1.      Noxzema Pump Introduction Commercial:  Noxzema introduced a pump dispenser sometime in the mid 80's.  There was a shower rinsing scene in this one.  

2.      Ivory Soap.  Early 80's  There was a blonde with medium to short hair, and she lathered her face, as if she were at a sink, but then there was a close-up of her rinsing her face in the shower.

3.      Mudd Mask late 80's.  Opened with the line:  "Is a Mudd Clean really worth it"?  Various women rinsing their faces, including one with wet hair.

4.      Lubriderm late 80's.  Woman awakens, exercises, splashes her face, brushes teeth, takes a bath, does her hair, and puts on Lubriderm.  (excellent face splashing scene)

5.      Buf-Puf mid 80's.  Woman with medium length hair, washes her face.  The woman splashed her face several times.  

6.      Phisoderm mid 80's.  The "She's got her PhD commercial".

Any help would be appreciated

I can't help you with any of that, sorry to say.  :-/

But you just reminded me of a classic - "Apri" Apricot Facial Scrub.

facialcleansingfan, try the link below.  Now, I haven't gone through all the commercials, so I don't know if your ad is  here.  

http://www.80stvthemes.com/commercials/