;D  I don't mind hearing it, but I don't want the neighbors to, so he can't have it loud if the windows are open.

Whilst it's true that there's nothing wrong in being a porn fan (but not hard core in my opinion) it probably isn't the best thing to tell someone when you've only met them once or twice.  Especially not the really kinky stuff which Howard seems to be discussing  :o


This was my sentiments when writing my post, Mona. Honesty is the best policy (I told my girlfriend I had a small amount of pornography before I moved in with her so that she didn't find out accidentally). It's just there is a difference between being honest and shooting yourself in the foot before a promising relationship develops.  :)

I have been told by my girlfriend that there is nowt wrong with pornography (providing it is all above the age of consent of course) so I live with the idea without too much guilt these days.

I disagree.  There's nothing wrong with being a porn fan and if he's going to have a long term relationship with a woman, she might as well know.  Some women don't care if you are a porn fan so you might as well work on finding a woman that is OK with that.  My hubby is a porn fan.  It doesn't bother me at all.



Mona,I used to date a girl for 5 years and she was older than I was and I liked talking about porn to her.She didn't mind but this girl I'm seeing now hopefully for a few more times is younger than I am( She's 24 compared to my 30)and she's not even into porn so she probably thinks I might be a pedophile or something.I don't know but I kinda wonder about myself. :-\\ I enjoy loads of kinky stuff but I don't want her to blab it back to her Mother or I'll get into trouble. :-[


Howard

Whilst it's true that there's nothing wrong in being a porn fan (but not hard core in my opinion) it probably isn't the best thing to tell someone when you've only met them once or twice.  Especially not the really kinky stuff which Howard seems to be discussing  :o


too much kinky stuff.I've been watching a whole lot of HBO and Cinemax Late Night For Adults. ;D


Howard

I talk way too fast and people tell me to slow down.


Howard

Mona,I used to date a girl for 5 years and she was older than I was and I liked talking about porn to her.She didn't mind but this girl I'm seeing now hopefully for a few more times is younger than I am( She's 24 compared to my 30)and she's not even into porn so she probably thinks I might be a pedophile or something.I don't know but I kinda wonder about myself. :-\\ I enjoy loads of kinky stuff but I don't want her to blab it back to her Mother or I'll get into trouble. :-[


Howard


Howard, I doubt that she thinks you are a pedophile.

I don't know any women who would go out with someone they think is a pedophile.

I'm just a general @sshole to everyone half the time. On AmIRight, I'm constantly dishing out insults and yelling at people. It's not blind flaming, but I get too mad too often.

;D  I don't mind hearing it, but I don't want the neighbors to, so he can't have it loud if the windows are open.


I hear ya! Sometimes I wonder if my neighbors think it's us!

Tanya

I'm just a general @sshole to everyone half the time. On AmIRight, I'm constantly dishing out insults and yelling at people. It's not blind flaming, but I get too mad too often.


Why do you get mad and feel you need to dish out insults, Icy?

Why do you get mad and feel you need to dish out insults, Icy?


Really, the only people I actually insult are people who prove their stupidity regularly. Everyone else, I don't really insult, I just don't deal with them in a friendly way. When people are hostile towards me, I'm not calm back. That seems submissive to me. I don't submit to people just because they've been on a site longer then me, or they're older. I just don't.

Really, the only people I actually insult are people who prove their stupidity regularly. Everyone else, I don't really insult, I just don't deal with them in a friendly way. When people are hostile towards me, I'm not calm back. That seems submissive to me. I don't submit to people just because they've been on a site longer then me, or they're older. I just don't.


It's great to hear that you are an independent person with independent ideas, Icy. Treating fools lightly is something I am not known for either(despite my calm demeanour). Try not to confuse calmness with submission though. Getting hostile never does any good because it gives the other person a right to react back in the same manner (and the right to stick to their views, however wrong they may be).

