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Subject: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/16/06 at 3:28 pm

http://abcnews.go.com/


On the front page, there's a giant header saying that that an arrest had been made connected to the JonBenet Ramsey case.  I'm listening to WLS am in Chicago, and according to the story they aired, they arrested the suspect in Thailand. 


Has anyone else here heard anything connected to this today?




Edit: Later today, the Boulder County D.A. will be holding a press conference about this. 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/16/06 at 3:32 pm


http://abcnews.go.com/


On the front page, there's a giant header saying that that an arrest had been made connected to the JonBenet Ramsey case.  I'm listening to WLS am in Chicago, and according to the story they aired, the arrested in Thailand. 


Has anyone else here heard anything connected to this today?


Edit: Later today, the Boulder County D.A. will be holding a press conference about this. 


Here I am in Colorado and haven't heard anything yet but I'm sure I'll see it on the evening news.  Thanks for the heads up.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/16/06 at 3:36 pm


Here I am in Colorado and haven't heard anything yet but I'm sure I'll see it on the evening news.  Thanks for the heads up.



No problem.  Apparently this is someone that was considered a suspect 10 years ago and that this person confessed to aspects of the crime not known to the public. 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/16/06 at 5:49 pm



No problem.  Apparently this is someone that was considered a suspect 10 years ago and that this person confessed to aspects of the crime not known to the public. 


If this guy is the real perp, people will be standing in line to give him the electric chair.  Of course he would deserve worse.  >:(

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80sTrivMeister on 08/16/06 at 5:52 pm

Wow... after ten years, I never thought an arrest would be made in JonBenet's death... sad to think her mother died before hearing the news and that JonBenet would be sixteen-years-old had she lived...

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/16/06 at 7:54 pm

Now I have the chance to be sick of JonBenet all over again!  Hooray hooray!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/16/06 at 10:50 pm


Now I have the chance to be sick of JonBenet all over again!  Hooray hooray!



If you didn't care, you shouldn't have posted.



http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060817/ap_on_re_us/jonbenet_ramsey


The suspect's name is John Mark Karr and he had confessed to certain aspects of the crime to authorities that were not made known to the general public.  It'll be interesting to see where this goes from here.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Davester on 08/16/06 at 10:57 pm

  Hadn't heard of this, untill I read it here...

  When I clicked on the link I honestly expected to learn of John and/or Patsy Ramsey's arrest...

  I'll just "WTF" and read on go ;) ...

 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/16/06 at 11:08 pm

I say, find out if this Karr guy did it. If he didn't let, him go.  If he did, give him life in prison, or the hot shot, or whatever they do out there Colorado. 

HERE'S WHAT MAKES ME SICK:
TELEVISION AND TABLOIDS PERPETUALLY RECIRCULATING THE PHOTOS OF THAT POOR LITTLE GIRL DEPRIVED OF HER CHILDHOOD AND MADE UP LIKE A CHEAP TART!  THE ONLY REASON THE MEDIA HYPED JBR'S MURDER WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS THE YOUNGEST BEAUTY QUEEN.  RATINGS RATINGS RATINGS---THAT'S ALL!

I THINK IT'S WRONG TO DOLL UP LITTLE GIRLS TO LOOK LIKE SEX OBJECTS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PEDOPHILES. IT HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH ALLOWING LITTLE GIRLS TO BE LITTLE GIRLS AT LEAST FOR THEIR FIRST DECADE OF LIFE (WHICH JBR DIDN'T EVEN GET TO COMPLETE)!

MMMMKAY?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/16/06 at 11:21 pm


HERE'S WHAT MAKES ME SICK:
TELEVISION AND TABLOIDS PERPETUALLY RECIRCULATING THE PHOTOS OF THAT POOR LITTLE GIRL DEPRIVED OF HER CHILDHOOD AND MADE UP LIKE A CHEAP TART!  THE ONLY REASON THE MEDIA HYPED JBR'S MURDER WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS THE YOUNGEST BEAUTY QUEEN.  RATINGS RATINGS RATINGS---THAT'S ALL!

I THINK IT'S WRONG TO DOLL UP LITTLE GIRLS TO LOOK LIKE SEX OBJECTS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PEDOPHILES. IT HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH ALLOWING LITTLE GIRLS TO BE LITTLE GIRLS AT LEAST FOR THEIR FIRST DECADE OF LIFE (WHICH JBR DIDN'T EVEN GET TO COMPLETE)!

MMMMKAY?






Calm down.  There's no need to scream.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/16/06 at 11:38 pm




Calm down.  There's no need to scream.

I AM CALM! I AM NOT SCREAMING!
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/09/smhair1.gif
Oh, where are my pills?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/17/06 at 5:29 am


   Hadn't heard of this, untill I read it here...

   When I clicked on the link I honestly expected to learn of John and/or Patsy Ramsey's arrest...

   I'll just "WTF" and read on go ;) ...

   


Well if they had arrested Patsy Ramsay yesterday, that really would be extending the long arm of the law.  She's considerably farther away than Thailand.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/17/06 at 5:34 am



The suspect's name is John Mark Karr and he had confessed to certain aspects of the crime to authorities that were not made known to the general public.  It'll be interesting to see where this goes from here.


I just saw a clip of this guy on TV.  Now I am not so sure if he did it or not.  (a) it is a confession, and with this being a sensational crime he could be some sort of warped thrill seeker.  (b) I know it is just appearances, but he did not look all that "stable" on TV.

About 20 years ago a stupid kid named Rolando Cruz walked into a Chicago-area police station and started blathering unknown details about a young girl's murder.  Got convicted THREE TIMES for the murders until it was conclusively proven (and agreed to by the DA) that he could not have done the crime.  Moron just wanted to be a "celebrity" and his prank got out of hand and by then nobody would believe that he didn't do it.

Now if they come up with some DNA on this guy Carr, then I'll feel more comfortable that he's the evil doer.  :-\\

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Davester on 08/17/06 at 6:18 am


Well if they had arrested Patsy Ramsay yesterday, that really would be extending the long arm of the law.  She's considerably farther away than Thailand.


  Egh...

  I'm a doofus...

  She died of breast cancer this year...go ;) ...

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: danootaandme on 08/17/06 at 6:28 am



I just saw a clip of this guy on TV.  Now I am not so sure if he did it or not.  (a) it is a confession, and with this being a sensational crime he could be some sort of warped thrill seeker.  (b) I know it is just appearances, but he did not look all that "stable" on TV.

Now if they come up with some DNA on this guy Carr, then I'll feel more comfortable that he's the evil doer.  :-\\


This is how I see it, too.  I want some evidence that this isn't a set up on either side.  Of course if it is true it could give hope to all the less wealthy, less politically connected people whose childrens murders have gone unsolved......not.

Oh yeah, what was with the press conference in Thailand who had an American female identified as a member of Homeland Security?  Homeland Security in the JonBenet case..... ???

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 08/17/06 at 8:14 am

According to the news, the Ramsey's gave the police this guy's name back when it first happened, but they never really followed up on it.  Later, John Ramsey was on another news program saying he didn't think he knew this guy.  Speculation is that he became obsessed with her after going to a pageant and followed them from Georgia to Colorado.  He actually was arrested on kiddie porn charges in Thailand.....I'm sure if they looked into it, he could be charged with ALOT more than that, being in Thailand >:(

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/17/06 at 8:37 am



If you didn't care, you shouldn't have posted.

if you didn't like his post, you shouldn't have replied!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/17/06 at 9:06 am


I say, find out if this Karr guy did it. If he didn't let, him go.  If he did, give him life in prison, or the hot shot, or whatever they do out there Colorado. 

HERE'S WHAT MAKES ME SICK:
TELEVISION AND TABLOIDS PERPETUALLY RECIRCULATING THE PHOTOS OF THAT POOR LITTLE GIRL DEPRIVED OF HER CHILDHOOD AND MADE UP LIKE A CHEAP TART!  THE ONLY REASON THE MEDIA HYPED JBR'S MURDER WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS THE YOUNGEST BEAUTY QUEEN.  RATINGS RATINGS RATINGS---THAT'S ALL!

