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or because the Internet is annoymous.
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Not so anonymous as you'd think..  ;)

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Because they have nothing better to do. ::)
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That is quite true.
Also these people may be weenies in real life, and are too afraid to say anything to anybody in reality. But online they talk like real "tough guys", and try to intimidate others.

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It's because the Internet is full of stupid people.  Stupid people like to make jerks of themselves online, of course, but stupid people also make people who are smart (and people who think they're smart) angry and ill-tempered.  The result is a worldwide web of enmity and bad manners.
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It's a good thing that ChuckyG has banned stupid people from the Decades Messageboards.

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AOL DOES have chatrooms and message boards where disABLED people,their friends,and their families can go to recieve support,advice,and acceptance from others who are in the same situation! 8)
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Cool! Perhaps you can refer Andrew to them by placing a link in this thread. :) It's always nice to have options! :D

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It's because the Internet is full of stupid people.  Stupid people like to make jerks of themselves online, of course, but stupid people also make people who are smart (and people who think they're smart) angry and ill-tempered.  The result is a worldwide web of enmity and bad manners.
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My thoughts exactly...just ignore 'em that's what I do.

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Because they have nothing better to do. ::)
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I think that covers the reasons people go to chatrooms/ bulletin boards in the first place also...most of the people who write on this site are so darned politically-correct & 'right-on' that anything that differs from the US/Canada mainstream opinion is generally ignored here; for this reason, I don't often write here anymore as I feel my 'controversial' comments would offend people...just like I probably just have! Best Wishes from the read-only Goodsin!! ;)

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ToO mUCh rAdiATioN eXpoSUrE fRom tHe vIdEo dISpLay...  ;)

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It's a good thing that ChuckyG has banned stupid people from the Decades Messageboards.

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He can't have - I'm still here.  ;D

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I think that covers the reasons people go to chatrooms/ bulletin boards in the first place also...most of the people who write on this site are so darned politically-correct & 'right-on' that anything that differs from the US/Canada mainstream opinion is generally ignored here; for this reason, I don't often write here anymore as I feel my 'controversial' comments would offend people...just like I probably just have! Best Wishes from the read-only Goodsin!! ;)
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This is a shame that you feel this way, Goodsin. We are missing out on your comments if you choose to just read only.

I admittedly have felt a similar feeling but I just shrug it off and try to talk on an international level (that is apart from when I say 'bloke' when I mean 'man' and 'fags' when I mean 'cigarettes' - that's a mistake you don't want to make too often  ;D).

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This is a shame that you feel this way, Goodsin. We are missing out on your comments if you choose to just read only.

I admittedly have felt a similar feeling but I just shrug it off and try to talk on an international level (that is apart from when I say 'bloke' when I mean 'man' and 'fags' when I mean 'cigarettes' - that's a mistake you don't want to make too often  ;D).
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God, someone noticed I was here! Thanks for the affirmation, Bobby! When I first came to this board, there were loads of issues I felt I needed to comment on. Having commented on some of them (I believe I have a right to do so & that this is what such boards are designed for), I gradually became more & more despondent with the replies (or lack of them!). I feel somewhat ostracised for being British, like my comments are not worthy of reply because I am not from Northern America. As I don't wish to upset what is obviously a carefully-contrived atmosphere of PC banality, this will be the last time I use even mildly 'provocative' language here. At the end of the day, I don't want to be considered offensive just for stating an opinion in a forthright fashion... :'( :-*

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God, someone noticed I was here! Thanks for the affirmation, Bobby! When I first came to this board, there were loads of issues I felt I needed to comment on. Having commented on some of them (I believe I have a right to do so & that this is what such boards are designed for), I gradually became more & more despondent with the replies (or lack of them!). I feel somewhat ostracised for being British, like my comments are not worthy of reply because I am not from Northern America. As I don't wish to upset what is obviously a carefully-contrived atmosphere of PC banality, this will be the last time I use even mildly 'provocative' language here. At the end of the day, I don't want to be considered offensive just for stating an opinion in a forthright fashion... :'( :-*
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The way I see it Goodsin is that we are people of the world and not people of a continent or way of life. This was one of the main reason why I came to this board. Everybody has experiences and ideas they can share. We all have similarities, we just have to tap into them. Maybe we can learn from the people over the other side of the pond and vise-versa.

Make your views known, Goodsin. There are people who are likely to agree with you as well as disagree.  ;)

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They like to flame people. >:(
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There are a lot worse websites than this, Howard. I have come off a couple because of their 'them and us' attitude (and I was on the 'them' side!)

The fact that I am still here is a testament to how much I love this place.  :)

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Ok-here is the situation. I play a lot of games on-line. Sometimes my husband plays too-using my name. Why is it that some people think that just because your name is Catwoman that you want attention from men? But, the funny thing is, is that hubby seems to get hit on more then I do. I think because he usually plays poker and I guess all the sleaziods hang out in the poker game. He said to one guy, "Married-and male" the guy disappeared faster then you can say "cyber-space." Another guy I guess didn't believe him that he was male-just using my account/name. The guy was obnoxious and very rude. This is only two of the many incidents that has happened.  Why are guys like this?