It is great to see you on the boards.  :)

I'm a worrywart.I worry too much about stuff in general. :-\\


Howard

I figured out my worst problem.... I'm unstable. I can't keep one emotion for more then a few hours. As soon as something good {no matter how trivial or small} ends, I become depressed. A lot of the time, It hurts to laugh or be happy. Physically hurts as soon as I stop laughing. Sometimes, I'll think for weeks on end about killing myself, sometimes, I just seem well adjusted, sometimes I feel like I'll never come down and I annoy people. More often, I'm low then high. People often ask me if I recieve psychiatric help, and they say it in a joking way. Oftentimes, however, I can tell that they mean it. People are geniunely concerned for me, people who hardly have a relationship with me. Other people haven't seen both sides, and don't know how to react when the other comes out. People who saw me normal for 3 days actually started crying when they saw me depressed. Things were quite awkward for a bit after that. People who saw depressed me {A lot of you initially caught me in a phase of depression when I started out. Originally, I was bitter a lot, which goes with the depression. Then I was just depressed.} weren't sure how to react to normal me. People have told me I scare them. I don't want to scare people, but when it hurts, it hurts. I can only hold it in for so long, and I don't have much resistance over my feelings. I act well when emotion isn't genuine. I can become another person, but not when the only thing on my mind is death. I can't do it then. I can stifle my happiness, I can hold back my hysterics, I can restrain excitement. I can not say the same concerning melancholy. Every day I wonder if I'll stay in a phase, leave, or just add another layer on. The most trivial things set me off, and it hurts so much. Even happiness hurts a lot sometimes.

yeah, well, you really don't have enough time for that

I tend to dwell on silly situations. :(


Howard

1) I'm self-obsessed
2) I get flippantly angry over minor situations
3) I speak before I act
4) I worry endlessly (hence my afflictions with battery acid and raw meat)

I tend to jump the gun before reacting.


Howard

: :\'( Sorry you have the flu, but what are you doing staying up so late?  You should be getting lots of rest!!!

You only have ONE basket :o  I have 6 ;D ;D ;D  And, they're all full right now ;)



Actually, we have 3-one for Carlos' dirty clothes, one for mine and the other one that the clean ones remain in for about a week.  :D


I do hope you feel better soon.



Cat

At this stage in my life, my biggest problem is that I lack the self-discipline to get myself into good physical shape. I smoke about a pack of cigarettes a day and I rarely exercise. I'm not terribly overweight (about 40 lbs) but with this new job that is almost sure to change (I'm back to driving a truck long-distance, which I swore I would never do again, but I made an exception for this company).
Well, as long as I avoid the truck stop buffets I should be all right, but this smoking thing is going to be a b*tch.

Right now, I'm starving, but have a touch of the flu so don't want to eat and throw it all up again :(  What a waste of a good dinner at Outback >:(


I'm sorry to hear that you have the flu, Cheer.  :(

Take care and try to get as much rest as possible (even though I know how difficult that can be when you have little ones)...

heehee...We have 4 hampers PLUS 6 laundry baskets ;D ;D ;D

Thanks, I managed to keep a couple of crackers down this morning ::)



Oh yeah, I forgot about the hamper in the bathroom that has clean towels in it-for about 6 months.  :o




Cat

I try to give some advice to people & friends but they don't seem to want it. :(


Howard

I have a hard time absorbing information. :(



Howard

I try to give some advice to people & friends but they don't seem to want it. :(


Howard
Give me some advice, lets see how good you really are at this, remember you will be evaluated ::)

I am a notorious procrastinator.
I've lied and told people (including some people here, sorry) that I am no longer depressed. To be truthful when it comes to depression I feel like I sitting on a fence with people throwing rocks at me. It's like I can fall off at any minute. I used to take medication but they made me feel like a vegetable. SO now ciggarettes and insane amounts of Pepsi keep me in check, no joke. Whenever I run out of cigarettes I drown myself in Pepsi and vice versa BUT god forbid that I run out of both, I become mentally fragile. Someone could just look at me wrong and I go over the edge.
I've become such an expert at faking it, that i don't know how I feel anymore.