I THINK IT'S WRONG TO DOLL UP LITTLE GIRLS TO LOOK LIKE SEX OBJECTS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PEDOPHILES. IT HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH ALLOWING LITTLE GIRLS TO BE LITTLE GIRLS AT LEAST FOR THEIR FIRST DECADE OF LIFE (WHICH JBR DIDN'T EVEN GET TO COMPLETE)!


I'm in full agreement with you here, Max.  They print an article saying how horrible the exploitation of little girls is....how awful it is that there are men out there obsessed with little girls, etc.....and the very same Tabloids are the ones doing the exploitation.  BAD BAD BAD.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Marian on 08/17/06 at 1:52 pm


Wow... after ten years, I never thought an arrest would be made in JonBenet's death... sad to think her mother died before hearing the news and that JonBenet would be sixteen-years-old had she lived...
Her mother had found out about this new direction the investigation was going.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Marian on 08/17/06 at 1:57 pm


   Hadn't heard of this, untill I read it here...

   When I clicked on the link I honestly expected to learn of John and/or Patsy Ramsey's arrest...

   I'll just "WTF" and read on go ;) ...

   
Well<Patsy is gone,so they couldn't have arrested her.I was skeptical John could have done it.I once saw an interview with John walsh,whose own son disappeared.he said they shoulsd talk to the police,but he had apparently been poorly treated himself.At the time of the disappearance of his son,Adam,his then-wife was having an affair with one of John's friends.But John had told the police he didn't think the man took his son.The police had asked him why he doesn't think so,kind of badgered him about it.They felt he SHOULD have thought the man wass a suspect.I can understand why the ramsy's would want to be cautious about saying too much to the media.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/17/06 at 3:41 pm

Headline in the Rocky Mountain News (Denver) today says, "Do we have a whack-job or a murderer?"  Apparently, they're now thinking that this guy is just nuts and quite possibly did not actually commit the crime.  Some of the information he has given has been wrong (like that he picked her up from school that day -- it was Christmas vacation).  Anyway -- that's the latest.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/17/06 at 3:44 pm

so wait... anybody could have claimed guilt and then gotten all this free publicity? i coulda fessed up and used it to promote my new band.

it's bizarre but i hear this sorta thing happens all the time. in high profile cases the police always get dozens of people claiming to be guilty but it hardly ever gets this far. what the hell?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/17/06 at 3:51 pm


so wait... anybody could have claimed guilt and then gotten all this free publicity? i coulda fessed up and used it to promote my new band.

it's bizarre but i hear this sorta thing happens all the time. in high profile cases the police always get dozens of people claiming to be guilty but it hardly ever gets this far. what the hell?


The truth is that....we don't know what the truth is yet.  But they still need to investigate this guy.  They've arrested him.  He's confessed.  But he might not be the killer.  Still, he's wanted for child porn in California so....he ain't going free.

Still and all -- yeah -- a person's gotta be pretty whacky to confess to a crime like this if he didn't really do it.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/17/06 at 4:00 pm

i believe he actually already served a sentence for kiddie porn possession. which doesn't augur well for his claim that it was just an accident. i think he said he meant to kidnap her but not kill her? like, whatever, dude.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/17/06 at 4:02 pm


i believe he actually already served a sentence for kiddie porn possession. which doesn't augur well for his claim that it was just an accident. i think he said he meant to kidnap her but not kill her? like, whatever, dude.



What got me was when he said he "loved" her.  She's 6, you pervert.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/17/06 at 4:58 pm



What got me was when he said he "loved" her.  She's 6, you pervert.

Ever heard that Chuck Berry song, "Memphis, Tennessee"?
:-X


I just saw a clip of this guy on TV.  Now I am not so sure if he did it or not.  (a) it is a confession, and with this being a sensational crime he could be some sort of warped thrill seeker.  (b) I know it is just appearances, but he did not look all that "stable" on TV.

About 20 years ago a stupid kid named Rolando Cruz walked into a Chicago-area police station and started blathering unknown details about a young girl's murder.  Got convicted THREE TIMES for the murders until it was conclusively proven (and agreed to by the DA) that he could not have done the crime.  Moron just wanted to be a "celebrity" and his prank got out of hand and by then nobody would believe that he didn't do it.

Now if they come up with some DNA on this guy Carr, then I'll feel more comfortable that he's the evil doer.  :-\\

Karr may have pulled the stunt to get out of the Thai prison and into an American prison.  I wouldn't want to be in either, but if I had to choose...
I heard all about Mr. Cruz.  I figured he just wanted to go to prison because he loved big smelly guys named Bubba and Smiley, and he got tired of the nine-to-five girnd and  sick of the bar scene.  That way, Mr. Cruz could get a roof, three squares, and all the (censored) he wanted!
:P


I'm in full agreement with you here, Max.  They print an article saying how horrible the exploitation of little girls is....how awful it is that there are men out there obsessed with little girls, etc.....and the very same Tabloids are the ones doing the exploitation.  BAD BAD BAD.

I can't deny there's a pedophile element, but it's less of a problem than the press would have you think.  Those predatory pedophiles just reach for whatever they can grab.  Their pathology is much too savage for the child beauty pageants.  They are less likely to lurk in the audience there than they are to mill about the neighborhood for easier prey.  The JonBenet's of the world watched over constantly.  If she was molested, the perp was probably a parent or guardian.
The JBR "soap opera" never disappeared from the supermarket tabloids.  I think the people most obsessed with her are the same people who buy those awful sorts of dolls they hawk on the home shopping networks.  It was like JBR wasn't even a human being to these people!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Gis on 08/17/06 at 5:13 pm

Umm Memphis Tenessee is meant to be about his daughter. As Dee Snider said about all Tipper Gore she was  looking for was perverted stuff in their lyrics and so she found it..................

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/17/06 at 5:23 pm


Umm Memphis Tenessee is meant to be about his daughter. As Dee Snider said about all Tipper Gore she was  looking for was perverted stuff in their lyrics and so she found it..................

Oh, I know, "Marie is only six years old, information please, try to get ahold of her in Memphis, Tennessee..."  That's the punchline.  Until then the listener assumes "Marie" is his ex-wife.  I don't believe there was a pedophiliac bluff in the lyrics, but some people speculated there was.  It didn't help that Chuck Berry turned out to be a dirty old man.  He never got busted with minors, like R. Kelly did, but he p...well, I won't go into details!
:-\\

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/17/06 at 6:20 pm


According to the news, the Ramsey's gave the police this guy's name back when it first happened, but they never really followed up on it.  Later, John Ramsey was on another news program saying he didn't think he knew this guy.  Speculation is that he became obsessed with her after going to a pageant and followed them from Georgia to Colorado.  He actually was arrested on kiddie porn charges in Thailand.....I'm sure if they looked into it, he could be charged with ALOT more than that, being in Thailand >:(


Problem is, the Ramsays left Georgia in 1991 when JonB was but a year old.

I now have FIFTY BUCKS that says that this John Karr is a nut case who did NOT do the crime.

On TV he was all about "yeah I did it" and "i loved her" and "it was an accident".  But when they asked him "How did you gain entry to the house?" he said he could not go into that.  It is classic con-man behavior.

He also said that he raped JonB, but that is inconsistent with the evidence.  The cops never said she was raped, just had "vaginal abrasions".

If they do not have DNA on this doofus he'll be cut loose.  At least for the JohnB murder anyway.  :-\\

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/17/06 at 7:13 pm


Problem is, the Ramsays left Georgia in 1991 when JonB was but a year old.

I now have FIFTY BUCKS that says that this John Karr is a nut case who did NOT do the crime.

On TV he was all about "yeah I did it" and "i loved her" and "it was an accident".  But when they asked him "How did you gain entry to the house?" he said he could not go into that.  It is classic con-man behavior.

He also said that he raped JonB, but that is inconsistent with the evidence.  The cops never said she was raped, just had "vaginal abrasions".

