'm doing, she can always weasle her way into my mind and make me smile.

I love her sense of humor and her creativity in said humor.

Speaking of creativity, holy crap, has anyone read her writing? I'm still trying to decide whether some of her pieces are actual words, or magical tapestries of letters. I don't care how cheesy that sounds, I've never read any writing as good as hers. When she writes... it's like... you're right there. You know exactly what's going on, where it's going on, and how it's going on. It's amazing.

I love how compassionate she is towards everybody. Nobody can be sad without her worrying about them.

I love late-night conversations with her, no matter if they're as serious as cancer, or completely on the other side of the serious spectrum.

I love how accepting she is of me, 'cause in all honesty, I'm suprised we're still together, after some of the stuff that I've put her through.

I love everything about her, and I'm discovering more things I love about her each and every day.  :)



Wow, that made me cry.  :\'(

Okay, My turn...*Channels sappy-Beth*



I love his attitude on life, it's so optimistic. When I'm in a bad mood, or upset in any way, he knows what to say to instantly make me happy.

I love his intelligence.

His sense of humor just.. amazes me. He is, without a doubt, the funniest, wittiest person that I know. I love how much I laugh when I talk to him.

I love how excited I get when I know I'm going to see him. It's this unexplainable feeling in my chest. I get nervous, anxious, and just...ecstatic. It's an awesome feeling. Written words can't really describe it.

He gave me the best compliment I've ever received when he told me that he loves the way I write. Writing is something I take seriously, no one has ever really said that they enjoy it. It meant the world to me.

He has.. this awesome serious side. He knows the right times to be light-hearted and serious.

He's someone I trust with all of my heart. Trust is a huge issue I have. I have much trouble trusting people because of past experiences, but there's just something about him that makes me completely forget that issue that I have. God, he's so genuine.

I love how all of a sudden, he just consumes my entire train of thought, and I have no clue what's going on around me.

He inspires me in so many ways, it's incredible.


Wow, I'm so glad he's in my life....


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9 new replies!! C'mon people, sheesh!

Where to begin?

He cooks for me EVERY night.
The way he snuggles with me at night.
The way he puts his hand on my shoulder as he passes me when I am sitting at the table reading the paper.
How he comes up to me and kisses and hugs me for no reason.
The fact that he puts up with my moodiness.
He will do little things for me-like for instance a few weeks ago, he made me hot chocolate-just because.
He provides transportation for me (since I don't drive anymore).
He lets me have the computer most of the day.  ;D
He treats me like a Goddess.

Many, many more but you get the gist.



Cat

When he knows just how to lift my spirits up , like hes reading my mind. The way he cares about me. I love his sense of humor and he knows how to get me rolling.  ;D The way he says 'goodnight'. ;)

Where to begin?

He cooks for me EVERY night.
The way he snuggles with me at night.
The way he puts his hand on my shoulder as he passes me when I am sitting at the table reading the paper.
How he comes up to me and kisses and hugs me for no reason.
The fact that he puts up with my moodiness.
He will do little things for me-like for instance a few weeks ago, he made me hot chocolate-just because.
He provides transportation for me (since I don't drive anymore).
He lets me have the computer most of the day.  ;D
He treats me like a Goddess.

Many, many more but you get the gist.



Cat


How sweet  :)

the way she drives me places ;D

The way she leaves all of my time free to myself.

I love how he's not judgemental and listens and understand my problems.  :)

Ugh. I need a drink.

I love his smile. He has a really cute smile.

I love how he thinks it is cute whenever I am pissed off at someone....I also like how he can handle my very severe mood swings pretty well!






Erin :)

When he rubs my tummy.

When he rubs my tummy.



When I rub her tummy and other parts of her body ;)

When I rub her tummy and other parts of her body ;)



Her elbow?  :D

I loved watching my bf carry my purse for me at the concert we went to last night. He carried it real well, lol. He was balancing 2 pizzas, my purse and a drink - whatta a man!

She's cheery, but not overly cheery, and she has another side to her that gives her perfect balance of character.. it's fantastic.

my mate... ah... what can I say about my mate?

she has the most beautiful smile...

I love the way she calls me on the phone everyday

She's got a great taste in music and clothes

and She never lets me down.

But the thing I love the most is.... she doesn't exist  ;D

my mate... ah... what can I say about my mate?

she has the most beautiful smile...

I love the way she calls me on the phone everyday

She's got a great taste in music and clothes

and She never lets me down.

But the thing I love the most is.... she doesn't exist  ;D


Here, here for Crazy Jane the invisible girlfriend!  :D ;D

It's definitely the purse thing....he never has a problem when I ask him to hold my purse and we're in public :)


Yeah, I was afraid he was gonna not take it in stride - he even held it throughout the concert for me. I can't believe something that tiny just made me feel so happy to be with him.

Her elbow?  :D



Lower than that. ;D

It's definitely the purse thing....he never has a problem when I ask him to hold my purse and we're in public :)



Mine never did, either. I think my mother summed it up best when she said if a guy has to worry about his masculinity, then he has something to worry about. If he doesn't worry about it-he has nothing to worry about. (Does that make sense?)




Cat

Mine never did, either. I think my mother summed it up best when she said if a guy has to worry about his masculinity, then he has something to worry about. If he doesn't worry about it-he has nothing to worry about. (Does that make sense?)




Cat


Makes perfect sense  :) Actually it was a turn on seeing him carry my purse in his own masculine way. 

I don't think I'd have a problem holding my future wife's (assuming I'll get one) purse. In fact, I wouldn't mind doing it now for... my mom

I would if Andy asks me to.  ;D


...