Give me some advice, lets see how good you really are at this, remember you will be evaluated ::)



ok go ahead Jim



Howard

I have a hard time making decisions :(



Howard

Drain Bamage

Drain Bamage



what's wrong with you? ;D



Howard

what's wrong with you? ;D



Howard
I slipped out of the doctors hands as a baby, the first time I was sure it was an accident but after four more drops I begin to question him  ::)

I slipped out of the doctors hands as a baby, the first time I was sure it was an accident but after four more drops I begin to question him  ::)



they should've kept you there.



Howard

I ask way too much questions.
I talk too much.
I can get really annoying at times.
I procrastinate alot.
I am really, really, forgetful.
I can be be whiney at times.

Wheeew!  ::)

I ask way too much questions.
I talk too much.
I can get really annoying at times.
I procrastinate alot.
I am really, really, forgetful.
I can be be whiney at times.

Wheeew!  ::)
sure you didn't forget something? think hard now :P

I like to be right
I expect a certain degree of perfection (due to my OCD symptoms)
I am stubborn
I am very moody


Erin :)

I am confused sometimes
I have trouble absorbing information



Howard

I have a hard time with relationships with women.I find that this has been the 2nd girl that has been so domineering to me. ::)

I get depressed very easily (sometimes for no apparent reason).



Erin :)

Hmm, this ought to be interesting.

I try to be things i can't be.
I set goals for myself that i know i can't meet.
I'm arrogant.
I'm cocky.
I can be very insular.
I sometimes put people down to make myself look good, knowing that it makes me look like a jerk. (something i try hard not to do anymore)
I can be very lethargic.
I have serious rage problems (i went to anger management for the better part of a year when i was 14)
;D
I tend to procrastinate.
I have a habit of not saying things i should.
I like to shut myself off and ignore everything going on around me.
I repress too much.

I dunno.. that's all i can think of now.

I tend to procrastinate.

I misread this one   ::)

At the moment I am just feeling a little impatient and frustrated with things and I shouldn't be. Not something I like to admit but, hey, I don't think many people here like to admit their negative feelings.  ;) :)

andy at age 14   ;D
http://www.komar.org/hulk/contest/incredible_hulk_car.jpg

andy at age 14   ;D
http://www.komar.org/hulk/contest/incredible_hulk_car.jpg


LOL!!!!  ;D

andy at age 14   ;D
http://www.komar.org/hulk/contest/incredible_hulk_car.jpg


Oi! Don't make me mad, YOU WOULDN'T LIKE ME WHEN I'M MAD!! MM... Donuts!

LOL!!!!  ;D

look ma, i'm driving with no hands (guess how he steers the car)    ::)

http://www.oxygenkiosk.net/albums/ps/rage.sized.gif

look ma, i'm driving with no hands (guess how he steers the car)    ::)


Oh yeah, I didn't notice that, lol.  ;D

I'd tell ya all but I'd have to kill ya all... lets just say i'm a Fcuk Up  ;D
http://www.cartoon.me.uk/images/smallJackNicholson_RSSize(401x641).jpg

andy at age 14   ;D
http://www.komar.org/hulk/contest/incredible_hulk_car.jpg
http://community.the-underdogs.org/smiley/happy/yelrotflmao.gif

Hmm,
Depressed
Impatient
Angry
Imature
Ugly...I'm sure there's more but only the people who really know me can tell you :D

Hmm,
Depressed
Impatient
Angry
Imature
Ugly...I'm sure there's more but only the people who really know me can tell you :D


Well, count me in as one of those who don't 'really know you', Mark...

...but you missed out 'All round great bloke...'

1. I have a very poor self-image.
2. I tend to think like a critic too much.
3. I always play Devil's Advocate, when I guess people just want blind agreement.
4. I tend to hate people by default until they prove themselves worthy.
5. The smallest things can set off extended periods of depression.
6. I get into horrible fits of anger that I relieve in extremely harmful ways.
7. I have rapid mood changes.
8. I can be very quiet and anti-social in social situations.
9. I give people too many second chances.
10. I tend to have a dry sense of humor people don't get sometimes.
11. I'm too critical of my own work that many good works get destroyed in anger.
12. I find it difficult to follow the advice I give.
13. I'm only good with words when it's for someone else's situation.
14. I tend to act as more of a therapist and less of a friend, offering advice when sympathy was all that was really wanted.
15. I get very jealous and angry of others when they find happiness while I suffer in a similar situation.
16. I tend to be obsessive.
17. I lack co-ordination.
18. I capitalize words throughout my sentences at total random some of the time.
19. I find being around people painful some of the time.
20. I don't give myself enough credit a lot of the time, and nothing can really change my view once it's set.. and it's almost always to a negative self-image.