If they do not have DNA on this doofus he'll be cut loose.  At least for the JohnB murder anyway.  :-\\

If the DNA samples are viable, his con is up double quick!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/17/06 at 8:17 pm


Oh, I know, "Marie is only six years old, information please, try to get ahold of her in Memphis, Tennessee..."  That's the punchline.  Until then the listener assumes "Marie" is his ex-wife.  I don't believe there was a pedophiliac bluff in the lyrics, but some people speculated there was.  It didn't help that Chuck Berry turned out to be a dirty old man.  He never got busted with minors, like R. Kelly did, but he p...well, I won't go into details!
:-\\



If you listen to the lyrics of the song (the only version I've heard is the one performed by Johnny Rivers), it doesn't talk like someone trying to get in touch with his ex-wife.  The first time I ever heard the song, I thought it was Elvis singing about his daughter Lisa Marie.

"Help me, information, more than that I cannot add
Only that I miss her and all the fun we had
But we were pulled apart because her mom did not agree
And tore apart our happy home in Memphis Tennessee"


That was the verse before the lines that mentioned that Marie was 6 years old.



What sickens me the most is that this family will never have closure.  I'd hate to be the parent of a murdered child and know that her killer is still walking around somewhere. 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/17/06 at 9:46 pm




What sickens me the most is that this family will never have closure.  I'd hate to be the parent of a murdered child and know that her killer is still walking around somewhere. 

It is important to put these things in perspective.  The media runs a million human interest stories exposing a million family tragedies because the public laps them up.  In my family's past there is tragedy.  I hope there will be no more in the future.  In every town and every neighborhood there are families wtih agonizing events from which they will not recover for generations. It is part of the human condition.  I am not saying it is right.  I am not saying it is "wrong" either.  I am saying it "is."  The commonality of tragedy does not diminish the suffering of the Ramsey family.  I would not present it to them as a salve for their woes.  That would be crass.  Neither you, nor I, nor anybody we know is in the Ramsey family, nor were we directly affected by the events in the Ramsey home of December, 1996.  You can vicariously feel as though you are personally invested in the JBR case.  You vicariously feel as though you are personally invested in the goings-on about "General Hospital."  Beyond the following reaction, "A little girl was murdered in Boulder, and nobody knows who did it? How terrible! That poor family," you merely engage in voyeuristic infotainment soap opera.  Fine if that's your bag, but it really does no good to become distressed about it.

Closure?  Even if they find the sick bastard who murdered JBR and string him up by his toenails, the Ramseys will never find "closure."  That's a myth.  For instance, my paternal grandfather committed suicide in 1943.  He was bipolar (manic-depressive, they used to call it).  Discharged from the military and in a rut, the family was warding over him, trying to figure out what to do next.  They tried to keep him away from the guns on the farm, but he got ahold of one anyway.  One morning he absconded to an abandoned chicken coop and blew his brains out Ernest Hemingway style.  Believe me, there was no closure.  There was a lot of repressed grief and outrage, but no closure.  It is now 63 years later.  My grandfather's suicide has passed into family lore.  It is accepted as a terrible event from generations past.  But there really isn't "closure."  My father was three years old when his father took his own life.  That one fateful event blackened his psyche.  I was born decades after the event, but I would by lying if I denied my grandfather's suicide had a destructive influence on me for what it did to my father.  When it comes to terrible events in families, there is no "closure."  That's an Oprah-style myth. 

The Ramsey survivors will have to accept and live with what happened to JonBonet.  You can accept that which is unbearable on the terms of its unbearability...but "closure"?  I'm afraid not.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/17/06 at 11:25 pm

Your post completely overran and misinterpreted my comment.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/17/06 at 11:56 pm


Your post completely overran and misinterpreted my comment.
so what you're saying is, you're guilty. yes? ???

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/18/06 at 1:26 am


so what you're saying is, you're guilty. yes? ???



No.  He took my comment to mean that I was personally invested in what happened or personally affected.  I'm neither.  I would just like to see some kind of definitive answer given to the family, that's all. 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/18/06 at 8:45 am



No.  He took my comment to mean that I was personally invested in what happened or personally affected.  I'm neither.  I would just like to see some kind of definitive answer given to the family, that's all. 


That makes sense to me.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: CeeKay on 08/18/06 at 8:50 am


The Ramsey survivors will have to accept and live with what happened to JonBonet.  You can accept that which is unbearable on the terms of its unbearability...but "closure"?  I'm afraid not.


I think there are different levels of closure in such an emotionally complex situation.  One of those is knowing that the perpetrator of the crime has been caught and is off the streets.  It doesn't close down all issues and all pains for the family, but it does give closure to that particular piece....to what I would guess would be a nagging in the back of a parent's mind ... a quiet little voice saying, "he's still out there somewhere...he's still out there somewhere..."

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/18/06 at 10:56 am


I think there are different levels of closure in such an emotionally complex situation.  One of those is knowing that the perpetrator of the crime has been caught and is off the streets.  It doesn't close down all issues and all pains for the family, but it does give closure to that particular piece....to what I would guess would be a nagging in the back of a parent's mind ... a quiet little voice saying, "he's still out there somewhere...he's still out there somewhere..."

In the case of JBR, I don't think he is still out there because he never was.  Dad will take the secret to his own grave.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/18/06 at 5:17 pm


It is important to put these things in perspective.  The media runs a million human interest stories exposing a million family tragedies because the public laps them up.  In my family's past there is tragedy.  I hope there will be no more in the future.  In every town and every neighborhood there are families wtih agonizing events from which they will not recover for generations. It is part of the human condition.  I am not saying it is right.  I am not saying it is "wrong" either.  I am saying it "is."  The commonality of tragedy does not diminish the suffering of the Ramsey family.  I would not present it to them as a salve for their woes.  That would be crass.  Neither you, nor I, nor anybody we know is in the Ramsey family, nor were we directly affected by the events in the Ramsey home of December, 1996.  You can vicariously feel as though you are personally invested in the JBR case.  You vicariously feel as though you are personally invested in the goings-on about "General Hospital."  Beyond the following reaction, "A little girl was murdered in Boulder, and nobody knows who did it? How terrible! That poor family," you merely engage in voyeuristic infotainment soap opera.  Fine if that's your bag, but it really does no good to become distressed about it.

Closure?  Even if they find the sick bastard who murdered JBR and string him up by his toenails, the Ramseys will never find "closure."  That's a myth.  For instance, my paternal grandfather committed suicide in 1943.  He was bipolar (manic-depressive, they used to call it).  Discharged from the military and in a rut, the family was warding over him, trying to figure out what to do next.  They tried to keep him away from the guns on the farm, but he got ahold of one anyway.  One morning he absconded to an abandoned chicken coop and blew his brains out Ernest Hemingway style.  Believe me, there was no closure.  There was a lot of repressed grief and outrage, but no closure.  It is now 63 years later.  My grandfather's suicide has passed into family lore.  It is accepted as a terrible event from generations past.  But there really isn't "closure."  My father was three years old when his father took his own life.  That one fateful event blackened his psyche.  I was born decades after the event, but I would by lying if I denied my grandfather's suicide had a destructive influence on me for what it did to my father.  When it comes to terrible events in families, there is no "closure."  That's an Oprah-style myth. 

The Ramsey survivors will have to accept and live with what happened to JonBonet.  You can accept that which is unbearable on the terms of its unbearability...but "closure"?  I'm afraid not.


Good point there, Max.

A friend of mine who lost his youngest son told me "You know LyricBoy, people ask me if I ever will get over it.  I don't think i will ever get over it, but I have managed to get around it."

An eloquent way of putting things. 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/18/06 at 7:46 pm


Good point there, Max.

A friend of mine who lost his youngest son told me "You know LyricBoy, people ask me if I ever will get over it.  I don't think i will ever get over it, but I have managed to get around it."

An eloquent way of putting things. 


I asked a friend of mine whose son committed suicide at the age of 25, "Paul, how do you deal with such a loss?" He said, "There was life before my son killed himself, and there is life after my son killed himself. No sense in pretending it will ever be the same."  He talked about battles with the booze, the marital problems, the therapy, and the antidepressants...and the whole series replaying over again! 
Losing a family member to suicide is in some ways worse than losing one to homicide.  Not hard to imagine why.  As for unsolved homicides, of course families of victims should pursue justice.