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Cat, the same thing has happened to me, except when I'm using my name.  If I don't want to talk to them, I tell them I'm male, 38 & from Berkeley, CA.  They usually are shocked, but leave me alone.  And, this isn't in poker, it's on almost every Yahoo game I've played. ;D

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There are a lot worse websites than this, Howard. I have come off a couple because of their 'them and us' attitude (and I was on the 'them' side!)

The fact that I am still here is a testament to how much I love this place.  :)
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Hey,I'm still here as well. ;D

Howard

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Ok-here is the situation. I play a lot of games on-line. Sometimes my husband plays too-using my name. Why is it that some people think that just because your name is Catwoman that you want attention from men? But, the funny thing is, is that hubby seems to get hit on more then I do. I think because he usually plays poker and I guess all the sleaziods hang out in the poker game. He said to one guy, "Married-and male" the guy disappeared faster then you can say "cyber-space." Another guy I guess didn't believe him that he was male-just using my account/name. The guy was obnoxious and very rude. This is only two of the many incidents that has happened.  Why are guys like this?


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Most of the time guys have nothing better to do, so they just go online and see if they can score some "cyber".  :(

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I think the reason that AOL and other ISP's don't have stricter standards is that most folks feel that the Internet is a place for "freedom of expression"-in other words ANYTHING GOES-and those subscribers would move to another ISP rather than complying with standards that would censor them. Also.it's not cool with some folks if you report them,they find ways of getting even with you,even finding ways to attack your computer!
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I think that covers the reasons people go to chatrooms/ bulletin boards in the first place also...most of the people who write on this site are so darned politically-correct & 'right-on' that anything that differs from the US/Canada mainstream opinion is generally ignored here; for this reason, I don't often write here anymore as I feel my 'controversial' comments would offend people...just like I probably just have! Best Wishes from the read-only Goodsin!! ;)
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I agree with Bobby, you should post more often.  I realize we may not agree on certain subjects, but that's one of the reasons I come to boards.  Most of the "moms" in my neighborhood could care less about most things that don't involve shopping, spending $$, or their kids so it's nice to have other adults to "talk" to.  I come here because I usually don't have to worry about being called derogatory names just because my opinion differs from someone elses.  Also, I think it's interesting to see how other people view our country and hear what they think on different subjects, from the hard-hitting to the purely trivial.

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Me too.  Some may find moderated boards not very fun, but I like this board because I don't have to worry about seeing cussing in all capital letters every other post, like some other boards I've seen.  Sure, unmoderated boards might be more fun for some, but they are way too junked up with too much unnecessary crap from trolls, etc.

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Me too.  Some may find moderated boards not very fun, but I like this board because I don't have to worry about seeing cussing in all capital letters every other post, like some other boards I've seen.  Sure, unmoderated boards might be more fun for some, but they are way too junked up with too much unnecessary crap from trolls, etc.
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The only other boards I go to regularly are pretty much unmoderated.  At one, language is not censored, but personal attacks are not allowed.  At the other, everything is allowed, but we're all a group of moms that have been "chatting" for years.  We rarely swear on that one, but it's still more trivial "what I did today" kind of stuff.

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You're very welcome. :)

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You're very welcome. :)
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ChuckyG has done the world a wonderful service by creating this site and its forums. I am very proud to be a part of it and glad you are all part of it as well. Thank you ChuckyG and all!

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I think the reason that AOL and other ISP's don't have stricter standards is that most folks feel that the Internet is a place for "freedom of expression"-in other words ANYTHING GOES-and those subscribers would move to another ISP rather than complying with standards that would censor them. Also.it's not cool with some folks if you report them,they find ways of getting even with you,even finding ways to attack your computer!
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What really gets me poed is what is said about alternative lifestyles. My best friend is gay,and NONE of the stuff said online about gays is true according to this person. They say stuff like "gays are child molesters' and stuff like that! How can gays be"molesters"if there are gay couples ADOPTING kids?

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What really gets me poed is what is said about alternative lifestyles. My best friend is gay,and NONE of the stuff said online about gays is true according to this person. They say stuff like "gays are child molesters' and stuff like that! How can gays be"molesters"if there are gay couples ADOPTING kids?
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This is a bit off-topic but I will answer your question as I understand the answer. Some people are afraid of gays. Why? That I do not know. I think some people think that being gay is contagous and someone might "catch it." So, to justify their fear, they turn these people into monsters-i.e. child molesters. That is same as any prejudice towards race, religion, etc. If you turn a group into something despicable, you have justified your reasoning for fear and hatred.  I'm sure there are probably child molesters who are gay but NOT ALL. Just like not all Catholic priests are molesters either. Being one does not make you the other. Personally, I think any prejudice stems from igornance.




Cat

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What really gets me poed is what is said about alternative lifestyles. My best friend is gay,and NONE of the stuff said online about gays is true according to this person. They say stuff like "gays are child molesters' and stuff like that! How can gays be"molesters"if there are gay couples ADOPTING kids?
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I agree with Cat.  But, I would like to add that almost anyone can adopt a child.  Yes, there are strict guidelines, but molesters have been able to adopt kids in the past.  Now, if someone was a convicted child molester, they wouldn't be able to, but it's not something people would put on an adoption application.  And, as most molesters try to keep that part of their lives as private as possible, and are usually pretty good liars, it's difficult to tell if someone is a child moleester or not.