What attracts you to the opposite sex?  Guys, are you a leg man, a$$ man, t!t man or do you like her eyes?  Girls, are you into his eyes, chest, butt, or smile?  What is your ideal mate, or if you wrote a singles ad, how would it read?


At first glance, I'm attracted to men with dark brown hair and dark eyes.  I love a guy with a good sense of humor.


For the ideal man in my Utopian world:

I prefer men to be around 6 ft or taller and have a big build especially pecs and biceps and a tight but round a$$.  Dark hair and any color eyes, but I prefer brown or green.  Likes trendy clothes and hair styles.  Great sense of humor with a thick skin but also someone who is considerate and unselfish.

i'm an unabashed breast man. i love dark hair, short or long and a larger than normal sized body. i'm really into the personality, she has to be unique in her weirdness and lately (due in fact to my last gf) i love piercings and tats and not just earrings but piercings that are only exclusive to your eyes (and tongue) only...

I like men with a little cushion... a really skinny man doesn't appeal to me.

I like men who are relatively stable.  By this I mean they don't have an ex-wife constantly in the picture, battles over child custody/support, not still tied to the apron strings, has a job, etc.

I don't like men who nitpick over pennies (the kind who will drive all over town to find a gas station where the gas is 2 cents cheaper), and men who think the floor is the hamper, garbage can, etc.

And they can't be too possessive or jealous either.

the kind who will drive all over town to find a gas station where the gas is 2 cents cheaper), and men who think the floor is the hamper, garbage can, etc.


Gee, you described my husband here.  He used to want to drive four miles (each way) to a gas station that was .05 cents cheaper per gallon.  It was a savings of $2. per tank.  I was like, "I'll give you the two dollars, just go to the gas station across the street!"

Gee, you described my husband here.  He used to want to drive four miles (each way) to a gas station that was .05 cents cheaper per gallon.  It was a savings of $2. per tank.  I was like, "I'll give you the two dollars, just go to the gas station across the street!"


LOL I had a boyfriend like that once, it used to drive me nuts!! 

LOL I had a boyfriend like that once, it used to drive me nuts!! 


;D ;D ;D ;D Ridiculous ::)

Oh, all sorts of factors.

Eyes are very important, and their lips and smile. A good smile goes a long way.

I love long hair, especially wavy. Oh, and auburn or red is my favorite color.

I also have a preference towards taller women. And if I had to choose what feature is more important, a** or breasts, I'd say *ss.

Oh, all sorts of factors.

Eyes are very important, and their lips and smile. A good smile goes a long way.

I love long hair, especially wavy. Oh, and auburn or red is my favorite color.

I also have a preference towards taller women. And if I had to choose what feature is more important, a** or breasts, I'd say *ss.


Yes, you are right, there are too many factors. :)

The eyes, the smile, the height (I like tall guys)... :)

The eyes, the smile, the height (I like tall guys)... :)


I wonder, what makes tall men more attractive to women?

As someone who is 5'7"/167 cm tall, I wonder this.

I wonder, what makes tall men more attractive to women?

As someone who is 5'7"/167 cm tall, I wonder this.


I think it has to do with me being a tall woman (5'9")... :)

I think it has to do with me being a tall woman (5'9")... :)


No, what I meant was why is a guy being taller than you attractive?

No, what I meant was why is a guy being taller than you attractive?


I don't really know.  Maybe it makes me feel more secure... :-\\

I don't really know. Maybe it makes me feel more secure... :-\\


I've always wondered that. I've known of many a women who won't date a guy shorter than them. If that is how they feel..but to them I say don't complain if a guy turns you down because your breasts aren't large enough.  >:(

I've always wondered that. I've known of many a women who won't date a guy shorter than them. If that is how they feel..but to them I say don't complain if a guy turns you down because your breasts aren't large enough.  >:(
I imagine it stems back to the whole the male is meant to protect the female thing,so you subconsciously think someone taller will shelter you ?
Having said that when you find the right person it doesn't matter one bit, and if someone is shallow enough to think it does then it's their loss !  I'm 5ft 11' and my other half is the same height as me and he loves going out with me when I have heels on and tower over him and I don't even think about it. 

What attracts you to the opposite sex?  Guys, are you a leg man, a$$ man, t!t man or do you like her eyes?  Girls, are you into his eyes, chest, butt, or smile?  What is your ideal mate, or if you wrote a singles ad, how would it read?
For some reason I'm craving a KFC chicken bucket

For some reason I'm craving a KFC chicken bucket


Ha ha!  ;D

Hmmm. Again, as a lot of people stated. Different factors. I love a woman's eyes, hair, face,  and then I scan down and look at her body (yep! I like tits and arse too  ;D) and then I focus on the personality. If the personality is rotten, it puts me off the woman despite the above factors.  :)

I tend to get drawn to affectionate, mysterious red heads/brunettes with a daft sense of humour. Not a mix that is readily available all of the time.  ;D

Slutty, Skanky, Bottom Feeding, Trashbag Ho Types

Long Hair is important.. although I'm not awfully concerned wether it's Black, Yeller or Red.

I'd love to be able to sing..