One question--
Did the cops pick up Mark Karr in an unmarked car?
:P

From what I've seen I don't think he killed JBR.  His past with underaged girls suggests he'd be happy in Utah with those polygamists who get expelled from LDS and shack up in shanty towns in the desert!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/18/06 at 8:12 pm

Tha saddest part of all of this is that for the next several months it is going to be JonBenet TV.  All JonBenet, all the time.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/18/06 at 9:06 pm


Tha saddest part of all of this is that for the next several months it is going to be JonBenet TV.  All JonBenet, all the time.

You know, JBR never really disappeared from the tabloids.  The stories grew sporadic in the past few years, but they never stopped exploiting JBR.  This throws a can of gasoline on a dying fire!
::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/20/06 at 6:47 am


You know, JBR never really disappeared from the tabloids.  The stories grew sporadic in the past few years, but they never stopped exploiting JBR.  This throws a can of gasoline on a dying fire!
::)


And even when the DNA results come in completely exonerating this doofus Karr, the tabliods and CourTV will be able to dredge the whole thang up, over and over, and talk about how the "real killer" went free.  "This guy even admitted that he did it, what more do they need" will be the cry.

What they ought to do is just have a JonB channel where anybody who wants to know about this can go get their fix.  Then leave the rest of us in peace.  Ditto for Natalee Holloway and whatever disappearee-of-the-week comes to be.

It still steams me that if a black or latina turns up missing, it is buried on page 3 of the sports section.  The whole "crime TV" genre is definitely racist.  >:(

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/20/06 at 2:49 pm

...Just saw on the news wires that Mr. Karr is flying back to the U S of A in Business Class and is not even handcuffed.

He was sucking down champagne, chardonnay, and king prawns, clinking glasses with his federal agent escort.

This guy is going to make the Feds and the Colorado Authorities look like World Class schnooks.  ;D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/20/06 at 2:52 pm


...Just saw on the news wires that Mr. Karr is flying back to the U S of A in Business Class and is not even handcuffed.

He was sucking down champagne, chardonnay, and king prawns, clinking glasses with his federal agent escort.

nice! i'm in the wrong line of work, i tell ya.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/20/06 at 3:32 pm


And even when the DNA results come in completely exonerating this doofus Karr, the tabliods and CourTV will be able to dredge the whole thang up, over and over, and talk about how the "real killer" went free.  "This guy even admitted that he did it, what more do they need" will be the cry.

What they ought to do is just have a JonB channel where anybody who wants to know about this can go get their fix.  Then leave the rest of us in peace.  Ditto for Natalee Holloway and whatever disappearee-of-the-week comes to be.

It still steams me that if a black or latina turns up missing, it is buried on page 3 of the sports section.  The whole "crime TV" genre is definitely racist.  >:(

Sports section? More of a sport than a crime, eh?
:-X
Well, what about O.J.?  Oh, that was a famous black man killing two white people, including his white wife!  I always said, if O.J. Simpson had been Oscar Simpson, the bus driver from South Central, who killed his white GF and another white guy, he'd be sitting on death row right now!

IMO, Natalee Holloway was the first porn start never to be a porn star.  She eve hand a porn star-sounding name!  Yeah, I know what you're thinking Mr. Indignant Television Commentator!  Them Dutch boys done did what you wanted to do.  I thought some of that Holloway outrage was envy!  Right Sean Hannity?  I've see the same phenomenon regarding other missing May Queens, but none so prolonged as Holloway.

JonBonet redux also gave Mark Klass the opportunity to get on TV and yell about his daughter again!  I'm waiting for John Walsh.  These two guys are a couple of jerks.  Sorry, the worst thing in the world happening to your child does not give you a lifelong immunity from jerk-hood!  Klass was hollaring about how hurt and outraged he was that Karr had pictures of Polly in his cell.  Uh, Mark, you did start the Polly Klass Foundation.  We are all grateful for your actvism, but I'll bet dollars to doughnuts there are hundreds of pervos downloading Polly's pictures every chance they get.  It's one thing to take action on behalf of other victims, it's another to gratuitously promote hatred of a suspect.

Now I do notice similar stories involving poor black or latin kids.  Guys like Bill O'Reilly use them as excuses to call excoriate poor people as "bad parents," or  to indict government social service agencies.  I don't see the same kind of fetishism as there is for JBR or Natalee.


Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: freeridemt on 08/20/06 at 3:33 pm

In this case who ever did it, should be treated like it was 1880. Get a rope and string the varmint up!!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/20/06 at 3:44 pm


...Just saw on the news wires that Mr. Karr is flying back to the U S of A in Business Class and is not even handcuffed.

He was sucking down champagne, chardonnay, and king prawns, clinking glasses with his federal agent escort.

This guy is going to make the Feds and the Colorado Authorities look like World Class schnooks.   ;D


Latest conspiracy theory:  Karl Rove is using JBR/Karr a distraction from this story:
http://www.cnn.com/2006/POLITICS/08/17/domesticspying.lawsuit/index.html
Granted the Judge Diggs Taylor decision is a great opportunity to talk about "judicial tyranny" and the "Dem agenda undermining the War on Terror," but what the Bushies are doing is unconstitutional, criminal, and eminently impeachable.  Better to push a red herring than let the public get too focused on your treason.  Not that there's anything the public can do about it!
Further conjecture: Neil Bush previously met Mark Karr in Thailand.  It's a stretch, but it wouldn't be the first time.  Neil Bush was a friend of Scott Hinckley, John Hinckley's older brother!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/20/06 at 3:59 pm


In this case who ever did it, should be treated like it was 1880. Get a rope and string the varmint up!!

The great thing about the Wild West justice system is you could just get a rope and string the varmint up.  You didn't have to prove the guy was guilty, the salt-of-the-earth homesteaders had just to point the finger, and the job was done!  Thus, the folks got justice in  emotion and spirit, which, it turns out, is more important to Americans than justice in fact.  Hence the frustration over the couldn't-possibly-have-done-it Mark Karr.  In 1880 Texas, he would have dangled in under 48 hours.  Too bad.  Karr's got such a nice pencil-neck for hangin'!

"You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers. These are people of the land. The common clay of the new West. You know... morons."

--Jim, the Waco Kid

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/20/06 at 4:10 pm


The great thing about the Wild West justice system is you could just get a rope and string the varmint up.  You didn't have to prove the guy was guilty, the salt-of-the-earth homesteaders had just to point the finger, and the job was done! 
now, now, max! everybody's guilty of SOMEthing. why do you hate justice and america?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/20/06 at 4:17 pm


now, now, max! everybody's guilty of SOMEthing. why do you hate justice and america?


FOX News could use a man like you!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/20/06 at 4:26 pm


FOX News could use a man like you!
well, i'm actually being a bit fakey but at this point i really can't afford to be too picky, job wise.

er... i mean, are you insinuating that fox isn't fair and balanced? ya lib?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 1:02 am


well, i'm actually being a bit fakey but at this point i really can't afford to be too picky, job wise.

er... i mean, are you insinuating that fox isn't fair and balanced? ya lib?

