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Subject: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: dagwood on 05/27/03 at 05:46 a.m.

My heart just breaks for this family.  Please keep your thoughts and prayers with them.

http://www.sltrib.com/2003/May/t05272003.asp

IDAHO FALLS, Idaho -- Police planned to resume searching part of the Snake River today for a missing Utah toddler who allegedly was abducted by her grandmother, a transient with a history of mental illness, authorities said.
   Although Kelley Jean Lodmell, 38, initially told Idaho Falls police she lost her hold on 19-month-old Acacia Patience Bishop while the two were dipping their feet in the water, authorities were skeptical, Idaho Falls police Sgt. Steve Hunt said Monday.

"We have enough information to treat this as a homicide investigation," Hunt said, adding that evidence was found in the Red Lion Hotel room Lodmell had checked into Sunday. He would not elaborate.
   Lodmell was taken into police custody about 18 hours after she allegedly took Acacia from another relative's home in Salt Lake County about 6 p.m. Sunday. A nationwide Amber Alert was issued for the child about 4 a.m. Monday.
   An Idaho Falls Power employee called 911 about 11:45 a.m. Monday after a woman ran into the hydropower plant on the banks of the Snake River diversion.
   The woman, later identified by police as Lodmell, was wet and told an operator that her baby had fallen in the river and was drowning, said dispatch supervisor Ken Lawson. "She came right in here off the river, I guess," he said.  

The employee shut down the power plant so the child would not be sucked into the water grates, Lawson said.
   Police dispatched 12 dive teams to search the water, along with officers and dogs to scour a nearby park. The search was called off about 8:30 p.m. because of waning daylight and poor visibility in the water, Hunt said.
   Lodmell's shoes were found in two separate spots, and a child's pair of shoes and a doll were also found near the water, he said. Lodmell was emotional, Hunt said, but cooperating with authorities.
   "According to the divers, the current is fast enough with the turbines running that it would be difficult for a good swimmer to swim upstream," Hunt said. "We believe, at this point, that it's likely the baby is in the water, but haven't ruled out that the baby may be somewhere else."
   The last person to see Acacia was a clerk at the hotel, who "noticed nothing out of the ordinary" when the woman and baby checked in, said Salt Lake County Sheriff Aaron Kennard.
   The national Amber Alert was canceled at 6:55 p.m. Monday, since Lodmell was in custody and her car was found in the hotel parking lot, said Salt Lake County sheriff's spokeswoman Peggy Faulkner.
   In Salt Lake City, Lodmell's daughter and Acacia's mother, 22-year-old Casey Lodmell, said earlier Monday she had not allowed her mother to see Acacia unsupervised after a previous abduction attempt about a year ago.
   On Sunday evening, Casey Lodmell had left Acacia in the care of Linda Lodmell, her grandmother and Kelley Lodmell's mother, who often baby-sat the child, authorities said. Kelley Lodmell, who relatives said was living out of her car, was doing laundry at the home near 4500 S. 700 East at the time.
   Linda Lodmell said Monday she was cleaning and went to put her vacuum cleaner away. When she returned seconds later, her daughter and great-granddaughter were gone, she said.
   Casey Lodmell, who lives in Holladay with Acacia's father, 28-year-old Adam Bishop, said her mother "wanted for herself."
   When the two disappeared last year, she said, she found Acacia within a half-hour at an acquaintance's apartment. She notified police and filed a complaint afterward, she said, but her mother, who at the time was living in an apartment, never answered her door and authorities could take no action.
   Casey Lodmell said Monday she did not seek a restraining order against her mother -- something she now regrets -- but tried to stay in contact with her and let her see Acacia occasionally. "She's usually safe around other people," she said of Kelley Lodmell.
   When she took Acacia to her grandmother's, she said, she thought her mother was about to leave because she was cleaning out her car.
   Linda Lodmell said her daughter "needs professional help. She's needed it for quite a long time. The system will not help us."
   Kelley Lodmell has been diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, but is not currently taking medication and in the past has taken it only when she could afford it, her mother said. She said her daughter previously has received treatment but only on a short-term basis.
   "It's like putting a Band-Aid on something," Linda Lodmell said. "There's people like my daughter that are getting shuffled all over and not getting the help they need."
   She said she "more or less raised Casey ... I had her more than Kelley did."
   Notified about 6 p.m. Sunday, authorities at first thought the abduction was a custodial issue, Faulkner said. But after interviewing family members, police decided to issue an Amber Alert.
   Kelley Lodmell was to spend Monday night in the Bonneville County Jail, and was set to appear in court at 1 p.m. in Idaho Falls, Hunt said.
   A search of Salt Lake court records shows Kelley Lodmell pleaded guilty in March to misdemeanor charges of threatening to use or using a dangerous weapon in a fight, intoxication and disorderly conduct. Third District Judge Dennis Fuchs gave her credit for 60 days she had served in jail and ordered her to serve 18 months of probation and 40 hours of community service.
   In 2000, she pleaded guilty to third-degree felony aggravated assault, a crime which records show occurred near Linda Lodmell's home in November 1999. She was placed on probation, which was later terminated as successful.
   Acacia's parents and the rest of Kelley Lodmell's family gathered at the home of Linda Lodmell's mother -- Acacia's great-great-grandmother -- to await news.
   "I would like to see both of them come home safely," Casey Lodmell said earlier in the day. "We have five generations, and now two of my generations are gone."