"I love to love em, I love to shove em, I love to kiss em & i love to kick em.. I'm an ass man!"

But alas.. The Swinging Sweater Puppies win out there.

Not skinny.. gah one thing i hate more than anything is chicks where you can see the bones in there neck.. ugh, it's horrible.

Personality wise.. well anybody that can put up with me must have a good one.  ;)

The one thing that they must have is at least similar tastes in music to me. Which isn't that difficult, i can put up with a lot of stuff... but if i don't like something.. IT MUST BE DESTROYED!

I imagine it stems back to the whole the male is meant to protect the female thing,so you subconsciously think someone taller will shelter you ?
Having said that when you find the right person it doesn't matter one bit, and if someone is shallow enough to think it does then it's their loss !  I'm 5ft 11' and my other half is the same height as me and he loves going out with me when I have heels on and tower over him and I don't even think about it. 


I definatley agree with you.  It's a subconscious thing.  But I've seen a little guy hold his own against a big guy and I have to say, height doesn't really matter.

Slutty, Skanky, Bottom Feeding, Trashbag Ho Types



LOL ;D ;D ;D

I love tall men with long, thin legs. I'm not into over-muscular types. I'm not into blond men. They must have dark hair and eyes. Stong intellect is a must! If I can't have an intelligent conversation with you, move over. A good sense of humor is great. Patience is a virtue as I tend to do things that may come off too strong.

Wait a minute - I have that already in my hubby!

Tanya

As some of you already know, I am in the middle of reading my old journal that I wrote many, many years ago. My very first entry I wrote about my "Mr. Right", what I am looking for, etc. etc. The funny thing is, it really describes Carlos and I wrote that about year before I met him. So, what it is that I want in the opposite sex-Carlos.  ;D ;D ;D  (Can you tell that I really can't stand the guy.  ;))





Cat

I guess we all have a preferred "type". Personally I've always been attracted to brunettes with long hair.
I've never met a man yet who claims to prefer skinny women, e.g. of the build of catwalk models, and I'm no different.
I think it's got something to do with looking for a mate of child bearing potential.

I always think of Catherine Zeta Jones as a copybook example of the sort of woman I'm attracted to but for some reason I find her very beautiful but not very sexy  :-\\.  Teri Hatcher on the other hand....I had to stifle an involuntary moan when I saw her on TV the other night  :o.

P.S. I'm happily married to my beautiful brunette wife...I'm using those examples above as none of you know my wife!

I imagine it stems back to the whole the male is meant to protect the female thing,so you subconsciously think someone taller will shelter you ?
Having said that when you find the right person it doesn't matter one bit, and if someone is shallow enough to think it does then it's their loss ! I'm 5ft 11' and my other half is the same height as me and he loves going out with me when I have heels on and tower over him and I don't even think about it.


Yeah, I see wht you are saying. I was just feeling insecure because the gal I have my hopes for is two tinches taller than me.

But today, we were both nominated for Prom King and Queen, which makes me feel sooo much more confident. First thing Monday after springbreak, I'm asking her out. Our height difference is only a barrier if I see it that way.

Today proved to me that all of your wildest dreams can come true.

Teri Hatcher on the other hand....I had to stifle an involuntary moan when I saw her on TV the other night  :o.

P.S. I'm happily married to my beautiful brunette wife...I'm using those examples above as none of you know my wife!


You shouldn't have to stifle that moan, you're married not dead. ;) :)  But then to some people (I'm not saying you maddog) marriage is death. ;D

Yeah, I see wht you are saying. I was just feeling insecure because the gal I have my hopes for is two tinches taller than me.

But today, we were both nominated for Prom King and Queen, which makes me feel sooo much more confident. First thing Monday after springbreak, I'm asking her out. Our height difference is only a barrier if I see it that way.

Today proved to me that all of your wildest dreams can come true.


Good for you! :D

I don't think two inches is a big deal... (GET YOUR MIND OUT OF THE GUTTER!)

I am 5'10" and I don't mind a man being a couple inches shorter than me, as long as I don't have to look down to talk to them or kiss them, and as long as I can hug them without it being awkward.  If a the top of a man's head came up to my chin, I might be a little uncomfortable...

I guess it's the face and eyes for me, really. A nice body is always a plus, but...

But then, the kind of person she is makes her much more attractive {or unattractive} in most aspects.

i yearn for a tall woman but myself being 6'3" it's very hard to find that elusive valkyrie...

i yearn for a tall woman but myself being 6'3" it's very hard to find that elusive valkyrie...


I've seen women that tall, it's a little odd and not very attractive. :-\\  I think 6 feet is as tall as a woman can get before it is awkward.  It's kind of like when a man is 7 feet tall, they aren't really attrative at that size.  I think 6' 7" is my limit on a man's height.

i yearn for a tall woman but myself being 6'3" it's very hard to find that elusive valkyrie...

Q: What's the problem with tall woman?
A: When you are nose to nose, your toes are in it and
    When you are toes to toes, your nose is in it.  :D

Eww...

i yearn for a tall woman but myself being 6'3" it's very hard to find that elusive valkyrie...

This should excite you  ;)