HOW TO GET A JOB AT FOX NEWS:

Start in college.  Join the campus Republican Club. Write for the right-wing Newspaper in campus.  If there isn't one, start one.  If you don't like the existing one, start another one.  Apply for grants for Mellon-Scaife, Olin, Bradley, Heritage, American Enterprise, and such foundations.  They're happy to bankroll "The Campus Conservative" for you, or whatever you wanna call it.  If you're trying to start a new one, no problem.  Two is better than one. They'll give you money all the same.  These same foundations will help you get your right wing pundits to speak on campus---Dinesh D'Souza, Ann Coulter, Laura Ingram, William Bennett, or whoever you want.  Again, money's no problem.  These foundations have plenty of dough.  It doesn't matter if 30 people or 3000 people show up.  The speakers get paid all the same.  The important thing is to get your name at the top of the lists of organizers.
The next thing you do, starting in your sophomore year, is apply for internships with Heritage, Competitive Enterprise, American Enterprise, Young America's, or whatever you like.  Just make sure it's not a think tank such as Brookings, that might red flag you as a closet liberal.
After you make your bones at one of the think tanks, then you can apply for an internship at FOX News.  Never take the American flag off your lapel, never stop smiling, never fail to congratulate the GOP on all their endeavors, and you will soon find yourself in an associate producer position....from there, who knows.
If your an extremely good-looking girl or boy, you can do certain special things to help expedite the process.  If you do enough of these certain special things, you might even get a job in front of the camera, and wouldn't that be exciting!
Remember, to work at FOX, you don't actually have to know anything about politics, history, current events, or economics.  In fact, it helps if you don't have any opinions of your own.  That way you can read the daily talking points without any annoying thoughts getting in the way!
Furthermore, beware it is extremely easy to be too liberal, but extremely difficult to be too conservative.  You can even advocate a governmental Office of Censorship and threaten to beat up Al Franken!  Just ask Brian Kilmeade, he did both!
:D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 08/21/06 at 9:10 am


Problem is, the Ramsays left Georgia in 1991 when JonB was but a year old.

I now have FIFTY BUCKS that says that this John Karr is a nut case who did NOT do the crime.

On TV he was all about "yeah I did it" and "i loved her" and "it was an accident".  But when they asked him "How did you gain entry to the house?" he said he could not go into that.  It is classic con-man behavior.

He also said that he raped JonB, but that is inconsistent with the evidence.  The cops never said she was raped, just had "vaginal abrasions".

If they do not have DNA on this doofus he'll be cut loose.  At least for the JohnB murder anyway.  :-\\
Just because she only had "vaginal abrasions" does not necessarily mean she wasn't raped.  Trust me, my "first" probably wouldn't have left ANY marks....this guy doesn't look like he's packing a "python" if you get my drift ;)

Seriously, this guy needs to be locked away and the key conveniently "lost" (like NASA did with the "moon landing" tapes).  Like others have said, he's wanted for other charges and it looks like he's got quite a history of misbehavior with little girls >:(

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 1:10 pm


Just because she only had "vaginal abrasions" does not necessarily mean she wasn't raped.  Trust me, my "first" probably wouldn't have left ANY marks....this guy doesn't look like he's packing a "python" if you get my drift ;)

Seriously, this guy needs to be locked away and the key conveniently "lost" (like NASA did with the "moon landing" tapes).  Like others have said, he's wanted for other charges and it looks like he's got quite a history of misbehavior with little girls >:(

He's got a long neck.  You know what they say about guys with long necks, doncha?
::)

Yes, he's got quite a history of misbehavior with little girls.  Better to have the folks focus on Mr. Karr and his history of misbehavior with little girls than on the Bush Administration and their history of fascistic, unconstitutional policy-making!
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060817/ap_on_go_pr_wh/warrantless_surveillance

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/21/06 at 1:14 pm

i'm not sure i buy the diversion-from-unconstitutional-finding theory. isn't some court or another finding bush unconstitutional every day of the week?

i remember they found chandra levy's skeleton at some funny point, there was something funny going on and theories went around about how it was meant to divert us from it. and i don't even remember what it was so... mission accomplished!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 1:25 pm


i'm not sure i buy the diversion-from-unconstitutional-finding theory. isn't some court or another finding bush unconstitutional every day of the week?

i remember they found chandra levy's skeleton at some funny point, there was something funny going on and theories went around about how it was meant to divert us from it. and i don't even remember what it was so... mission accomplished!


(snaps his fingers)
I just figured it out! Rep. Gary Condit set up 9/11!

The two most insensitive remarks I heard on 9/11/01:

"I never liked those buildings anyway, they f**ked up the skyline."
--My friend Sam, a native New Yorker

"Great day for Gary Condit!"
--My dad, via email

;D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/21/06 at 1:42 pm


(snaps his fingers)
I just figured it out! Rep. Gary Condit set up 9/11!

The two most insensitive remarks I heard on 9/11/01:

"I never liked those buildings anyway, they f**ked up the skyline."
--My friend Sam, a native New Yorker

"Great day for Gary Condit!"
--My dad, via email

;D
most everybody hated the trade towers! my favorite story is how the 1974 movie "herbie rides again" is a harsh indictment of the trade towers. before they came to symbolize america besieged they were kinda an eyesore... :-[

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 2:47 pm


most everybody hated the trade towers! my favorite story is how the 1974 movie "herbie rides again" is a harsh indictment of the trade towers. before they came to symbolize america besieged they were kinda an eyesore... :-Herb-ie for nothing!  I hope you don't think what they're going to build in the place the Trade Towers will be an improvement.  I've seen the plans for that leviathan, and I'm afraid to look at them again.  Gimme nightmares!

Another component of the 9/11 conspiracy theories:

You know what they were still using in the mid-1970s? Asbestos.  The WTC were dripping with asbestos.  See, at the quarter century mark those buildings were in need of zillions of dollars worth of upgrades, not the least of which was a gargantuan asbestos abatement project.  Who wants to pay for all that crap?  Just knock the f**ker down and collect the insurance!  Kinda like what the mafia used to do with money-losing buildings!
http://911research.wtc7.net/wtc/evidence/asbestos.html
::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/21/06 at 3:50 pm

a lot of kid's movies in the early, mid 70s are pretty tripped out. boy named charlie brown, i've just discovered, has a psychedelic musical interlude. dude, everybody was high! i was watching "the long goodbye" and robert altman was all talking about how back in those days you pretty much got a contact high the second you stepped outta the house.

http://kimrichards.net/Kim/vidcaps/RFWM/thumbs/TN_gc-ReturnFromWitchMountain-177.jpg

dude. i bet it was sweet.

ANYway, i'd heard that about the asbestos. apparently the insurance for the towers traded hands about a month before sept 11.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/21/06 at 5:43 pm


Another component of the 9/11 conspiracy theories:

You know what they were still using in the mid-1970s? Asbestos.  The WTC were dripping with asbestos.  See, at the quarter century mark those buildings were in need of zillions of dollars worth of upgrades, not the least of which was a gargantuan asbestos abatement project.  Who wants to pay for all that crap?  Just knock the f**ker down and collect the insurance!  Kinda like what the mafia used to do with money-losing buildings!
http://911research.wtc7.net/wtc/evidence/asbestos.html
::)




People will come up with any reason humanly possible to look like a tool.  People who believe that garbage need to quit dipping their cup in the Kool-Aid.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 8:02 pm


a lot of kid's movies in the early, mid 70s are pretty tripped out. boy named charlie brown, i've just discovered, has a psychedelic musical interlude. dude, everybody was high! i was watching "the long goodbye" and robert altman was all talking about how back in those days you pretty much got a contact high the second you stepped outta the house.

http://kimrichards.net/Kim/vidcaps/RFWM/thumbs/TN_gc-ReturnFromWitchMountain-177.jpg

dude. i bet it was sweet.

ANYway, i'd heard that about the asbestos. apparently the insurance for the towers traded hands about a month before sept 11.


I'm not concluding anything about the asbestos, but I do say if you mix big money, big sociopathy, and big buildings, a lot of baaaad things CAN happen.  That's all!

I just saw some more footage of Mr. Karr. It must have been from the early '90s.  He had a Florabama championship blue ribbon-winning mullet if I ever saw one!  The footage bears a strange resemblance to the old tapes they used to show of David Koresh!
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/14/notworthy.gif

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/21/06 at 8:08 pm


I just saw some more footage of Mr. Karr. It must have been from the early '90s.  He had a Florabama championship blue ribbon-winning mullet if I ever saw one!  The footage bears a strange resemblance to the old tapes they used to show of David Koresh!
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/14/notworthy.gif
of course, david koresh had followers. that's pretty sad when you're not as cool as david koresh.

i wonder what will happen to this dude if it turns out he made the whole thing up. somebody needs to put that footage on youtube!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/21/06 at 8:46 pm


of course, david koresh had followers. that's pretty sad when you're not as cool as david koresh.

i wonder what will happen to this dude if it turns out he made the whole thing up. somebody needs to put that footage on youtube!