Sod off!

Things i love about my mate.. well.. i'll take like.

Let's see, he's a big fat bald guy who likes wrestling and plays guitar better than anybody i know personally.
He puts up with my sheesh.

;)He's also not my significant other, just my best mate. (work that one out yanks  ;D)

my mate... ah... what can I say about my mate?

she has the most beautiful smile...

I love the way she calls me on the phone everyday

She's got a great taste in music and clothes

and She never lets me down.

But the thing I love the most is.... she doesn't exist  ;D


I see that we're in the same boat.

When she smells really good ;)

I see that we're in the same boat.


Count me in there, partner.  :D

Count me in there, partner.  :D


Maybe we're just into romantic abstinence.

her sexy body

I love his sideview

He is a kind, sweet man when he wants to be. I know he´s not perfect but that´s normal, I think.
He appears to love me, so I don´t want to hurt him never.

Hi, by the way.

He is a kind, sweet man when he wants to be. I know he´s not perfect but that´s normal, I think.
He appears to love me, so I don´t want to hurt him never.

Hi, by the way.


Hi, nice to have you on the boards!

^  ;D

Hi, nice to have you on the boards!



Thank You  :)

Thank You   :)


you have a fitting avatar, too

you have a fitting avatar, too


;)

Now I love the way she kisses :)

I love the way she fits into my arms. Something about it just seems... so right.

I love the way she affects me. As most of you know, I spent the day with her yesterday. Well, today, during band this morning, Skye said to me, "You know, Justin, you're a very happy guy usually, but this morning, you're like REALLY happy."

Did I mention she was beautiful? Sweet God, she's freaking radiant.



Man, I'm so lucky...


Cool. But lets not start jumping up and down on the couch here..  :D ;)

Don't start, Alex.

'CAUSE I AM HARRRD COOORE!!! I will windmill kick you in the FACE!


Whatcha gonna do brother, when Justinmania runs wild on you?  ;D

Chill man.

Everyone back up, make a circle, let's destroy. this. place.

The lights are low, and I'm about to GO. OFF. HERE COMES THE BREAKDOWN!

KARRRATE CHOP!


Do you ever read the Bible, man? Ezekiel 25:17. The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he, who in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who would attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know my name is the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon..YOU.

;D ;D Oops. Thought I was Jules from Pulp Fiction for a moment.

I love the way she fits into my arms. Something about it just seems... so right.

I love the way she affects me. As most of you know, I spent the day with her yesterday. Well, today, during band this morning, Skye said to me, "You know, Justin, you're a very happy guy usually, but this morning, you're like REALLY happy."

Did I mention she was beautiful? Sweet God, she's freaking radiant.



Man, I'm so lucky...



AHEM... I'm sure you have something to say about her personality... or at least humor or taste in music...

... What? ???


Have you ever listened to the song "everyday I Love You Less And Less" 10 times slower than usual? It's really frustrating

When he makes me laugh

Have you ever listened to the song "everyday I Love You Less And Less" 10 times slower than usual? It's really frustrating


Wow, that was really...random.

Wow, that was really...random.



I didn't understand Dominics point at all... ;D

I didn't understand Dominics point at all... ;D


Maybe he pulled a Howard and posted in the wrong thread.

We are getting a bit in age but the memory of him in a tight white t-shirt is a wonderful thing.  ::)

I love his strong hands

She's a smart person :)

When he does things around the house for me!





Erin :)

Oh, so many things.. I love the way her hair and neck smell... that she's never unenthusiastic with a hug.. she always seems to know when I need a kiss, even more then I know sometimes.. it's crazy. I love that she respects me and what I do and doesn't try to change it... that she loves me.

I love the way she kisses me.

When he wraps me in his arms - I feel like I have full metal armour around me. It's the best feeling in the world.

I love that he loves my 2 cats...and never objects when they crawl in our bed and sleep with us....




shhh...he has no idea that I took this picture a few minutes ago!! LOL!


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v397/rapunzel_1689/Fall2005018.jpg

I love that he loves my 2 cats...and never objects when they crawl in our bed and sleep with us....




shhh...he has no idea that I took this picture a few minutes ago!! LOL!


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v397/rapunzel_1689/Fall2005018.jpg



AWWWW. I always say that you can tell a man's true nature by the way he responds to animals and kids. My hubby is the same way. He doesn't mind (too much  ;) ) when I call the cats to bed with us. In the morning, Electra will sometimes climb on his lap. Or she will jump up on the microwave oven (which is right next to his seat) and then cry to get down. He picks her up to set her down on the floor instead of sayng, "You got up there by yourself, you can down by yourself."



Cat

I love the way:

-he looks at me when I make a funny or say something outrageous
-he talks to my dogs.
-he makes beautiful things happen in my gardens.
-if he says it's going to happen - it does.
-he talks to old people and kids and babies.
-he plays my stupid games like "smell my finger".
-he doesn't notice when he's cut himself when he's working on his car.
-his muscles flex when he chops wood.
-he yells when he's watching sports.

Sigh..... ::)

My wonderful husband just brought home a lot of chocolate for me-because he knows that I love it.  ;D ;D ;D





Cat

I love the way she makes me laugh sometimes.  ;D

I love that he comes downstairs to give me a kiss, in between commercials during the Steeler's game! ;)

I love how he can go on a rampage and make everyone hate him in a time span of 5 minutes  :) ;D

her curvaceousness :)

her curvaceousness :)


:o HOWARD!  ;D