^ that's done in short. There's much more.

1. I have a very poor self-image.
2. I tend to think like a critic too much.
3. I always play Devil's Advocate, when I guess people just want blind agreement.
4. I tend to hate people by default until they prove themselves worthy.
5. The smallest things can set off extended periods of depression.
6. I get into horrible fits of anger that I relieve in extremely harmful ways.
7. I have rapid mood changes.
8. I can be very quiet and anti-social in social situations.
9. I give people too many second chances.
10. I tend to have a dry sense of humor people don't get sometimes.
11. I'm too critical of my own work that many good works get destroyed in anger.
12. I find it difficult to follow the advice I give.
13. I'm only good with words when it's for someone else's situation.
14. I tend to act as more of a therapist and less of a friend, offering advice when sympathy was all that was really wanted.
15. I get very jealous and angry of others when they find happiness while I suffer in a similar situation.
16. I tend to be obsessive.
17. I lack co-ordination.
18. I capitalize words throughout my sentences at total random some of the time.
19. I find being around people painful some of the time.
20. I don't give myself enough credit a lot of the time, and nothing can really change my view once it's set.. and it's almost always to a negative self-image.


^ that's done in short. There's much more.
ALWAYS trying to top me, eh  :D ;)

Well, count me in as one of those who don't 'really know you', Mark...

...but you missed out 'All round great bloke...'
To really know me is to learn to avoid me...some might say :-\\ Thanks for the always kind words though, Paul :)

I tend to muck about and tell jokes a lot, which is fine most times, but it makes it harder for people to really take me seriously... i'm usually quite an upbeat, happy person though, so I aint got too much to complain about  :)

Well, Andrew - I can relate to #'s 1,2,8,10,19 and 20...so you're not alone in that department...

There'll come a time when you'll stop kicking dirty great lumps in yourself, I guarantee it...it's called 'getting older'...

There'll come a time when you'll stop kicking dirty great lumps in yourself, I guarantee it...it's called 'getting older'...


Yeah, I suppose so.. I still have a long ways to go.

Yeah, I suppose so.. I still have a long ways to go.


In the meantime (and I appreciate it sounds corny), try and be gentle with yourself...

In the meantime (and I appreciate it sounds corny), try and be gentle with yourself...


I can try.. but when I'm angry, and I get that far gone, it's hard to do so.

I am lazy at times.
I can be annoying at times.

I got bad dandruff.  :-\\

I am lazy at times.




Me too  :-[

I am moody.
I don't like kids.

Too prepared to give in to others, at my own expense  >:(

Too many things to list here  ::)

Too many things to list here  ::)


???

But Mooey, there is a whole page to be filled  ;D

I was gonna write something like the above myself but then apathy took over.  Oh !  There - we can add that to my list  :D

I got bad dandruff.  :-\\


I get that in small amounts.


I don't like kids.

So.. if misanthropy is not liking men, and misogyny is not liking women, what is the word for not liking children?

Normal.  ;D

Screwed up childhood. I don't just have a chip on my shoulder, I've got the whole block!

Screwed up childhood. I don't just have a chip on my shoulder, I've got the whole block!


HOO! Join the club.  ;D

My patience seems to be wearing thinner these days... :-\\

I procrastinate too much and I have no patience!!



Erin

I'm incredibly eccentric, I don't know how else to describe myself.... :D

I have a very short temper

and I am a sh!t distuber-if I know something pi$$es people off, I keep doing it.