Koresh was pretty cool!
(until he annointed himself God and adopted all the girls as his personal harem!)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/22/06 at 8:25 pm


of course, david koresh had followers. that's pretty sad when you're not as cool as david koresh.

i wonder what will happen to this dude if it turns out he made the whole thing up. somebody needs to put that footage on youtube!


OF COURSE he made it up.  He's a con man, plain and simple.  The JonB investigation team wanted to believe him SO BAD that they fell for his cr@p hook line and sinker.

Prior to a week or so ago, this guy was a nebbish.  Now he has notoriety.  In a twisted way he is having his 15 minutes of fame.  The investigation will conclude, however, that there is no forensic evidence whatsoever pointing to him and he will go free.  Well, maybe, he'll have to stand trial for those kiddie porn charges in Kalifornia.

Gotta give this guy credit.  He has played law enforcement ike a fiddle.  ::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/22/06 at 8:33 pm


OF COURSE he made it up.  He's a con man, plain and simple.  The JonB investigation team wanted to believe him SO BAD that they fell for his cr@p hook line and sinker.

Prior to a week or so ago, this guy was a nebbish.  Now he has notoriety.  In a twisted way he is having his 15 minutes of fame.  The investigation will conclude, however, that there is no forensic evidence whatsoever pointing to him and he will go free.  Well, maybe, he'll have to stand trial for those kiddie porn charges in Kalifornia.

Gotta give this guy credit.  He has played law enforcement ike a fiddle.  ::)


Avoid cliches like the plague!

Of course, I think the fiddler was playing on commission in this case!
::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/22/06 at 8:36 pm


Avoid cliches like the plague!

Of course, I think the fiddler was playing on commission in this case!
::)


Heh heh.. my post was rather cliche-laden, now wasn;t it?  ;)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 08/23/06 at 8:30 am

On the news this morning, they were saying that his ex-wife was on TV saying he's not crazy and I guess Carr's lawyer told her to shut up.....kinda' hard to prove an insanity defense when your family's been on tv saying you're not insane ;D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tam on 08/23/06 at 1:30 pm

IMHO - I think he is bogus. He didnt do it - he was stuck overseas with no money to get back home - so why not claim to be something and have immigration pay your way back?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Jessica on 08/23/06 at 1:41 pm


IMHO - I think he is bogus. He didnt do it - he was stuck overseas with no money to get back home - so why not claim to be something and have immigration pay your way back?


With champagne and king prawns in Business Class, no less. ::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/23/06 at 1:50 pm


With champagne and king prawns in Business Class, no less. ::)
he and the fbi guy assigned to watch him had a toast to underage girls, evidently.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/23/06 at 5:21 pm


IMHO - I think he is bogus. He didnt do it - he was stuck overseas with no money to get back home - so why not claim to be something and have immigration pay your way back?


HECK YEAH!

I clink my glass to John Karr for coming up with the ultimate scam to get free air fare.  ;)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/23/06 at 5:25 pm


he and the fbi guy assigned to watch him had a toast to underage girls, evidently.



He should get the piss beat out of him just for being a smarmy looking bastard, regardless of whether or not he killed JonBenet.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/23/06 at 8:18 pm



He should get the piss beat out of him just for being a smarmy looking bastard, regardless of whether or not he killed JonBenet.


Smarmy-looking bastard?
http://www.pbs.org/mediashift/files/George%20W.%20Bush.JPG
Who me?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/23/06 at 10:06 pm





Ummm, no.  That is not a smarmy looking bastard.  Bastard yes, smarmy looking no.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 08/24/06 at 7:57 am



He should get the piss beat out of him just for being a smarmy looking bastard, regardless of whether or not he killed JonBenet.
I had to give you applause for this comment.  Good thing I swallowed my coffee right before I read it ;) ;D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/24/06 at 3:25 pm



Ummm, no.  That is not a smarmy looking bastard.  Bastard yes, smarmy looking no.


He looks completely smarmy, until somebody asks him a hard question (like "what's yer name?") and then he looks screwy and confused!
:P

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/24/06 at 3:26 pm


He looks completely smarmy, until somebody asks him a hard question (like "what's yer name?") and then he looks screwy and confused!
:P



You must not know the definition of the word "smarmy" if you think it applies to Bush.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/24/06 at 3:37 pm



You must not know the definition of the word "smarmy" if you think it applies to Bush.


Actually, I double checked.  You're right.  "Smarmy" does not really apply to Dubya. 

http://www.bartleby.com/61/17/S0491700.html

Dubya would like to be smarmy, but the best he can muster is smart aleck.  Presidents Reagan and Clinton both had the smarmy thing down pat!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/24/06 at 3:38 pm


Actually, I double checked.  You're right.  "Smarmy" does not really apply to Dubya. 

http://www.bartleby.com/61/17/S0491700.html

Dubya would like to be smarmy, but the best he can muster is smart aleck.  Presidents Reagan and Clinton both had the smarmy thing down pat!




That is true.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Abix on 08/28/06 at 2:27 am

John Mark Karr reminds me of a psychotic Ed Grimley (even more mental than Mental Ed Grimley).  I have doubts about him being the murderer of JBR, but I do have to wonder how many little Thai, Mexican, and other foreign little kids he molested. We'll probably never know about them, because they don't have the blonde haired barbie doll looks and wealth that poor little Jon Benet had.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/28/06 at 11:36 am


John Mark Karr reminds me of a psychotic Ed Grimley (even more mental than Mental Ed Grimley).  I have doubts about him being the murderer of JBR, but I do have to wonder how many little Thai, Mexican, and other foreign little kids he molested. We'll probably never know about them, because they don't have the blonde haired barbie doll looks and wealth that poor little Jon Benet had.

"Pat Sajak oughta be a pretty decent guy, I must say!"

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/28/06 at 3:20 pm

The DNA doesn't match.  John Mark Karr didn't do it.  I can't believe we all fell for this guy's sh*t.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tam on 08/28/06 at 5:00 pm

I stated at the beginning that he didn't do it.
He needed a ride home is all! ::)


edited to add

Wouldn't surprise me if someone in Thai was after his arse and he had to get out quick!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 08/28/06 at 5:32 pm

Just to clarify, I was using the word "we" in the universal sense, not necessarily meaning those that post here.  I'm aware that quite a few of you professed doubt as to his guilt when it was first announced.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/28/06 at 6:20 pm

I never thought Karr did it.  He he was obsessed with another high-profile murdered child, Polly Klaas.  He moved to Petaluma just because that's where the Klaas family lived.  He's a wanna-be celebrity child murder.  If that's the case, as Mr. T would say, I don't hate Karr, I pity the fool!
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/07/mrt.gif

Mark Klaas, father Polly Klaas who was abducted and slain in 1993, says Karr should be "forever kept away from children."  Not a bad suggestion at all, Mr. Klaas!

There is a conspiracy theory going around that Karr was set up by Homeland Security (probably behest of Karl Rove) to distract the media from the Katrina anniversary.  Not so sure.  Bush is now going to the Gulf Coast for a couple of days.  Maybe the government is trying to distract the media from that!   Dubya's gonna say some asinine, tin-eared bullsh*t down there.  There will be no need for satire or lampoon, the failing Air America network has only to play the quotes!
::)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/28/06 at 6:25 pm

Pardon me whilst I laugh my azz off.

The authorities wanted to believe Karr's story so badly that they bought it hook line and sinker.

I knew he didn't do it from the time of his first ersatz "press conference".  It had con job written all over it.

The flight where he was sucking down giant shrimp and fine wines was a nice touch I gotta say.  ;D ;D

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/28/06 at 6:35 pm


Pardon me whilst I laugh my azz off.

The authorities wanted to believe Karr's story so badly that they bought it hook line and sinker.

I knew he didn't do it from the time of his first ersatz "press conference".  It had con job written all over it.

