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Subject: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: jamminoldies on 01/30/02 at 08:53 p.m.


My girlfriend after 5 years calls it quits and ends our relationship........ :'(

When you've gotten so use to the friendly staff at your workplace and then they either get fired or they quit after a certain # of years in your workplace........ :'(

When your best friends you've hung out with during the 1980's and 1990's fade into obilvion and then you wonder to yourself,"Whatever happened to all my friends that I used to hang out with"?"Man,I need to make new friends,myself"!.........I feel like a hermit! >:(

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Tish on 01/30/02 at 10:25 p.m.

ack! This didn't all go down on the same day, did it?? I hope...???

:)

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Bobo on 01/31/02 at 01:22 a.m.


Quoting:

My girlfriend after 5 years calls it quits and ends our relationship........ :'(

When you've gotten so use to the friendly staff at your workplace and then they either get fired or they quit after a certain # of years in your workplace........ :'(

When your best friends you've hung out with during the 1980's and 1990's fade into obilvion and then you wonder to yourself,"Whatever happened to all my friends that I used to hang out with"?"Man,I need to make new friends,myself"!.........I feel like a hermit! >:(
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Man, that's not so good. I'm sorry.

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Marci on 01/31/02 at 01:06 p.m.


Quoting:

My girlfriend after 5 years calls it quits and ends our relationship........ :'(

When you've gotten so use to the friendly staff at your workplace and then they either get fired or they quit after a certain # of years in your workplace........ :'(

When your best friends you've hung out with during the 1980's and 1990's fade into obilvion and then you wonder to yourself,"Whatever happened to all my friends that I used to hang out with"?"Man,I need to make new friends,myself"!.........I feel like a hermit! >:(
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I'm so sorry!  Talk about having a bad day!! (or couple of days, I would hope.. ::) )
It can be tough when people start going their separate ways. Though I havent lost a long time love,  I've had that happen with some of my old friends.  It's a shame..I remember we used to say that we were all like that line in Bon Jovi's song "Blood on Blood":
"Through the years and miles between us
It's been a long and lonely ride
But if I got that call in the dead of the night
I'd be right by your side"
I mean, true as it might be, things start to change an awful lot when your friends marry people you don't care for (like racist idiots and wife-beaters), they get involved with stuff you can't understand (like drugs, affairs and having babies with someone other than their spouse) , and the worst yet stealing from you and your family at the worst possible time... ::)  In any case, I know this isn't really relelvant to you personally, but just wanted to say I really feel for ya and I understand how strange it is when things you thought would "last forever" just, well, don't.   :(

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Kryllith on 01/31/02 at 03:19 p.m.

Quoting:
When your best friends you've hung out with during the 1980's and 1990's fade into obilvion and then you wonder to yourself,"Whatever happened to all my friends that I used to hang out with"?"
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Check out classmates.com.  You can find out who's listed on it for free, but it requires a membership (about $20.00 for a year) to use the direct contact (through email) they provide.  One of my best friends who moved out of the country and pretty much disappeared for 11 years got in contacts with me earlier this year.  Now we talk and play online games together nearly nightly.  In addition to that, I just found out that one of my best friends in elementary school (who I haven't seen in 20 years) just recently moved to within 2 hours from me... (btw, this didn't cost me anything... I just used the site as a starting point for tracking them down)

Kryllith

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: jamminoldies on 01/31/02 at 09:32 p.m.


Quoting:
ack! This didn't all go down on the same day, did it?? I hope...???

:)
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Thank you for caring.
actually My girlfriend moved into a residence in October of last year and she thought that the relationship wasn't getting anywhere,so she quit seeing me.Oh well,more fish in the seas.gotta move on now.

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: jamminoldies on 01/31/02 at 09:35 p.m.


Quoting:


Man, that's not so good. I'm sorry.
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and thank u for caring,Bobo.
My girlfriend quit seeing me in October of last year cause she moved into a residence and she thought the relationship wasn't going anywhere.

and plus,I need to make new friends.some of the friends I have right now are mostly jerks and scumbags to say the least.

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: jamminoldies on 01/31/02 at 09:36 p.m.


Quoting:


I'm so sorry!  Talk about having a bad day!! (or couple of days, I would hope.. ::) )
It can be tough when people start going their separate ways. Though I havent lost a long time love,  I've had that happen with some of my old friends.  It's a shame..I remember we used to say that we were all like that line in Bon Jovi's song "Blood on Blood":
"Through the years and miles between us
It's been a long and lonely ride
But if I got that call in the dead of the night
I'd be right by your side"
I mean, true as it might be, things start to change an awful lot when your friends marry people you don't care for (like racist idiots and wife-beaters), they get involved with stuff you can't understand (like drugs, affairs and having babies with someone other than their spouse) , and the worst yet stealing from you and your family at the worst possible time... ::)  In any case, I know this isn't really relelvant to you personally, but just wanted to say I really feel for ya and I understand how strange it is when things you thought would "last forever" just, well, don't.   :(
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and thank you for caring,Marcy. :D

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Bobo on 02/01/02 at 12:18 a.m.


Quoting:


and thank u for caring,Bobo.
My girlfriend quit seeing me in October of last year cause she moved into a residence and she thought the relationship wasn't going anywhere.

and plus,I need to make new friends.some of the friends I have right now are mostly jerks and scumbags to say the least.
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Any time at all, we're all friends on this board, and as such, we all offer support whenever we can, right?

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Rapture on 02/02/02 at 07:16 p.m.

jammin what can I say but ...man, that sucks! :P

I hope things improve for you. :)  Send me an IM anytime, if you want a friend to chat with. :)

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: useless_facts_man on 04/24/02 at 01:41 a.m.

Sorry :-(((((

Life sucks sometimes

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Howard on 11/19/03 at 06:58 p.m.

....when I finally rid myself of the useless workshop I used to attend for 4 years.Now,I love going to a real training program that will help me get a job for sure.I was always tired of being vegetated!It's something like a 15 day evaluation then they see what you capabilities are.after that,they call your VESID counselor to have a meeting with you! ;D


(I'm glad I dug into the archives for this one! :D)


Howard

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Dagwood on 11/19/03 at 07:05 p.m.

Good luck, Howard.  I hope you find a great job! :D

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Mike_Florio on 11/19/03 at 07:44 p.m.

Well hey, Howard, as Coach B. said today at practice..."whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger!"  Stay optimistic and good will come your way.

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Bobby on 11/20/03 at 02:51 a.m.

I appreciate the last part, Howard (friends fading into oblivion). With me, it was an unnacceptance that they had moved on and I hadn't. I don't see many of my old friends now.

I'm sure that things will go better for you. It is a cliche but the darkest hour is before the dawn so to speak. You never know, something great is ready for you around the corner - accept that and it will come true.  :)

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Fred on 11/20/03 at 05:53 p.m.

Hope everythings better for you now Howard.

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Howard on 11/20/03 at 05:58 p.m.

much better.Thank You all. ;D


Howard

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: NullandVoid on 11/21/03 at 03:58 p.m.

...when you look at the calendar and realized that you've been unemployed for roughly 75% of the year.

....when your 25th B'day is about 50 days away and you still live with mom AND share a room with a sibling.

....when you stop believing in love


I feel depressed now :(

Subject: Re: I know my life is changing when........

Written By: Howard on 11/22/03 at 10:13 a.m.

When my 30th Birthday is just 3 1/2 months away! :yay:  ;D


Howard