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: princessofpop on 05/27/03 at 06:08 a.m.

Dag, this is also posted over in PPP, but thank you for posting it here.

I wanted to say something though.....

It has become a daily habit of mine to visit the following website:  www.missingkids.org

I highly recommend people bookmarking this page & checking it frequently.  Most of the time when a child or person is missing, we tend to only focus on the ones that get national media attention.  However, most of these cases are usually just featured in the local news from whatever town the person is missing from.  

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: 80s_cheerleader on 05/27/03 at 06:09 a.m.

I hope she is found.  Her poor mother and great-grandmother. :'(

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Don_Carlos on 05/27/03 at 01:06 p.m.

As I've mentioned before, I have 4 kids, and as I line them up in my mind and move the one at the back to the front each one, as they come to the front is more preciouse to me.  I can't imagine the pain I would feel to lose one of those wonderful young people.  I have known people who have lost kids - one just last winter to an auto accident.  And on a less perminant note, I just had a big fight with my youngest, and said some things which I regret, and for which I have apologized.  This is a parent's worst nightmare.  May the goddess protect the children.  And failing that, may WE.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Marian on 05/27/03 at 01:24 p.m.


Quoting:
I hope she is found.  Her poor mother and great-grandmother. :'(
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:'(I hope she's found,too.People assume that because a child is taken by a relative,they're probably safe.That's just not true.The child's life could be in danger,or the kidnapper could keep the child for years,ensuring that the kid grows up to be a total jerk who thinks bad things about the other parent.Cheers!

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: dagwood on 05/27/03 at 05:23 p.m.


Quoting:
Dag, this is also posted over in PPP, but thank you for posting it here.

I wanted to say something though.....

It has become a daily habit of mine to visit the following website:  www.missingkids.org

I highly recommend people bookmarking this page & checking it frequently.  Most of the time when a child or person is missing, we tend to only focus on the ones that get national media attention.  However, most of these cases are usually just featured in the local news from whatever town the person is missing from.  
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I saw that this morning after I posted this thread.  Great link, thanks for posting it.  You are right we do need to check it daily.  

When I heard on the news last night that they were treating this case as a murder, my heart just broke.  I don't understand how anyone can hurt a child.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: John_Harvey on 05/27/03 at 05:27 p.m.

I hate to see these kind of posts. It kills you to read these type of things. It's nice, though, to see everyone together to express their concern.

My prayers go with everyone involved in this whole thing.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: dagwood on 05/27/03 at 05:38 p.m.