The flight where he was sucking down giant shrimp and fine wines was a nice touch I gotta say.  ;D ;D

Well, as the folks back home say, "it takes two to tango."  I think certain people were conned because they wanted to be conned!  Don't worry, I think this clown is going to prison for something else.  The shrimp, the champagne, and the prawns will give him something else to miss as the prison screws shove his tray of jail-house slop through a slot in the door!
:P

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Foo Bar on 08/28/06 at 8:27 pm

And the moral of the story is...

...the next time someone claims to have been with a murder victim at the moment of death, and you fly 'em back across the Pacific, having only one MF'n snake on the MF'n plane isn't enough.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/28/06 at 11:57 pm

i bet the real guilty party is someone here, in this thread, right now.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/29/06 at 5:08 am


Well, as the folks back home say, "it takes two to tango."  I think certain people were conned because they wanted to be conned!  Don't worry, I think this clown is going to prison for something else.  The shrimp, the champagne, and the prawns will give him something else to miss as the prison screws shove his tray of jail-house slop through a slot in the door!
:P


From what I have seen in the media, it seems that his Kalifornia kiddie porn problems amount to a misdemeanor and that it is possible he gets time off for time served etc.

My guess is that a book deal will be in the offing.  And if things are really slow at CourTV or Lifetime, a movie of the week.  ;)

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Jessica on 08/29/06 at 9:01 am

It's a shame they couldn't ship him back to Thailand.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/29/06 at 9:52 am

Don't worry, I think this clown is going to prison for something else. 
he's wanted in california for possessing kiddie smut.

anybody notice how his lawyers kept talking about how he "marched to the beat of a different drummer"? that sorta made me curious.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Gis on 08/29/06 at 10:16 am

But hadn't the Thai police arrested him for something anyway?? I think they should send him back there........

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/29/06 at 12:12 pm


From what I have seen in the media, it seems that his Kalifornia kiddie porn problems amount to a misdemeanor and that it is possible he gets time off for time served etc.

My guess is that a book deal will be in the offing.  And if things are really slow at CourTV or Lifetime, a movie of the week.  ;)

Possession of KP is stil a misdemeanor in CA.?  Didn't they pass a law in Arizona mandating four zillion years in super-max for possession of even one photo?  Sounds like Karr got lucky (I mean, legally speaking)!  If he writes a book, I won't buy it. Will you?  Who would?  Somebody.  I remember Jeffrey Dahmer's father, Lionel Dahmer, wrote a book.  Sold OK.  He said all royalties were going to the victims' families.  Apparently, that didn't happen.  Anyway, if there's a TV movie, Karr won't get to play the good guy, especially on Lifetime.  Does anybody actually watch those Lifetime originals?  Well, Karr won't get play himself at least (maybe with himself).  There was supposed to be a TV movie in the offing about Elizabeth Smart (not to be confused with Pam).  She said she wanted to play herself.  They don't talk about the E.Smart case anymore.  I think they found it some things they didn't want to know.  You know, Stockholm syndrome stuff.  Remember Patricia Hearst?



anybody notice how his lawyers kept talking about how he "marched to the beat of a different drummer"? that sorta made me curious.

More like "beat off a different drummer." 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: saver on 08/30/06 at 3:12 pm

Apparently there is no laws against 'saying' you killed someone..doesn't that encourage you to now go overseas, admit to a killing and getting a dinner of shrimp and fine wine?

Plus a free stay in a mental ward for a few hours....

Someone is going to get sued don't you think and the officials may have the egg on their face! 

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/30/06 at 3:26 pm

i was thinking of confessing to a few high-profile murders in order to promote my new band.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/30/06 at 7:43 pm


i was thinking of confessing to a few high-profile murders in order to promote my new band.

What's your band, "Ted Bundy & Girls' Night Out"?

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Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 08/31/06 at 5:29 am


i was thinking of confessing to a few high-profile murders in order to promote my new band.


Yeah... call your band JonB and the Perpetrators

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/31/06 at 10:18 am


Yeah... call your band JonB and the Perpetrators
oo! "the perpetrators" is good! too good, i bet it's taken.

sorry it took me so long to answer this, i gotta stumble over jimmy hoffa's body to get to the phone. i really should get around to dumping him off somewhere.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/31/06 at 12:25 pm

My step-brother is an amateur songwriter, so he took it upon himself to write the most offensive song ever!  He did.  It was a cute acoustic guitar song, sounded sort of of like Extreme's "More Than Words, the title, named for the song's refrain:
"Having Sex with Children is OK."
I wouldn't post the lyrics!
I said, "OK, pal, you proved your point.  Now put it away, and never play it, or you will get lynched."  I'm at least partially to blame for what I did to him when he was a child.  No, nothing like that!  I just taught him the the elements of vulgar parody at an early age.  You know, spit-in-your-eye humor.  Find the most obnoxious thing to say, and say it.  The best targets: the pious, the humorless, the fanatical, and the sanctimonious.
So in the early '90s, there was that wave of child molestor paranoia.  John Walsh. Mark Klaas.  Megan's law.  Sex offender registration.  There's one right in your neighborhood.  Waiter, there's a child molester in my soup!  My bro' had his "most offensive song ever" material cut out for him!  He picked the BIGGEST social taboo.  It's the one remaining topic that could get you taken out and shot if you're on the wrong side of it!  I said, "I know you would never harm a child, and you know you would never harm a child...but they don't!"

The problem is, GG Allin beat him to the subject years before...and GG meant what he said!
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Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Tia on 08/31/06 at 12:44 pm

http://www.onthemedia.org/stream/ram.py?file=otm/otm082506d.mp3

http://www.onthemedia.org/stream/ram.py?file=otm/otm082506c.mp3

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Jessica on 08/31/06 at 2:35 pm

I would just like to take the time to mention Christina Williams. I'm sure nobody knows who she is. Her murder is still unsolved as well. But, as Max as said before, nobody cares because she didn't come from a wealthy family, and she wasn't a blondie with blue eyes.

I still feel for her family though.

http://www.cmwilliams.org/

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 08/31/06 at 9:25 pm


I would just like to take the time to mention Christina Williams. I'm sure nobody knows who she is. Her murder is still unsolved as well. But, as Max as said before, nobody cares because she didn't come from a wealthy family, and she wasn't a blondie with blue eyes.

I still feel for her family though.

http://www.cmwilliams.org/

There are hundreds of murders out there unsolved, both sexes, all ages.
The only reason JonBenet's case made a ten year return was for political distraction.  That's all.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 09/01/06 at 12:16 am

I would think Colorado could get him on SOMETHING....obstruction of justice, fraud, there's gotta' be some obscure law on the books that they can invoke.
I would just like to take the time to mention Christina Williams. I'm sure nobody knows who she is. Her murder is still unsolved as well. But, as Max as said before, nobody cares because she didn't come from a wealthy family, and she wasn't a blondie with blue eyes.

I still feel for her family though.

http://www.cmwilliams.org/
That's the sad thing about all of this.  There are thousands of unsolved murders of children and because of whack-heads like Karr, the police will probably have to take extra precautions to insure it doesn't happen again >:(

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Abix on 09/02/06 at 9:43 pm

Or they should at least lock him up for being mentally ill. State Hospital, here he comes.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 09/03/06 at 7:38 am


I would think Colorado could get him on SOMETHING....obstruction of justice, fraud, there's gotta' be some obscure law on the books that they can invoke.


The Colorado authorities have so much egg on their face that they just want this guy to go away.  I imagine they are scared to death that if they pursue obstruction, etc charges against him that he will win in court and they will then be 100% humiliated (as opposed to about  95% humiliated now).  :-\\

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 09/03/06 at 11:41 am


Or they should at least lock him up for being mentally ill. State Hospital, here he comes.

What decade are you living in?  They've closed the state hospitals.  You get a guy in a florid state of schizophrenia and they give him 13 days on a psychiatric unit and then chuck him out on the street with a bottle of pills.
Not that the state hospitals helped anybody get better!