If someone is a b!tch to me they get it right back ten-fold-I believe in tit-for-tat.
(The b!tch next door is gonna get it real soon, but I will make her take the first swing-after that it's self-defense ::))

I have a problem with repeating myself much too often :(

There are periods in which I can be somewhat superficial.. it's not too noticeable, I do a good job of keeping it inside, but I can be shallow in up to two-week intervals. It's weird.

i don't have a very good short-term memory, but i make up for that with a (frighteningly) good long-term memory. Example - If I revise some notes one morning, chances are that if I return to them the same evening, i'll have forgotten where I was up to and forget half of what I revised, but on the flip-side, i can remember really random things that happened years and years ago... wierd

I'm incredibly eccentric, I don't know how else to describe myself.... :D


Eccentric is cool.  ;) :)

Eccentric is cool.  ;) :)


Agreed. I have a thing for eccentricity myself... as long as it isn't TOO much.. especially when it's stupid random.. that gets annoying.

I have a hard time with reality, my friends tell me that I live in a movie 24/7. I have annoying mood swings...and low self esteem. That's just a scratch at the surface..



~Beth

I have a hard time with reality, my friends tell me that I live in a movie 24/7. I have annoying mood swings...and low self esteem. That's just a scratch at the surface..


Do a 20 list like I did.  ;D

Do a 20 list like I did.  ;D




Well, I'm in a good mood tonight...I don't wanna break that. Maybe some other time.



~Beth

Well, I'm in a good mood tonight...I don't wanna break that. Maybe some other time.

Good thought.

I tend to hold on to "ammunition" too much... like, if somebody does something wrong, we'll remember it for years and bring it up whenever it's relevant... I think it runs in my family, though.. my dad brought up something from 3 years ago the other day... I once brought up something from 9 years ago. If that gives you an idea.

I tend to hold on to "ammunition" too much... like, if somebody does something wrong, we'll remember it for years and bring it up whenever it's relevant... I think it runs in my family, though.. my dad brought up something from 3 years ago the other day... I once brought up something from 9 years ago. If that gives you an idea.


Perhaps it would be easier if you posted in the "What is right with you" thread  ;D

I have a hard time explaining myself.

I hold a grudge for along time.

I can come up with ideas for plenty of things, which is a good thing but I usually use it to come up with ideas for revenge. People in my neighborhood aren't gonna know what hit them.

I have a bad temper when something goes wrong.

I sometimes think bad things always happen to me in that I'm just flat out am a "bad luck person."

I am not outgoing as I should be. I don't go to bars or nightclubs like other people my age do. I live in Jersey so its nightclubs and bars central. I prefer bookstores and the park.

Women Troubles-I go for women who are out of my league and sometimes I think I;m too nice of a guy to have a girlfriend.

I am a procastinator on the weekends when it comes to doing chores around the house.

I should give myself good advice instead of giving other people good advice.

I remember useless things such as what happened in a NFL game like 5 years ago.  Example: when the Vikings got beat by the Falcons in the 98-99 NFC Championship game or when Philly made that 4th down and 25 yards to go and got 26 yards on a pass play to get a first down in a playoff game against green bay in 2002-2003.I remember every bodystyle car of from 1990-present. Yet I'm really not determined to go to college.

I cry about current gas prices.

I eat food too fast.

I'm usually a very laid-back, calm person, but when something p*sses me off, it really p*sses me off, and usually ends up broken. The best examples of this awful temper coming into play would be:
* Broken control pad - PS2
* Smashed number pad on keyboard
* Broken PS2 games : The Sims, Grand Theft Auto: Vice City , Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas , The Simpsons: Hit & Run
* Broken PC mouse
* Broke my Game Boy Colour twice in the space of a month - once headbutted, once thrown out of the window
* Cracked my tv screen
* Computers which no longer work due to being punched/thrown/hit with a hammer: Sega Mega Drive, Sega Master System
* None of my original PlayStation controls work because of being thrown across the room/yanked out of the socket
* My old PC now makes a quiet buzzing noise after I thumped it

As you can see, I need to watch my temper before I break something even more valuable  :o