Quoting:
I hate to see these kind of posts. It kills you to read these type of things. It's nice, though, to see everyone together to express their concern.

My prayers go with everyone involved in this whole thing.
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That is the nice thing about these boards...no matter how much we disagree on some things we can still be friendly to one another.  

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: princessofpop on 05/28/03 at 08:50 a.m.

I won't post the link, but you can find out the latest by going on CNN.com

:'( :'(

May her grandmother rot in Hell.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: dagwood on 05/28/03 at 05:35 p.m.

I drive by the neighborhood her great grandma lives in on the way to and from work daily.  There are posters on every tree and pole.  It just breaks my heart.  I feel so bad for her mother.  Better post before I cry,.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Marian on 05/28/03 at 08:52 p.m.


Quoting:
I drive by the neighborhood her great grandma lives in on the way to and from work daily.  There are posters on every tree and pole.  It just breaks my heart.  I feel so bad for her mother.  Better post before I cry,.
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:'( :'( :'(It's really sad.On the news,they said they still haven't fpound the child.It's really sad the young woman had to consider a restraining order against her mother,but I guess maybe she felt safe because of her grandmother and great-grandmother.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: John_Harvey on 05/29/03 at 08:50 a.m.

Quoting:
I won't post the link, but you can find out the latest by going on CNN.com

:'( :'(

May her grandmother rot in Hell.
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I don't know. The grandmother seemed mentally unstable. I don't know the situation, so I can't pass judgement. Was she sane enough to be responsible for what she did?

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Marian on 05/29/03 at 10:24 a.m.


Quoting:

I don't know. The grandmother seemed mentally unstable. I don't know the situation, so I can't pass judgement. Was she sane enough to be responsible for what she did?
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>:( >Well God forbid,if someone killed or other wise harmed me,you can be dang sure they're responsible!I mean,people can't have it both ways!If you can drive a car,have sex,or whatever,well,if you have the rifgt to do these things,then you have responsibilities,too!:( >:(

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Don_Carlos on 05/29/03 at 02:38 p.m.

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>:( >Well God forbid,if someone killed or other wise harmed me,you can be dang sure they're responsible!I mean,people can't have it both ways!If you can drive a car,have sex,or whatever,well,if you have the rifgt to do these things,then you have responsibilities,too!:( >:(
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Not going to go there, except to say "judge not least ye be judged"  "Rotting in hell", as I understand it POP, is up to God, not us.  Your emotional reaction is understandable though.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: princessofpop on 05/29/03 at 04:13 p.m.


Quoting:


Not going to go there, except to say "judge not least ye be judged"  "Rotting in hell", as I understand it POP, is up to God, not us.  Your emotional reaction is understandable though.
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If that's how you see it, that's your opinion.  And "rotting in hell" doesn't necessarily mean "I hope God sends her to Hell in a handbasket", it's a figure of speech.  Kinda like the term "Go to Hell"  ;)  :)

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Tarzan Boy on 05/29/03 at 04:27 p.m.

Hell yeah. I hope the old bag dies a slow painful death if hell be too much for 'er then. Nope. No pity for anyone who harms a child, no matter who and under what circumstances it is.

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: princessofpop on 05/29/03 at 04:52 p.m.


Quoting:
No pity for anyone who harms a child, no matter who and under what circumstances it is.
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Yep!  No pity what-so-ever.  None.  Nada.  Anyone who hurts a child deserves to be painfully tortured until they stop breathing.  :)

Subject: Re: kidnapped 19 month old

Written By: Marian on 05/29/03 at 05:21 p.m.


Quoting:
Hell yeah. I hope the old bag dies a slow painful death if hell be too much for 'er then. Nope. No pity for anyone who harms a child, no matter who and under what circumstances it is.
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:( :(Actually the grand mother is only 38,the same age as me.She had her daughter when she was about 16.But,yeah---how could she NOT know what she was doing,if that's what happened.?Cheers!