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Sister Morphine on 09/03/06 at 11:47 am


What decade are you living in?  They've closed the state hospitals.  You get a guy in a florid state of schizophrenia and they give him 13 days on a psychiatric unit and then chuck him out on the street with a bottle of pills.
Not that the state hospitals helped anybody get better!




They closed each and every state hospital in the United States of America?  There isn't a single one......anywhere?

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: LyricBoy on 09/03/06 at 12:17 pm



They closed each and every state hospital in the United States of America?  There isn't a single one......anywhere?


Of course there are still state hospitals.  For example wherever it is that John Hinckley has been staying for the past 25 years or where that lady in Texas who killed her 5 kids was sent to.  (I think Hinckley might be in a private place, not sure about that...)

It is not uncommon for people found "guilty but insane" to be commited to state psych facilities.  However the situation of "psychiatric warehouses" I believe is now gone, and good riddance in most cases.

Then there is the case of drummer Jim Gordon who cowrote Layla with Eric Clapton, and who did the piano solo at the end.  In 1983 he was found guilty of murdering his mother (he said that "voices in his head" commanded him to do it).  He was sentenced to 16 years to life.  He coulda been let out in 1999, but he has spent his entire incarceration at Atascadero State Hospital for the criminally insane in California

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 09/03/06 at 8:26 pm


Of course there are still state hospitals.  For example wherever it is that John Hinckley has been staying for the past 25 years or where that lady in Texas who killed her 5 kids was sent to.  (I think Hinckley might be in a private place, not sure about that...)

It is not uncommon for people found "guilty but insane" to be commited to state psych facilities.  However the situation of "psychiatric warehouses" I believe is now gone, and good riddance in most cases.

Then there is the case of drummer Jim Gordon who cowrote Layla with Eric Clapton, and who did the piano solo at the end.  In 1983 he was found guilty of murdering his mother (he said that "voices in his head" commanded him to do it).  He was sentenced to 16 years to life.  He coulda been let out in 1999, but he has spent his entire incarceration at Atascadero State Hospital for the criminally insane in California

Oh, you know the horror story of poor Jim Gordon?  It's a great pick up line.  When "Layla" comes on the jukebox, turn to the woman on the next stool and say, "Hey, you know the guy who co-wrote  this song killed his mother with a hammer!"
I'll bet what happened right after he did the murder, his mother was back in his head chiding, "You thought you could get rid of me with that hammer? You never could do anything right, could you boy!"
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The other interesting fact about Jim Gordon is he's actually a rich man.  He did A LOT of writing and session work before his mental illness destroyed his career.  As far as I know, he was never married, never had kids.  You can't spend much money locked up in Atascadero, so the royalties just keep accumulating!

The deinstitutionalization movement started in the 1960s and continues to this day.  I would estimate nine out of ten state mental hospitals nationwide operating in 1960 are now closed.  The deinstitutionalization movement was well-intentioned.  The idea was to rely more on smaller community-based facilities, half-way houses, rehabilitation programs, and the like, than to just warehouse the mentally ill as they'd been doing since the mid-19th century.  New and improved psychotrophic medications made it possible to stabilize people with severe psychiatric illnesses enough so they could at least function on a minimal level.  With enough investment, they could have "mainstreamed" a lot more former mental patients.  Unfortunately, it's much easier to shut down a hospital and discharge all the patients than it is to build comprehensive community-based therapeutic and rehabilitative programs.  Adequate investment and manpower never arrived.  Thus, people suffering from debilitating psychiatric problems cycle from short-term psych units to the street or to half-way houses, and then wind up back at another short-term psych unit when everything falls apart.  Horror stories of deinstitutionalization are now as common as the horror stories from within the walls of the old "snakepit" state hospitals.  It's quite tragic, really.
Now, if you're criminally insane, then the deal's a bit different.  The new mental hospitals for the criminally insane are now just "units" of state prisons.  Places such as Atascadero State or Bridgewater State are bad enough.  Be quite sure, though, nobody gets well in jail.

Even the few state hospitals that remain open generally offer only short-term care.  Same for private, even if you're rich.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Abix on 09/04/06 at 9:43 am

We have a few State hospitals here in Minnesota.. Moose Lake, Saint Peter, and I think there's one in Lino Lakes..  I'm sure the people housed within aren't being 'rehabilitated' per se, but at least they aren't roaming around in society, untreated.
When you refer to "de institutionalization" I think we all have images in our head of the old 'nut wards' with the padded walls and shock treatment ala "One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest" or "Snake Pit" (both great movies by the way!) . I think that State hospitals have tried to rehabilitate that image.. but nevertheless, the criminally dangerous who are deemed insane, are housed in State hospitals rather than prisons. 
And back on topic.. I think John Karr deserves to be in a state hospital for his insane gestures.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: Abix on 09/04/06 at 9:54 am


Oh, you know the horror story of poor Jim Gordon?  It's a great pick up line.  When "Layla" comes on the jukebox, turn to the woman on the next stool and say, "Hey, you know the guy who co-wrote  this song killed his mother with a hammer!"
I'll bet what happened right after he did the murder, his mother was back in his head chiding, "You thought you could get rid of me with that hammer? You never could do anything right, could you boy!"
http://www.inthe00s.com/smile/03/couto.gif
The other interesting fact about Jim Gordon is he's actually a rich man.  He did A LOT of writing and session work before his mental illness destroyed his career.  As far as I know, he was never married, never had kids.  You can't spend much money locked up in Atascadero, so the royalties just keep accumulating!

The deinstitutionalization movement started in the 1960s and continues to this day.  I would estimate nine out of ten state mental hospitals nationwide operating in 1960 are now closed.  The deinstitutionalization movement was well-intentioned.  The idea was to rely more on smaller community-based facilities, half-way houses, rehabilitation programs, and the like, than to just warehouse the mentally ill as they'd been doing since the mid-19th century.  New and improved psychotrophic medications made it possible to stabilize people with severe psychiatric illnesses enough so they could at least function on a minimal level.  With enough investment, they could have "mainstreamed" a lot more former mental patients.  Unfortunately, it's much easier to shut down a hospital and discharge all the patients than it is to build comprehensive community-based therapeutic and rehabilitative programs.  Adequate investment and manpower never arrived.  Thus, people suffering from debilitating psychiatric problems cycle from short-term psych units to the street or to half-way houses, and then wind up back at another short-term psych unit when everything falls apart.  Horror stories of deinstitutionalization are now as common as the horror stories from within the walls of the old "snakepit" state hospitals.  It's quite tragic, really.
Now, if you're criminally insane, then the deal's a bit different.  The new mental hospitals for the criminally insane are now just "units" of state prisons.  Places such as Atascadero State or Bridgewater State are bad enough.  Be quite sure, though, nobody gets well in jail.

Even the few state hospitals that remain open generally offer only short-term care.  Same for private, even if you're rich.

I never knew this about Eric Clapton's drummer.. Great piece of Trivia :) . We all learn something new everyday.

Subject: Re: Arrest made in JonBenet Ramsey case

Written By: MaxwellSmart on 09/04/06 at 5:44 pm


I never knew this about Eric Clapton's drummer.. Great piece of Trivia :) . We all learn something new everyday.

Several high-profile musicians from that era developed mental health problems  There was the late Syd Barrett, of course.  Peter Green, a founding member of Fleetwood Mac was institutionalized several times.  Schizophrenia, perhaps precipitated by LSD.  He also received ECT.  Green didn't kill anybody, but he did threaten his accountant with a rifle--but I can't say for sure that's a sign of mental illness.  Rock musician's accountants need to be kept scared straight.  Willie Nelson could have taken a cue from Peter Green!  Green wrote "Black Magic Woman," but later became a born again Christian.

Skip Spence (R.I.P.) of Moby Grape was also institutionalized with schizophrenia after he tried to kill fellow Grapers Doc Stevenson and Jerry Miller with one of those huge axes firefighters use!

Phil Judd, a founding member of Split Enz (and remember the Enz went back to 1972) had several serious pyschological issues, including trichotillomania (the urge to pull out hair).  He shaved his head when Split Enz was all about the giant frightwig-style hair-dos!

Let's see, who else...





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